Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Throwing in the towel the dating thing just ain’t for me. 5’2 ugly nikkas can’t eat out here gonna be single the rest of my life

The mere fact you feel that way about yourself is the problem right there.

There's dudes with the height and looks who couldn't pull a curtain.

It's all in the mind, playbwooooyyy.
 

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Last weekend had bytches lined up to come to the crib Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Friday brehette came over, made her a couple cocktails, got to making out, but the last minute resistance was too strong.

Second brehette came over Saturday and I smashed. How I switched up the game was that when we started making out, I was the one who pulled away first, talking about "we should stop this" :wow:

Didn't touch her again for a couple hours as we watched a movie. My pullback had the brehette like :sadcam:. That's right, I flipped the script on a bytch. Had HER wondering what was wrong and shyt. After the movie was over I pounced with minimal resistance :takedat:

Third bytch flaked on me, but I don't give a fukk if someone flakes on a house date. I'll try to close out my roster this week. Hoping to be three deep for the next few months.
 

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The mere fact you feel that way about yourself is the problem right there.

There's dudes with the height and looks who couldn't pull a curtain.

It's all in the mind, playbwooooyyy.
Should I keep using the dating apps and I’m gonna get back in the gym
 

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Should I keep using the dating apps and I’m gonna get back in the gym

It's like I told someone on another thread just the other day (there seems to be an epidemic of low self esteem on the coli), just focus on building yourself up in all areas and forget about women.

I'm gonna assume you're a young dude. You need to get your shyt together. I've had to learn the hard way in life that we live in a world that quite frankly couldn't care less about our problems and ain't trying to hear them either. No one is gonna feel sorry for you. That's just the reality whether we like it or not.

Get counselling (if you need it), go to the gym, learn a trade, take classes etc. You got a wealth of free information on the internet that tackles everything you struggle with.

Whatever is broke, fix it basically. The only person that will save you is the man in the mirror.
 

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Should I keep using the dating apps and I’m gonna get back in the gym
yes. hit the gym heavy. get massively swole. eat a lot of protein.

alright, i aint gonna go heartless on u like some of the brehs in here. ima give u advice that someone in ur position can actually use.

1. Hit the gym. this is a must. and by hitting the gym, im saying so for the sole benefit of u gaining muscles. In my experience, muscles on a guy is like a nice ass on a woman. Women love it and they cant help but to look. And NO THIS IS NOT an exaggeration. trust me on this.

2. Eat a lot of protein. What protein? Meat, Eggs. It'll help u gain muscle faster. Whatever u do, don't be skinny!

3. Height is a big deal to women. Yes. Anyone who says different is an idiot or just straight out of kindergarten and hasnt encountered grown women yet. But at the same time, most women just want to feel protected. There are chicks who are really stuck on height. Dont waste ur time on them. trust. it is a waste. So dont bother.

4. Know how to dress. By that, i mean, don't overdo it. U don't want people to see u as someone who's "overcompensating". Just buy clothes that fit ur stature. And wear a nice watch and dress shoes. I can help u with this if ur not a fashion kind of guy. Just pm me.

5. Learn how to speak. Figure out what substances u need to take to keep u calm. There are calming teas out there u can buy. Or u can smoke weed. When u talk to women, talk slow and calm. I cant stress enough the effect this has on women.

Let me go back to the point on hitting the gym. Before i started lifting weights, many of the women i fuccck use to take a while before they came and that was always frustrating for me cause it meant having to fucck longer than i wanted to. When I started hitting the gym and gained hella muscles, these women were busting nuts in under 2 minutes. one chick was squirting all over my bed the other day (that actually disgusted me but thats another story). Did my d1ck get b1gger? No. I'm just being very honest and clear for u here to give u the motivation to hit the gym. It's worth it.
 
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Throwing in the towel the dating thing just ain’t for me. 5’2 ugly nikkas can’t eat out here gonna be single the rest of my life

I'm a short Breh, don't give up. We take more rejections but you can still eat out here. Go for the women who care less about height. Make sure you dress good, haircut is on point & conversation is hella good

I have posted a few pics of few females in that post your girl thread for evidence, I just recently pulled a Portuguese dyme online, she was mad I added 1-2 inches height in my dating profile but she got over it because she loves my personality
 
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guys what are your thoughts on women sharply hinting on you taking them out early via texts , im talking chicks that are eye candy, the type that youd have on your arm type shyt
 

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Throwing in the towel the dating thing just ain’t for me. 5’2 ugly nikkas can’t eat out here gonna be single the rest of my life
You might have to go for women on your level looks wise, chubby women, or single moms until you can level up.

Being short sucks I know firsthand, but I had chicks practically worship me. Hell they turned down taller guys to be with me.

When you short you have to be extra with everything, always be on point, and stay fresh.
 

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Throwing in the towel the dating thing just ain’t for me. 5’2 ugly nikkas can’t eat out here gonna be single the rest of my life
@TRUEST dropped good shyt. just to build off what he said...

it will be harder for you, but you can still shine breh, especially in the current climate we're in.

theres small things you can do that will make women approach you. two are your physique and your style.

step that fashion up, that shyt can take you a long way. hit banana republic, zara, topman, asos, etc.

accessories are key. every time i go out i get compliments bc i stepped my accessory game up. fedoras, scarves, bracelets, watches, socks. my hat game is on ten, so i get crazy attention off that. try stylish glasses or grow a beard.

fragrance. fragrance. fragrance. idk why dudes arent up on this. countless times ive had women follow me around places because i smell good. then i let that mouthpiece fly and then its wraps for them lol. hit nordstroms and saks, get some samples and find something you like. its a fukkin cheat code.

and yeah...live in that gym
 

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Bushed a flakey chick, now she's hit me up after 2 months. How do I play this? I just want to smash and do her dirty

Personally, I want to tell her to cut the small talk and only hit me up when shes ready to come over
 
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