Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Sharp]

Back from hiatus... I come with gifts

When you're in the club chilling and having a good time, you gotta be careful of women who come up to you and start a conversation. We call them "liquor pimps". They're the one who will flirt with you and then casually ask you to buy them a drink. Some are even bold enough to order themselves a drink and tell the bartender that you're paying for it. And once you stop buying drinks or they got what they came for, they're walking away. You're not getting a phone number or any indication that they want to continue talking. Don't be surprised if when you try to push up, she tells you she has a man. She just finessed you out of free drinks. Man, if a chick came up in the club, she should have her own money to buy drinks. Do not be her benefactor and do not feel bad for not buying her drinks. There's nothing wrong with refusing to buy drinks for a stranger.

You also gotta be careful when you got a table with bottle service or you're just kicking it in VIP. That's when you'll see all of the opportunists. These chicks see sparklers from across the room and will make a bee line towards your direction. They'll come flirt with you because they think you got some money. They'll touch on you , sit on your lap, and all types of craziness so that they can either drink your shyt or have you spend money on them. A lot of these chicks come to the club to scope out who's going to be their potential victim for the night. A lot of dudes set themselves up by thinking because they're spending money and entertaining this chick that she's gonna leave with them. And when she doesn't, he's in his feelings. But you can't get mad because you out here tricking thinking it's gonna guarantee her affection..

A good woman would have her own money, and wouldn't even feel comfortable taking drinks from a stranger unless you offered, and even then the vibe would have to be right for her to accept. Learn how to say "No", and learn how to separate her looks from her actions. Just because she looks good doesn't mean she's a good woman. Don't get taken advantage of in the club, lounge, or any party setting.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Just want to say that it’s hella interesting once you don’t show any interest or attention to a woman you once used to pursue heavily. It’s amazing because then they start coming around and trying to make their way back in without acting like theyre trying.

I was also listening to some Quavo last night and i heard him say some shyt about how women didnt want him when he was poor, but now that hes rich and well known they all want him.

It dawned on me that almost EVERY high profile breh was once a nobody to these women, UNTIL they came up. Which made me realize that chasing women now is somewhat foolish. It would be nice to find one willing to grow with you, but those are few and far in between.

Instead, its much better to make yourself successful, FOR YOURSELF, and watch the women flock to you.

Yea it was an african shorty who worked at a juice shop at my job I was pursuing..

Admittedly I came on strong and pursued her traditionally( )..

Anyway one day she leaving and I gave her a handshake and she was "no hug?"

Two days later she had a "boyfriend"..

So I took the L ,learned my lesson but would still say sup to her but would keep it moving.

Few weeks later I went into the shop waiting for my drink and a bad samoan broad that we both know was there and I was chatting her up waiting for my drink.

The african broad didn't like that and made it her goal to come from behind the counter and get in between us

shyt like that showed me to value the attention you give out.

If I'm gonna give a chick my attention I'm doing it for me,not for her.

 

[DaRealness]

Yea it was an african shorty who worked at a juice shop at my job I was pursuing..

Admittedly I came on strong and pursued her traditionally( )..

Anyway one day she leaving and I gave her a handshake and she was "no hug?"

Two days later she had a "boyfriend"..

So I took the L ,learned my lesson but would still say sup to her but would keep it moving.

Few weeks later I went into the shop waiting for my drink and a bad samoan broad that we both know was there and I was chatting her up waiting for my drink.

The african broad didn't like that and made it her goal to come from behind the counter and get in between us

shyt like that showed me to value the attention you give out.

If I'm gonna give a chick my attention I'm doing it for me,not for her.

They thrive on attention hard and when they see you've lost interest and don't fukk with them anymore they don't know how to handle it.

Over the years on this thread I've mentioned chicks I've dealt with (including my ex wife) who were in some dumb or disrespectful shyt and when I bushed them they kept sending messages months after despite not getting a response.

We're coming into 2019 and I don't understand how dudes still haven't learned it doesn't pay to over pursue chicks and be thirsty.

 

[DaRealness]

Back from hiatus... I come with gifts

When you're in the club chilling and having a good time, you gotta be careful of women who come up to you and start a conversation. We call them "liquor pimps". They're the one who will flirt with you and then casually ask you to buy them a drink. Some are even bold enough to order themselves a drink and tell the bartender that you're paying for it. And once you stop buying drinks or they got what they came for, they're walking away. You're not getting a phone number or any indication that they want to continue talking. Don't be surprised if when you try to push up, she tells you she has a man. She just finessed you out of free drinks. Man, if a chick came up in the club, she should have her own money to buy drinks. Do not be her benefactor and do not feel bad for not buying her drinks. There's nothing wrong with refusing to buy drinks for a stranger.

You also gotta be careful when you got a table with bottle service or you're just kicking it in VIP. That's when you'll see all of the opportunists. These chicks see sparklers from across the room and will make a bee line towards your direction. They'll come flirt with you because they think you got some money. They'll touch on you , sit on your lap, and all types of craziness so that they can either drink your shyt or have you spend money on them. A lot of these chicks come to the club to scope out who's going to be their potential victim for the night. A lot of dudes set themselves up by thinking because they're spending money and entertaining this chick that she's gonna leave with them. And when she doesn't, he's in his feelings. But you can't get mad because you out here tricking thinking it's gonna guarantee her affection..

