Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

96Blue

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sounds like she wasn’t into you from the jump. Asking you to get her nails down isn’t right.

but you stated “I tell her what really happened” what exactly occurred for you not to text her?
Almost got fired from my job and I got rear ended by an old CAC.
 

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I was trying hard to get with Brehette, but it feels like I'm chasing her. I took her out, then texted her when I got home and didn't text her for a couple days. I finally text her, she asks me what happened, I tell her what really happened and she tells me she wants me to get her nails done and that she wants to make us official, I say ok (I'm not paying to get her nails done). It's been a few days and she hasn't texted me and the only time I get a text back is when I text first. At this point it feels like I'm chasing her and I'm not chasing any woman that isn't making me feel like she is into me too.
Make it official after one date?!
 

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if you have a disagreement with ANY woman, if it can't get resolved in five minutes or less, charge it to the game and exit the conversation, especially if she's mad.

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Wrong.

Always purposefully and needlessly escalate any sort of argument and put the relationship in jeopardy.

Make every single argument a test of the future.

Do this early and often.

Make the chick EARN YOUR LOVE.
Make her earn your cooperation.
Make her understand any sort of backtalk, any sort of compromise, comes at a STEEP PRICE.

Stop letting these broads emotionally terrorize you, keep you silent, got YOU, A GROWN ASS MAN, walking on egg shells.

Turn the tables.

- Future
 

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Wrong.

Always purposefully and needlessly escalate any sort of argument and put the relationship in jeopardy.

Make every single argument a test of the future.

Do this early and often.

Make the chick EARN YOUR LOVE.
Make her earn your cooperation.
Make her understand any sort of backtalk, any sort of compromise, comes at a STEEP PRICE.

Stop letting these broads emotionally terrorize you, keep you silent, got YOU, A GROWN ASS MAN, walking on egg shells.

Turn the tables.

- Future

no I'm right, but we can agree to disagree because I'm too tired for a conversation right now breh

I honestly don't know why you quoted me instead of anyone else, and emphatically told me I'm wrong lol

I'm right breh, I recognize your poster name and you're usually cool so it's all good
 

Astroslik

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no I'm right, but we can agree to disagree because I'm too tired for a conversation right now breh

I honestly don't know why you quoted me instead of anyone else, and emphatically told me I'm wrong lol

I'm right breh, I recognize your poster name and you're usually cool so it's all good
You’re not right.
 

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My Nigerian platonic female friend tryna matchmake me with her nigerian friend in Nigeria. I declined I'm not down with long distance but she kept insisting, she sent me her number & pics.

Shawty is a dyme, I'm tempted :francis:
 

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I was trying hard to get with Brehette, but it feels like I'm chasing her. I took her out, then texted her when I got home and didn't text her for a couple days. I finally text her, she asks me what happened, I tell her what really happened and she tells me she wants me to get her nails done and that she wants to make us official, I say ok (I'm not paying to get her nails done). It's been a few days and she hasn't texted me and the only time I get a text back is when I text first. At this point it feels like I'm chasing her and I'm not chasing any woman that isn't making me feel like she is into me too.
she asked you upfront to get her nails done? Did you even smash yet?

She’s playing you fam..
 

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Wrong.

Always purposefully and needlessly escalate any sort of argument and put the relationship in jeopardy.

Make every single argument a test of the future.

Do this early and often.

Make the chick EARN YOUR LOVE.
Make her earn your cooperation.
Make her understand any sort of backtalk, any sort of compromise, comes at a STEEP PRICE.

Stop letting these broads emotionally terrorize you, keep you silent, got YOU, A GROWN ASS MAN, walking on egg shells.

Turn the tables.

- Future
I call it the early stress test.
 
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