Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I have low confidence and don't know about "signals" and "signs" women be supposedly throwing.

I wish women were more direct instead of "body language" that we're supposed to know.

It's happened a few times and my first thought is "I got some shyt on my face and really walked out the house":sadcam:

shyt we got a whole oblivious to signs thread.
I dont be reading them neither but if i did catch a girl looking twice then that's blatant right there.

shyt im confident and don't even get looks so you lucky right there
 

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Dated a girl like this. Worst hoe ever. Couldn’t suck a dikk either. A much older woman and a girl ten years younger than me was keeping my nutts light until I dropped her dead fish ass. To this day she thinks she broke up with me lol her p*ssy and fukk game was the worst I’ve ever had in life

:mjlol:

:scust:

I had one dead fish that was older than me.
shyt was so wack that i had to tell her i didnt wanna smash her no more.

Didnt even wanna gimme dome. Talking about "you do me first"
:hhh:
bytch get on somewhere
 

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Met up with Sudanese professional woman. Drove an hour to see me. I drove 45 min to see her. Everything was cool until she found out I was military. After the date was over she didn’t text back as much and she has hit me up but something just seems off.
 

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Met up with Sudanese professional woman. Drove an hour to see me. I drove 45 min to see her. Everything was cool until she found out I was military. After the date was over she didn’t text back as much and she has hit me up but something just seems off.
That shyt happens to me also, I just stop telling females my occupation. I say I work for the government and that's all they get out of me.
 

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That shyt happens to me also, I just stop telling females my occupation. I say I work for the government and that's all they get out of me.

yeah man I need to start doing that. I didn’t think much of it but the energy felt different when I said I was military. Like she went from texting me at work to hey I’m working a 12 hour shift can’t talk right now type vibe. So I’m gonna fall back and move on. For now on I’m just gonna say I work for the government in book keeping or something. Lol
 
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:yeshrug: I'm not going to do this all day.

you got to be trolling with that opening

I understand exactly what you're saying. I just don't agree with it or think it's true. At this very moment, women are bored and stuck in the house, go find one and do something with her. It ain't hard. Even the ugliest broad is going to have her inbox flooded. Yes. But, if you're letting that stop you, I don't know how you're going to "survive" out here. I left you the blueprint/schematic/algorithms/heuristic, use it or lose it. But, I'ma let you have it kinfolk.

I think you not understanding what is being said though regarding the pictures. The picture is the first thing a woman sees (before she even sees your message). If there are 50 dudes in her inbox, she sees 50 pictures, and has to have a picture capture her eye first before she decides to open the message; whatever you have to say doesnt even matter at this point to her unless shes attracted to what she sees
 
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:yeshrug: I'm not going to do this all day.



I understand exactly what you're saying. I just don't agree with it or think it's true. At this very moment, women are bored and stuck in the house, go find one and do something with her. It ain't hard. Even the ugliest broad is going to have her inbox flooded. Yes. But, if you're letting that stop you, I don't know how you're going to "survive" out here. I left you the blueprint/schematic/algorithms/heuristic, use it or lose it. But, I'ma let you have it kinfolk.


Where does one find this blueprint? Lol
 

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Brehs this shyt was in my recommended; What do you think of this cold approach?
(they had lil bytches in the comments talking about she was talking too much and they don't like his approach)


Pick up artist are the WORST conceivable to learn about women.
Their shyt is not grounded in any philosophy or life experience. More just copy paste trial and error from what more seasoned cats are doing.

Ultimately your whole experience with women has to start molding your overall world view, that can't happen with some guy telling you to "ask 3 questions, touch her hand for 5 seconds..." all that reactionary machenical crap.

The whole "Game" PUA started coz of goofy white boys trying to whitewash and dumb down Pimpin principles for suburban white boy squares.

Unless you consider yourself advanced, I'd really stay away from that "manosphere" crowd. ALL those crackers eventually became open white supremacists anyway.

Your knowledge of women has to grounded in theory and a gazillion battle scars /life experiences.
 

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So I’m texting this girl I met last night at an event.

She says: Hey ManfromVA It was great meeting you, thank you for helping me again :smile:

I say: Hey E, no problem. I’m sure you’ll be helping me out sometime.

She says: idk how I could? Lol

I proceed to drop my number.

She then drops hers.

I smell games. Bushes?
 

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:yeshrug: I'm not going to do this all day.



I understand exactly what you're saying. I just don't agree with it or think it's true. At this very moment, women are bored and stuck in the house, go find one and do something with her. It ain't hard. Even the ugliest broad is going to have her inbox flooded. Yes. But, if you're letting that stop you, I don't know how you're going to "survive" out here. I left you the blueprint/schematic/algorithms/heuristic, use it or lose it. But, I'ma let you have it kinfolk.

You ain't have to post all them pictures but I feel you.

I don't see how you say you don't think its true. The dating apps literally have a profile picture...then the messages. If women are not looking at the picture first and just scrolling looking at the texts, then that sounds kind of ridiculous. Like imagine the links you posted as being messages in a girl's inbox. You mean to tell me she is scrolling down reading those first; then looking at the picture that would be to left as an after-thought? That sounds unrealistic breh
 

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So I’m texting this girl I met last night at an event.

She says: Hey ManfromVA It was great meeting you, thank you for helping me again :smile:

I say: Hey E, no problem. I’m sure you’ll be helping me out sometime.

She says: idk how I could? Lol

I proceed to drop my number.

She then drops hers.

I smell games. Bushes?

:dwillhuh:

Im so confused.
You texting a girl but then you ended up droppin your number
:dwillhuh:
 

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Pick up artist are the WORST conceivable to learn about women.
Their shyt is not grounded in any philosophy or life experience. More just copy paste trial and error from what more seasoned cats are doing.

Ultimately your whole experience with women has to start molding your overall world view, that can't happen with some guy telling you to "ask 3 questions, touch her hand for 5 seconds..." all that reactionary machenical crap.

The whole "Game" PUA started coz of goofy white boys trying to whitewash and dumb down Pimpin principles for suburban white boy squares.

Unless you consider yourself advanced, I'd really stay away from that "manosphere" crowd. ALL those crackers eventually became open white supremacists anyway.

Your knowledge of women has to grounded in theory and a gazillion battle scars /life experiences.

:dwillhuh:

I ain't say nttn about tryna learn from him.
I was just asking what people thought of his approach
 
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