Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Malik1time]

I been there brehs. I've been on the phone for hours with friends who were going through a divorce. I was the friend who took a call at 4 in the morning when homey found out wife was cheating on him.
When I was going through my struggles none of my "friends" were no where to be found

And I’m not complaining but this situation really opened my eyes like damn I’m always that friend that be there but ohh well lesson learned

 

[J.E.T.S]

why you keep putting up with her? You should've left her behind in 2019.
I know you're in "love" , but is it worth a headache

I'm a simping ass fool that's why.

Idk. I'm not going to try to get back with her, but the options in Atlanta ain't really all that if you want something serious.

If she comes back, I can't say what may happen. Since she left on her own this time, I won't ask her to come back.

I hate moving on tho breh.. shyt is draining...

 

[Sonny Bonds]

I need to stop talking to chicks that live in Jersey. I'm not going all the way out there from Brooklyn.

 

[dat aint da same sandwich]

Those guys aren't your friends. At best they're aquaintances.

It's easy to hang out with you and chill when things are going good. You know who you're friends really are when you hit rock bottom.

I used to be that 'good friend' to people who clearly didn't deserve it and life threw me some really hard lessons as to how a lot of people ain't shyt.

The mere fact they don't reciprocate the help you gave them shows they don't have any type of honor or loyalty. If you posted about a chick who left you because you lost your job or was temporarily disabled, we'd tell you to cut her loose. Likewise, I personally wouldn't keep a fake friend around either. Those are the types who mysteriously disappear when you fall on hard times but pop up like a Jack-in-the-box the minute the smoke clears and you're doing well again.

If you still want to hang with those dudes, that's up to you. But just remember when it's their time, then you're "busy" now.

In future, don't use the term 'friend' loosely. Like that saying goes: don't cross oceans for people who wouldn't step over a puddle for you.

Preach!

 

[semicko82]

I'm a simping ass fool that's why.

Idk. I'm not going to try to get back with her, but the options in Atlanta ain't really all that if you want something serious.

If she comes back, I can't say what may happen. Since she left on her own this time, I won't ask her to come back.

I hate moving on tho breh.. shyt is draining...

Has she moved on?

 

[SATAN]

I need to stop talking to chicks that live in Jersey. I'm not going all the way out there from Brooklyn.

They should be coming to you from Jersey, then. Don't even meet them halfway. If they're really interested in you, they'll come out there to see you. Plan to meet up at a spot close to your crib. Then y'all can slide to another spot by your place or just straight to your place afterwards

 

[J.E.T.S]

Has she moved on?

Not to my knowledge. She took ALL her clothes and the kids clothes... however, she left all the things she purchased for the house and TV she brought here. They still have keys to the place.

Our picture is still on her office desk and she won't tell me if she's moved on or anything really. If she's not ignoring all my attempts to call... she texts open ended answers like, "let me know when you start working on you. You need help" and "a conversation about a relationship is not needed"...



Said she's not in a space to see or talk to me at the moment... "you haven't changed in day."

So now I'm going no contact. What's your opinion on this?

It's only going on a couple of days now though...

 

[semicko82]

Not to my knowledge. She took ALL her clothes and the kids clothes... however, she left all the things she purchased for the house and TV she brought here. They still have keys to the place.

Our picture is still on her office desk and she won't tell me if she's moved on or anything really. If she's not ignoring all my attempts to call... she texts open ended answers like, "let me know when you start working on you. You need help" and "a conversation about a relationship is not needed"...



Said she's not in a space to see or talk to me at the moment... "you haven't changed in day."

So now I'm going no contact. What's your opinion on this?

It's only going on a couple of days now though...

Seems like she's mentally checked out if she is sending you open ended answers

 

[J.E.T.S]

Seems like she's mentally checked out if she is sending you open ended answers

If that's the case,

What you think her next move will be?

I'm not even going to attempt to convince her to come back. I'm going to be myself. However, I will say that I will definitely change some things, if she was to return.

 

[semicko82]

If that's the case,

What you think her next move will be?

I'm not even going to attempt to convince her to come back. I'm going to be myself. However, I will say that I will definitely change some things, if she was to return.

What did you do if you don't mind me asking

 

[J.E.T.S]

What did you do if you don't mind me asking

First, I hollered at one of her kids. He's 7 and all 7 year olds are annoying. I told him to get out. Straight like that because he just burst through the door while I was changing.

She said I disrespected him and I told her I ain't respecting no child.

I was just being an a$$hole, but I understood what she was saying.

Secondly, some nikka she used to fukk commented on her pic "I miss THAT". I told her that was disrespectful and to delete the comment. It was a bad look... although she ignored it. She started talking shyt and I nutted up. Snatched the phone and she tried to wrestle it back. Toxic shyt that I don't normally do... I felt I had to check her on that.

Anyway, She couldn't win that battle so she packed up and left. She felt threatened I guess.

 

[semicko82]

First, I hollered at one of her kids. He's 7 and all 7 year olds are annoying. I told him to get out. Straight like that because he just burst through the door while I was changing.

She said I disrespected him and I told her I ain't respecting no child.

I was just being an a$$hole, but I understood what she was saying.

Secondly, some nikka she used to fukk commented on her pic "I miss THAT". I told her that was disrespectful and to delete the comment. It was a bad look... although she ignored it. She started talking shyt and I nutted up. Snatched the phone and she tried to wrestle it back. Toxic shyt that I don't normally do... I felt I had to check her on that.

Anyway, She couldn't win that battle so she packed up and left. She felt threatened I guess.

this chick in your head.
I know dudes who've done way worse, and these chicks love them even more.

You were right about deleting the Instagram comment.

As far as the 7 year old, you should have explained to him why it's wrong to just burst in while you're changing.

My advice drop this chick for good.

She knows you keep crawling back and she's in charge of the situation.

With these modern day women you have to show them better than tell them

 

[J.E.T.S]

this chick in your head.
I know dudes who've done way worse, and these chicks love them even more.

You were right about deleting the Instagram comment.

As far as the 7 year old, you should have explained to him why it's wrong to just burst in while you're changing.

My advice drop this chick for good.

She knows you keep crawling back and she's in charge of the situation.

With these modern day women you have to show them better than tell them

You right because after all of that... The comment is still there.

 

[semicko82]

You right because after all of that... The comment is still there.

It's time to flip the script on her

 

[J.E.T.S]

It's time to flip the script on her

Put me on to game coach!