Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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30+ brehs, should I really worry about being 30 and still being in the game?

nikkas made so many posts about how bad 30s are about everything and that shyt makes me paranoid. I feel like I gotta go to the club many times out the week because from what I’m hearing from the majority is that 30s sucks. nikkas keep talking about how women don’t want them and they be having good jobs n shyt.

I’m deadass worried.
Don’t be, I’m having a blast out here. If you’re honest about your looking for there should be no problems.
 

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Wasn't active in this thread too much this year but goin forward I'm locked in.... Hope my brehs have already started executing on their goals n plans for 2020... As y'all can see this year flew by..... while some us put in work and made some gains, we all fell short of some goals due to unforeseen circumstances, distractions, or lack of discipline/focus. Plus we all took some Ls in some form, personally my two biggest were my 1st grandparent passing (grandpa) n getting into an altercation w the law that ended up w them seizing my Porsche.... I've since gotten over the car but anytime I'm lacking I think about my double O n still feel like I'm letting him down with some of the bad choices I be makin.... just tryna do better day by day.

About 20 kills this year (24)..... never been quantity ova quality and this year taught me why, the playaness n attitude you get from dealing with legit baddies will have u lookin at regular girls tryna put you through hoops like :hhh:

Don't feel like I'm in my prime but I feel more powerful every day with new knowledge, gym gains, and morning bank balance increase notifications letting me know my sacrifice and discipline are being rewarded.... haven't been poppin out as much but the scene is always the scene n it's so much more entertaining n inviting when u got some green....

Poster a few pages back talked about taking a hiatus to really level up n for those of us tryna be above average, that's definitely what's required....
Average breh ain't on shyt tbh, with a lil focus n discipline it's easy to put yourself in the top 20% out here....

It's smoke n mirrors with every chick n their intentions but one thing that should stay true is us to ourselves, if we keepin it real with ourselves as Men. Keep a journal, whether on ya phone or physically, and track ya progress for whatever it is u wanna see a change in. No matter how insignificant the desire might be, track your start, journey, n finish.... shows you ya growth and gives you motivation when u start on a new endeavor.

Not talkin about women much in this post because anything we out here attracting as men is simply a reflection of ourselves or how we see ourselves....

We are the prize. We don't have to be cocky 100% of the time n shyt on a female, but every girl we're with gotta know they can lose us.... but not only know that, but also know doin so would be a loss on their part. Always stay working on ourselves to increase our intrinsic (value to ourselves) and extrinsic (value to others) value.....

Self care is crucial. Love yours, ain't no one gonna take care of us but us brehs.... you might have a girl or s/o but even she as a nurturer to an extent expects u to maintain yourself as a man to a certain level without her help.... groomin n styling, working out, stretching, core & cardio, reading, finances, savings, investments, .... u gotta have hobbies but u have to be leveling up simultaneously.... n some hobbies infused with enough passion/prowess pay.


Best gem I got for dealing with Women from now n beyond is to apply pressure n polish up the most valuable diamond of em all, yaself. :wow:
 

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You believe a 19’yeat old can come 3 times?

No doubt about it.

It's the older women that'll nut maybe twice and you'd barely feel anything until that lil dry hole force you out of it... while they lie on their backs talkin about some "whew lawd".

:camby:
 

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I've noticed a trend when I go out to dance lately. Latina women always choose to dance with the extremely drunk guy who appears to be harassing them. Even when the woman herself hasn't had a drink.

From a bystander's point of view the interaction appears to be going terribly, she looks annoyed and pushing the guy off of her, he keeps grabbing on her azz and she pushes his hands away. He tries to force-feed her a shot and she pushes it away, spilling some of the drink on her. I'm not spying but I just notice the commotion because the drunk guy is loud af

Then :ohhh: she pulls the guy to the dance floor and makes out with him!, and either gives the guy her number or leaves with him that night. Dude was so drunk he fell on his azz while dancing and a few people had to help him up. And she still left with him.

I don't drink so I have no clue what's going on! But I noticed that Latina women are extremely attracted to the aggressive drunk dudes that don't respect her personal space.
 

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Met someone, go on a great date. Today I wake up to a message from her saying she met someone else. :sadcam:
How long was it between this amazing date that you had and her messaging you that she has found someone else?
 

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No doubt about it.

It's the older women that'll nut maybe twice and you'd barely feel anything until that lil dry hole force you out of it... while they lie on their backs talkin about some "whew lawd".

:camby:

Jets you aren’t about to catch me lying on a Sunday morning. Old liars were young once. If you think some mixed biddy came 3 times that’s good for you.
 
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