Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Dreamzeedream]

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[Dreamzeedream]

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[Astroslik]

The average woman isn’t gonna do that any ol dude.

You can tell if a woman’s feeling you by the way she looks at you and how she moves around you.

If she’s willing to stop holding back compliments pertaining to masculinity for the sake of keeping leverage she’s for real.

Okay..

 

[Rell Lauren]

simple, don't call her

regain your power back in that situation

Going to have to do this myself. Lately with the woman I mentioned, especially with texts, I've had to pull teeth out of her mouth to get her to talk. I'm just going to go radio silent. If she wants to know how I'm doing she can look at my timeline.

 

[Solano707]

Going to have to do this myself. Lately with the woman I mentioned, especially with texts, I've had to pull teeth out of her mouth to get her to talk. I'm just going to go radio silent. If she wants to know how I'm doing she can look at my timeline.

yea man, she can miss you with that bullshyt. i honestly don't even entertain that type of attitude. if she don't want to talk, i keep it moving and do what i have to do (work out; self improvement activities). I use to find myself hung up on girls like that and i'd be running around myself in circles going nuts.

not worth the anxiety and the headache if you ask me.

 

[Primetime]

Meh. From my experience being the one that's not all over her or "always available" seems to work. Women say they hate games but are always down to play them. I've gotten p*ssy from chics who hit me up only after I stepped back off em and had a image that life goes on with or without them. When I was "consistent and available" I wasn't getting shyt funny enough.

While you trying to get to know her "on an intellectual level" Rodney is long stroking her and her can barely get him to text back

True. Sometimes you gotta just trim the fat, focus on what needs to get done, and be efficient.

If it's a chick at the gym that you just want to smash n dip, your most (reasonably) efficient actions may boil down to: 1. break the ice, 2. formal introductions, 3. ask her out, 4. get sensual (at yalls outing), 5. get her back to the crib. 6. Smash. 7. Dip. lol

1-7 can happen in a day if a chick is really into you, or it could be a couple weeks, but the one thing us men can control is being efficient and definitive in our actions along the way. It makes moving things along or pinpointing bs (and falling back/bushing her) that much easier

 

[Bless't]

They want attention due to their insecurities.

Just tell her that you'd appreciate reciprocity. If she doesn't understand and it annoys you enough - bush. Women are NOT stressing us out this year

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

Ex- girlfriend just insinuated that she's still getting over me in social media. Earlier today, I just landed a big law job for next summer


I can't lose

 

[LiveFromLondon]

If she’s willing to stop holding back compliments pertaining to masculinity for the sake of keeping leverage she’s for real

?????

 

[Vinny Lupton]

True. Sometimes you gotta just trim the fat, focus on what needs to get done, and be efficient.

If it's a chick at the gym that you just want to smash n dip, your most (reasonably) efficient actions may boil down to: 1. break the ice, 2. formal introductions, 3. ask her out, 4. get sensual (at yalls outing), 5. get her back to the crib. 6. Smash. 7. Dip. lol

1-7 can happen in a day if a chick is really into you, or it could be a couple weeks, but the one thing us men can control is being efficient and definitive in our actions along the way. It makes moving things along or pinpointing bs (and falling back/bushing her) that much easier

Expand on # 4 creh

 

[Primetime]

Expand on # 4 creh

The short version is: don't take a chick out and act like you her gay male friend lol

By the end of yalls outing, yall should be flirty, touchy feely, and/or showing strong(er) signs of interest. So you initiate that early and respond accordingly; it could start by simply complimenting her on her outfit of course, then it could be playfulness about something (i.e. if she's short, you could tease that she's funsized).

If i'm out with a chick at a dave n busters, i'm establishing playful physical contact here and there: i'll play bump her at the hip, I'll side hug her close while explaining the games or making jokes. I'll be competitive in the games but flirty. So nothing smothering, groping, or overbearing, but just leaving a clear cut impression of physical attraction, verbal and non verbal. And you adjust based on how receptive she is.

