Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Just got out of an engagement with a “religious” women. They are fulla shyt too.
that part
Iceson Beckford
Rich In Spirit.
What religion was she?
Christian. She was a supreme gaslighter and dismissive avoidant. Always using God to try to justify her dumbass decisions.
Do you consider yourself religious?
Digital Omen
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Same shyt I said to every other club birdHow tf you skipped the most important part?
That "15 min" is exactly why most of us come to this thread.
nikka, I need to know exactly how you got to the making out part. What were you saying?
I'm in a drought nikka help!!!!!
Name, where you from, oh for real? yeah I love the bay, which part are you from? Vallejo? is E-40 your favorite rapper? No? who? How long you in town for?
bla bla bla bla bla...
It's just superficial banter, finding something she can relate to. I think she liked the fact that I knew Vallejo existed.
In this specific case they stood out since they were Asian...we don't have any here and then the fact that we're in a club and they were both wearing the DTF uniform (heels and mini skirt barely covering their asses) made it too easy.
At the same time I was bullshytting, I was physically close (your basic club convo where you gotta yell in each other's ear and shyt)
At some point it just happened. I went in for the kiss and she was down.
At the end of the day I didn't have to say much. They were in town for a girls trip and wanted to get their backs blown out. My boy saw them first and pointed them out, we immediately stepped to them with no hesitation.
Looking back I think that's what got us in. Not the bullshyt basic convo that we've all had a million times. Confidence is what makes them wet.
That's a good breakdown of the club scene, the thing is you need patience and alcohol, my boys can do that almost every night, but me, being sober, it's just too chaotic and disorganized to wait for that 2:00 AM intimacy
an example of the kind of avoidant behavior that is so common, there's a woman I have known for like 8 years, we have been out probably 35 times, almost been serious once or twice, but never really got there. She will call me for meaningful events in her life, and I hit her up form time to time. In April, we went out and had a really fun day, and to be clear, I do NOT want to be with this person, but I still value her,
anyway, she's going to be out of the country in her hometown, for months, and I was thinking I would meet her there, and spend a few days, like a once in a lifetime type of thing.
so I was trying to hit her up and ask (because I know in her world, if she's "talking" to another guy, or back with an ex, she won't be down) and she's just ducking me lol, like the way people do if they owe you money, like almost comedically, so already know my answer, but just the avoidance is so childish. It's ok for her to say no. BUT, the good thing is my own acceptance of this, and that it doesn't bother me emotionally, like it would have years back.
an example of the kind of avoidant behavior that is so common, there's a woman I have known for like 8 years, we have been out probably 35 times, almost been serious once or twice, but never really got there. She will call me for meaningful events in her life, and I hit her up form time to time. In April, we went out and had a really fun day, and to be clear, I do NOT want to be with this person, but I still value her,
anyway, she's going to be out of the country in her hometown, for months, and I was thinking I would meet her there, and spend a few days, like a once in a lifetime type of thing.
so I was trying to hit her up and ask (because I know in her world, if she's "talking" to another guy, or back with an ex, she won't be down) and she's just ducking me lol, like the way people do if they owe you money, like almost comedically, so already know my answer, but just the avoidance is so childish. It's ok for her to say no. BUT, the good thing is my own acceptance of this, and that it doesn't bother me emotionally, like it would have years back.
the women in my city just disgust me 
Organic Trees
Go Cavs! #LetEmKnow
I need to do betterSound like leftovers to me
I meant the food lolI need to do better
NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
Preselection makes you more attractive to women. Talk to one woman comfortably, bunch of women start vying for your validation and attention
Example: Yesterday, I went to my cousin's wedding. I started dancing with the bridesmaids, then I approached one on one. Charmed her-> by noticing her dance skills her energy her non-nervousness on the dancefloor. Got her IG.
Just hanging out and having a great time with females in general, its guaranteed to get more women.
Start approaching a lot of women, get their contacts, take photos with them. Build social proof.
Example: Yesterday, I went to my cousin's wedding. I started dancing with the bridesmaids, then I approached one on one. Charmed her-> by noticing her dance skills her energy her non-nervousness on the dancefloor. Got her IG.
Just hanging out and having a great time with females in general, its guaranteed to get more women.
Start approaching a lot of women, get their contacts, take photos with them. Build social proof.
Organic Trees
Go Cavs! #LetEmKnow
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
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Digital Omen
All Star
The older I get the more dealing with women becomes routine. No matter where she's from, what she's into, and what she's looking for, it's all an endless loop. Same soup, just reheated.
My ex broke up with me about a month ago. No contact since then...until this past Saturday when the inevitable "hey big head" text came through.
The one thing about the routine that pisses me off is the fake formal polite talk.
"I'm so sorry...I don't mean to bother you...I'm just wondering if you have time to talk...I don't mean to interrupt....bla bla bla..."
You were't fake formal polite when we were together. Keep the same energy.
Told her yeah sure come through
I open the door and she's got one of them long dresses on with the deep V cut t*ts poppin out
I internally chuckled like ok, I see what time it is
Sure enough, after a half hour of the usual I apologize didn't mean to hurt you I'm just not ready for a relationship right now bla bla bla
She gets up from the couch for a hug, we hug and then she gives me a peck on the lips on some probing shyt
yeah I'm down, let's get it poppin
One thing I've confirmed is the average every day woman would rather not increase their body count
(this doesn't apply to IG mutants and social media/club hoes)
That's why you see plenty of women who "can't get over" their ex/BD.
The known quantity is more secure than going out to get some strange (the opposite of us).
So we smashed, fell asleep, and then Sunday morning she was in a hurry to leave cuz of Father's Day plans (also a bit of ok I got my nut I'm out)
No simping on my part. Kept everything civil, call me if you need anything, no worries, we're good, etc etc
I fully expect to get a few more "u up?" texts before @the next guy scoops her up.
The game is the game.
My ex broke up with me about a month ago. No contact since then...until this past Saturday when the inevitable "hey big head" text came through.
The one thing about the routine that pisses me off is the fake formal polite talk.
"I'm so sorry...I don't mean to bother you...I'm just wondering if you have time to talk...I don't mean to interrupt....bla bla bla..."
You were't fake formal polite when we were together. Keep the same energy.
Told her yeah sure come through
I open the door and she's got one of them long dresses on with the deep V cut t*ts poppin out
I internally chuckled like ok, I see what time it is
Sure enough, after a half hour of the usual I apologize didn't mean to hurt you I'm just not ready for a relationship right now bla bla bla
She gets up from the couch for a hug, we hug and then she gives me a peck on the lips on some probing shyt
yeah I'm down, let's get it poppin
One thing I've confirmed is the average every day woman would rather not increase their body count
(this doesn't apply to IG mutants and social media/club hoes)
That's why you see plenty of women who "can't get over" their ex/BD.
The known quantity is more secure than going out to get some strange (the opposite of us).
So we smashed, fell asleep, and then Sunday morning she was in a hurry to leave cuz of Father's Day plans (also a bit of ok I got my nut I'm out)
No simping on my part. Kept everything civil, call me if you need anything, no worries, we're good, etc etc
I fully expect to get a few more "u up?" texts before @the next guy scoops her up.
The game is the game.