Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deafheaven]

got laid off today brehs. first time without a job since I was 19. I'm starting to feel the cosmetic field is def not for a straight black male cuz as good technically and with clients I am it always is some bullshyt I get into just by proxy of being a stand up, non gossipy, not shyt taking brother. So I think I'm over this field. I can't even really use my military exp cuz i just drove boats but I'm sure I can finesse a resume with that. IDK, shyt sucks and I'm trying to brainstorm jobs completely unrelated to what I'm doing now that pay decently and drawing blanks.

 

[Deafheaven]

What some stuff you've done?

Not on no level 10 shyt cause I know you been divorced & stuff.

My situation is I was dealing with a bum ass chick (No car, No apt, No job, Pothead) and I thought I could upgrade her.

Redid her resume, Created her online job profiles & a new email, Reached out to recruiters and got her a nice paying job. Two days into the job this bytch tried to flip on me talking about how I never did shyt for her, and didn't know shyt, etc

She changed the password on the email & indeed account but is too stupid to know that I know them anyway.

I'm thinking about just snatching back all the shyt I made for her........or I could go level 10, take that shyt back, send out some NASTY emails to her new job & recruiter and get her ungrateful ass fired

I'd say be demonic perhaps she'll learn not to be a trifling bytch going forward.

 

[Silkk]

got laid off today brehs. first time without a job since I was 19. I'm starting to feel the cosmetic field is def not for a straight black male cuz as good technically and with clients I am it always is some bullshyt I get into just by proxy of being a stand up, non gossipy, not shyt taking brother. So I think I'm over this field. I can't even really use my military exp cuz i just drove boats but I'm sure I can finesse a resume with that. IDK, shyt sucks and I'm trying to brainstorm jobs completely unrelated to what I'm doing now that pay decently and drawing blanks.

What city you in?

 

[Deafheaven]

What city you in?

Minneapolis

 

[Solano707]

What some stuff you've done?

Not on no level 10 shyt cause I know you been divorced & stuff.

My situation is I was dealing with a bum ass chick (No car, No apt, No job, Pothead) and I thought I could upgrade her.

Redid her resume, Created her online job profiles & a new email, Reached out to recruiters and got her a nice paying job. Two days into the job this bytch tried to flip on me talking about how I never did shyt for her, and didn't know shyt, etc

She changed the password on the email & indeed account but is too stupid to know that I know them anyway.

I'm thinking about just snatching back all the shyt I made for her........or I could go level 10, take that shyt back, send out some NASTY emails to her new job & recruiter and get her ungrateful ass fired

I wouldn't do that breh, i'd just move on. She will fall regardless because she doesn't have the drive to do all that shyt herself.

 

[Claudex]

one last thing breh... the cost of the gift should not outweigh its value. We get hung up on the cost of the gift that we actually forget the real value of it. The price does not necessarily mean how much you care for her. If she is the type of person that values the price over the value - you need to bush that ASAP.

Sometimes we do forget the fundamentals. Thank you for the reply breh

 

[Silkk]

I wouldn't do that breh, i'd just move on. She will fall regardless because she doesn't have the drive to do all that shyt herself.

This is true

 

[MollyGalaga]

stop talking to ugly bytches

you think i TRY to???

 

[Solano707]

D

Sometimes we do forget the fundamentals. Thank you for the reply breh

Dap+rep

That's why we have this thread

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

you think i TRY to???

Sometimes broads know they're ugly and that insecurity be having them think they're not good enough for you so they give you attitude

Women be like children in that regard..

The ones with insecurities/immature will tease/ give you attitude if they like you.

Or they'll assume you have a roster of bytches and you're arrogant...confidence can make an insecure broad get spiteful.

 

[TRUEST]

Sometimes broads know they're ugly and that insecurity be having them think they're not good enough for you so they give you attitude

Women be like children in that regard..

The ones with insecurities/immature will tease/ give you attitude if they like you.

Or they'll assume you have a roster of bytches and you're arrogant...confidence can make an insecure broad get spiteful.

Lol u ain’t lying.

 

[valet]

This chick spent me twice on going to lunch. So I quit texting her for a month but I stii check her snaps sometimes
Out of the blue she text me today. Asking how I'm doing and giving an excuse that she broke her foot. Which is true but has nothing to do with us not having lunch. Saw on her snap that she went out last week to eat. I text her back like 6 hours later, but I know shes not going to lunch with me. Kinda surprised she text me after all this time. But cant figure out why she did

Update. Sunday she text me to see what was up with me. I asked her about a wedding that I thought happening next year but it happened this summer. Then she hit me with "We really need to catch up". I said "hint, hint, hint, hint". She then said her free days and I told her Wednesday at 5. I'm thinking maybe, it will actually happen this time but I'm cautious. Then tonight she text me "I know we're suppose to meet tommorrow for dinner but I'm broke. Maybe we meet for coffee. Or the week after." I told her I could pay for it and then she could pay next time. She then said she only make jiggas she date pay.

I then told her it ain't about the food. I just wanna catch u. Then she said, you're right. I'll let you pay and next time I got you.

So we'll see what happens tommorrow. I'm prepared for whatever.

 

[Astroslik]

Update. Sunday she text me to see what was up with me. I asked her about a wedding that I thought happening next year but it happened this summer. Then she hit me with "We really need to catch up". I said "hint, hint, hint, hint". She then said her free days and I told her Wednesday at 5. I'm thinking maybe, it will actually happen this time but I'm cautious. Then tonight she text me "I know we're suppose to meet tommorrow for dinner but I'm broke. Maybe we meet for coffee. Or the week after." I told her I could pay for it and then she could pay next time. She then said she only make jiggas she date pay.

I then told her it ain't about the food. I just wanna catch u. Then she said, you're right. I'll let you pay and next time I got you.

So we'll see what happens tommorrow. I'm prepared for whatever.

Cmon breh she’s playing you wtf.

Throw her to the bushes unless she’s literally at the front of your door on her knees.

 

[Vinny Lupton]

Update. Sunday she text me to see what was up with me. I asked her about a wedding that I thought happening next year but it happened this summer. Then she hit me with "We really need to catch up". I said "hint, hint, hint, hint". She then said her free days and I told her Wednesday at 5. I'm thinking maybe, it will actually happen this time but I'm cautious. Then tonight she text me "I know we're suppose to meet tommorrow for dinner but I'm broke. Maybe we meet for coffee. Or the week after." I told her I could pay for it and then she could pay next time. She then said she only make jiggas she date pay.

I then told her it ain't about the food. I just wanna catch u. Then she said, you're right. I'll let you pay and next time I got you.

So we'll see what happens tommorrow. I'm prepared for whatever.

Breh
It doesn't have to be, and shouldn't be, this complicated. There's someone out there that would want to see you and not have all these excuses and shyt. You need to get some other options popping then your tolerance for this type of shyt will be low

 

[Solano707]

Update. Sunday she text me to see what was up with me. I asked her about a wedding that I thought happening next year but it happened this summer. Then she hit me with "We really need to catch up". I said "hint, hint, hint, hint". She then said her free days and I told her Wednesday at 5. I'm thinking maybe, it will actually happen this time but I'm cautious. Then tonight she text me "I know we're suppose to meet tommorrow for dinner but I'm broke. Maybe we meet for coffee. Or the week after." I told her I could pay for it and then she could pay next time. She then said she only make jiggas she date pay.

I then told her it ain't about the food. I just wanna catch u. Then she said, you're right. I'll let you pay and next time I got you.

So we'll see what happens tommorrow. I'm prepared for whatever.

 breh, you getting fleeced raw out here. Whatever though...