Some chicks will be tongue kissing you by the end of the first date (in that case, F it, see if u can get her back to the crib). Others may be more of a slow burn over a few dates, but by you establishing/testing levels of sensuality, she either reciprocates it back to some acceptable level or you realize that you got a dud and bush her.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Expand on # 4 creh

The short version is: don't take a chick out and act like you her gay male friend lol

By the end of yalls outing, yall should be flirty, touchy feely, and/or showing strong(er) signs of interest. So you initiate that early and respond accordingly; it could start by simply complimenting her on her outfit of course, then it could be playfulness about something (i.e. if she's short, you could tease that she's funsized).

If i'm out with a chick at a dave n busters, i'm establishing playful physical contact here and there: i'll play bump her at the hip, I'll side hug her close while explaining the games or making jokes. I'll be competitive in the games but flirty. So nothing smothering, groping, or overbearing, but just leaving a clear cut impression of physical attraction, verbal and non verbal. And you adjust based on how receptive she is.

Some chicks will be tongue kissing you by the end of the first date (in that case, F it, see if u can get her back to the crib). Others may be more of a slow burn over a few dates, but by you establishing/testing levels of sensuality, she either reciprocates it back to some acceptable level or you realize that you got a dud and bush her.

if this ain't game 101 idk what is!!

If we ain't kissing by the middle of the date I know I fukked up somewhere. But that's usually not the case cause I make sure as fukk to let my attraction be felt early on. And when you kiss in the middle of the date it means you can spend the rest of the date escalating to the point where you either smash or y'all leave on a note where there's no question that it's eventually heading that way with y'all.

If I'm sitting at the bar with her I'm facing her. Occasionally putting my hand on her leg breifly or on her lower back. Just breaking the touch barrier While we chat. I end up saying some shyt to get her jostled a bit so she play fights me when they say "haha you play too much" with a smile and a playful hit I know I got em By the time we leave the bar my tongue is down her throat

Part of the reason I like sitting at the bar with a chic instead of at a table. I ain't about to play no damn footsies while you sit across from me.

 

[Deafheaven]

if this ain't game 101 idk what is!!

If we ain't kissing by the middle of the date I know I fukked up somewhere. But that's usually not the case cause I make sure as fukk to let my attraction be felt early on. And when you kiss in the middle of the date it means you can spend the rest of the date escalating to the point where you either smash or y'all leave on a note where there's no question that it's eventually heading that way with y'all.

If I'm sitting at the bar with her I'm facing her. Occasionally putting my hand on her leg breifly or on her lower back. Just breaking the touch barrier While we chat. I end up saying some shyt to get her jostled a bit so she play fights me when they say "haha you play too much" with a smile and a playful hit I know I got em By the time we leave the bar my tongue is down her throat

Part of the reason I like sitting at the bar with a chic instead of at a table. I ain't about to play no damn footsies while you sit across from me.

this is genius, and such a small and overlooked thing

I definitely feel grabbing a table at the local spot I go to has been a hindrance to escalation till we leave in the past. I'mma make sure to do this from now on.

Genius and repped

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Told this chic we good for drinks on Friday. She Gon hit me like she wants drinks AND hookah I told her she gotta find that then waiting to see what she says.

Hate when bytches start adding shyt to the date. Like I'm just trying to fukk and spend as little as possible and I specifically said drinks. How you trying to add shyt to my tab. If she flakes I got a back up already and a chic for Saturday already

 

[Vinny Lupton]

this is genius, and such a small and overlooked thing

I definitely feel grabbing a table at the local spot I go to has been a hindrance to escalation till we leave in the past. I'mma make sure to do this from now on.

Genius and repped

A few times I tried to just take a bih to get a drink and her and the host conspired to turn into a table deal (hoes wanna eat, but I didn't order food so she knew she woulda looked dumb ordering food alone ). At some point I just come over to their side of the table anyway