Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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yeah, I will affirm that one. When your money is down, you need to get that back up. We all need/seek connection, intimacy, comfort, but it's best to seek it from a position of strength.

and just general life advice, people will hide in activities like partying, drinking women, escape in them to block out reality, and avoid facing the work they have to do, and watch it all slide away.

My house got jacked in summer 2010 and I was a lot younger, not even really dating, but the point is I couldn't even think about anything else until my money was right.
 

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think im throwing in the towel for the summer at this point

lost my job and haven't even progressed with any chics during this time.

Rebuild mode and get em next year I guess :manny:
Summer is when these chics come out & wild out. Check out the video below, this festival was last month

 

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Nah indian shorty i broke up with like three yrs ago

This chick was guadaloupean/haitian, born in france tho. She would wear wigs and then do braids other times

Im good with braids but this girl would literally never let her natural hair out.
At this stage in my life, natural hair is a non-negotiable. I know that cancels out a lot of black women but i dont go after “average” black women
 

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Young Chick just got done making out crazy with this brehito and when they begin to leave she starts eye fukking me when he isn’t looking.
I feel so bad for these young cats bruh:mjcry:
Disgusting, really.
Simps have mainstreamed these hos and the game will never be the same.
Since there aren't enough men firmly on their square and settling for less, this is what it is.
I feel bad for all the young cats who are actually trying to do the right thing.
Without the right guidance and mentorship, they gone go one way.
And it's all according to plan.
World keeps turning.

As a young breh, when I realized staying on your square was the only way to get a good night's sleep I never left it.
Had all the wrong chicks throwing it at me back in the day and I'm glad I didn't get with them.
Every hit is not a homerun.
I look at my peers now and see how chasing women with no breaks wore them down.
They looking sick and defeated.
It's a shame, but my hairline is still intact. Who am I to complain.
 

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For my Og's and Vets....

How has your visual taste in women changed over the years?

20 year old me - if she ain't a coke bottle, I'm not interested.

:flabbynsick: Me - I sort of like them to be slim and trim.
 

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For my Og's and Vets....

How has your visual taste in women changed over the years?

20 year old me - if she ain't a coke bottle, I'm not interested.

Me - I sort of like them to be slim and trim.

20yr old me - big batty gyals


:flabbynsick: Now if she's not slim she aint getting a ring. I can't do it with the bigger gyals no more. I find myself not being into as much as I was.
slim and in shape I can't get enough of these women.

Also the one thing for me and it may be seen as being too image-conscious but if I'm in shape and the woman I'm with is fat or out of shape. That's not going to work for me.

One of my chicks asked me what is a non-negotiable for me in terms of us being together.

I flat-out told her don't ever get fat. She was shocked at the suggestion but she knew I was right. Luckily she is slim and keeps herself in shape without me having to comment.

I always see examples of guys looking defeated with women who have let themselves go. Could never be me. Especially at my age.
 

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think im throwing in the towel for the summer at this point

lost my job and haven't even progressed with any chics during this time.

Rebuild mode and get em next year I guess :manny:
I'm right wit ya
nothing I do is working literally nothing
I need to work on me till I get better, even if I do get wit a woman(which I cant) I'll only end up bringing her down on my level
Rebuild mode is necessary especially spiritually in this
 
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