A good woman would have her own money, and wouldn't even feel comfortable taking drinks from a stranger unless you offered, and even then the vibe would have to be right for her to accept. Learn how to say "No", and learn how to separate her looks from her actions. Just because she looks good doesn't mean she's a good woman. Don't get taken advantage of in the club, lounge, or any party setting.

I remember you from a long time ago on thos forum.

You right. I learned my lesson about chicks in the club/bar and the games they pull.

I'm a lot wiser and to be honest, a lot more cynical. I'm at the point now where as far as I'm concerned, any stranger approaching me with a smile on their face has an ulterior motive or agenda so they're guilty until proven innocent.

 

[Lhark]

I got 2 potentials rn but my text game weak af, I need to step my game up. I been in a drought too long

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I got 2 potentials rn but my text game weak af, I need to step my game up. I been in a drought too long

Why its weak

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

I got 2 potentials rn but my text game weak af, I need to step my game up. I been in a drought too long

-Don't be too available..don't rush to reply back to her
-If she doesn't respond don't text ANYTHING until she responds back

The usual.

 

[Lhark]

Why its weak

I never really have anything to tallk about, I always hit a dead end

 

[Silkk]

Chick I linked back up with from two years ago is now a fukking chemical engineer with w 4 Bedroom 4 Bathroom house in Houston's galleria area

And she still bad as fukk


I gotta leave them bum bytches the fukk alone

 

[International Playa]

I got 2 potentials rn but my text game weak af, I need to step my game up. I been in a drought too long

Texting is dead in 2018, video calling is the best breh. Make use of the technology available. Video calling is more effective, it feels like it's a date already

Here is a chick I been video calling from the jump, she already feeling me & wants to suck my dikk on the first date, but she said she will make me wait to get the pusssy

Spoiler

 

[Killigraphy]

Amongst the many creeds I follow, I still favor this;

Without knowledge, skill cannot be focused, without skill, power cannot be brought to be bare
and without power, knowledge may not be applied.


Have the knowledge on how to deal with women, the skill used to garner attention and rapport with women, and the power to implement all with ease.

 

[Silkk]

Texting is dead in 2018, video calling is the best breh. Make use of the technology available. Video calling is more effective, it feels like it's a date already

Here is a chick I been video calling from the jump, she already feeling me & wants to suck my dikk on the first date, but she said she will make me wait to get the pusssy

Spoiler

My 19 yo told me this stupid shyt yesterday talking bout she don't want to seem easy

 

[Deafheaven]

I never really have anything to tallk about, I always hit a dead end

A woman into you will help the convo along if its dying. But it shouldn't be if ya'll actually into each other. And if you aren't and you really just want to smash why you want to be texting this chick liberally anyway? Women with little to say bore me. If you aren't very eloquent writing wise it makes no real sense to try to be texting all day you'll just fukk up somewhere. I am and even I'm pretty sure I'd shakespeared myself out some ass multiple times over my own hubris. If she wants to text all day and you not confident in holding interest over that because you'll spill youre whole life just say something like

"That's super interesting, but I got to run and do (bullshyt) and would love to hear it when I see you. when are you free to link up?"

get to the point, and get off the phone if you don't want to be on it. Very rarely I'll meet a woman and toe a dangerous line of being too available with the texting because they just that fukking interesting. I've learned to be verbose with keeping shyt to my chest so she still has to work to even know what I'm about. Also no comments on appearance. Its pointless. pretty woman know theyre pretty, they get told 29 times a day. Comment on the shyt no one notices if you need to compliment.

 

[Silkk]

A woman into you will help the convo along if its dying. But it shouldn't be if ya'll actually into each other. And if you aren't and you really just want to smash why you want to be texting this chick liberally anyway? Women with little to say bore me. If you aren't very eloquent writing wise it makes no real sense to try to be texting all day you'll just fukk up somewhere. I am and even I'm pretty sure I'd shakespeared myself out some ass multiple times over my own hubris. If she wants to text all day and you not confident in holding interest over that because you'll spill youre whole life just say something like

"That's super interesting, but I got to run and do (bullshyt) and would love to hear it when I see you. when are you free to link up?"

get to the point, and get off the phone if you don't want to be on it. Very rarely I'll meet a woman and toe a dangerous line of being too available with the texting because they just that fukking interesting. I've learned to be verbose with keeping shyt to my chest so she still has to work to even know what I'm about. Also no comments on appearance. Its pointless. pretty woman know theyre pretty, they get told 29 times a day. Comment on the shyt no one notices if you need to compliment.

Bolded is facts

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

They thrive on attention hard and when they see you've lost interest and don't fukk with them anymore they don't know how to handle it.

Over the years on this thread I've mentioned chicks I've dealt with (including my ex wife) who were in some dumb or disrespectful shyt and when I bushed them they kept sending messages months after despite not getting a response.

We're coming into 2019 and I don't understand how dudes still haven't learned it doesn't pay to over pursue chicks and be thirsty.

Wise. With this one woman I'm into, I let her know that I want to get to know her better and left it at that. I'm going overseas next year and so is she. If she wants to link up when we get back, that's up to her. I know my worth and I already have a stable (but I can't let her know that she's wife material)