Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ohene

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At this stage in my life, natural hair is a non-negotiable. I know that cancels out a lot of black women but i dont go after “average” black women
Real shyt
I find myself simply going for women wearing their natural hair now

If she wearing a wig or weave i dont bother

This girl used to say “when we met i was wearing a wig”

Hoe that was 5 years ago and i was just tryna fukk :dahell:
 

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Real shyt
I find myself simply going for women wearing their natural hair now

If she wearing a wig or weave i dont bother

This girl used to say “when we met i was wearing a wig”

Hoe that was 5 years ago and i was just tryna fukk
:dahell:

:mjlol:

yeah wigs and weaves are :scust: I don't mind braids or dreads

some of these wigs chicks have had for years :scust:
 

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Basic advice for novice brehs:
Don’t chase women or make your whole identity about chasing women. If you really desire for someone or something in your life, you learn to attract them.

Make sure you look good, smell good, look classy/of value and have a fun lifestyle/personality she wants to engage with. Not all women will like you but those who mess with you will really mess with you!

If you’re not getting women of a high quality…you aren’t a man of high quality. Simple as that. Elevate yourself in life and always progress forward but never for women. Progress because you want to achieve your financial goals, physical goals and your general ambitions/dreams. A woman should never be your world. She should be a special part of it but never the whole world itself.

As younger men we tend to focus on a lack of sex and intimacy in our lives but we should focus on our health, our presence, our appearance and our ability to make impact and to compete goals.

I am a breh who grew up with an emotionally absent and abusive father. I only learned about women in my early 20’s. Maybe you have a similar situation to me and it didn’t have an easy time becoming a man. At 22, it’s later than many but it’s not too late. Work on yourself. Be your best self.
 

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Basic advice for novice brehs:
Don’t chase women or make your whole identity about chasing women. If you really desire for someone or something in your life, you learn to attract them.

Make sure you look good, smell good, look classy/of value and have a fun lifestyle/personality she wants to engage with. Not all women will like you but those who mess with you will really mess with you!

If you’re not getting women of a high quality…you aren’t a man of high quality. Simple as that. Elevate yourself in life and always progress forward but never for women. Progress because you want to achieve your financial goals, physical goals and your general ambitions/dreams. A woman should never be your world. She should be a special part of it but never the whole world itself.

As younger men we tend to focus on a lack of sex and intimacy in our lives but we should focus on our health, our presence, our appearance and our ability to make impact and to compete goals.

I am a breh who grew up with an emotionally absent and abusive father. I only learned about women in my early 20’s. Maybe you have a similar situation to me and it didn’t have an easy time becoming a man. At 22, it’s later than many but it’s not too late. Work on yourself. Be your best self.

Most men arent of high quality and will never be of high quality...

if you are the prize, then why do you have to approach women at all? Why aren’t you the one rejecting women, instead of the other way around? men who are really the prize have women chasing them..
 

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Its sad as hell seeing a bad ass 18-20 turning washed before they even hit legal age to drink :snoop:
 

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For my Og's and Vets....

How has your visual taste in women changed over the years?

20 year old me - if she ain't a coke bottle, I'm not interested.

:flabbynsick: Me - I sort of like them to be slim and trim.

At this point tall and slim. Track body. No tattoos or very very minimum.

Thick women come with too many self esteem issues. I'm not dealing with that.
 

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Real shyt
I find myself simply going for women wearing their natural hair now

If she wearing a wig or weave i dont bother

This girl used to say “when we met i was wearing a wig”

Hoe that was 5 years ago and i was just tryna fukk :dahell:

Wigs are fukking awful. You get up close the makeup is mixed together on that mesh shyt holding the hair. They be looking a fukking mess.
 

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Most men arent of high quality and will never be of high quality...

if you are the prize, then why do you have to approach women at all? Why aren’t you the one rejecting women, instead of the other way around? men who are really the prize have women chasing them..
I literally said in the first line breh: do not chase women.

I literally said let women come to you.
 

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Wigs are fukking awful. You get up close the makeup is mixed together on that mesh shyt holding the hair. They be looking a fukking mess.
yup, and thats the expensive shyt...my ex would wear them cheap ass wigs that you just pop on your head lol

damn near a mental illness at this point
the fact these women really think they look good with them on lol. be having a beautiful mane of hair underneath too.
 
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