Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This chick spent me twice on going to lunch. So I quit texting her for a month but I stii check her snaps sometimes
Out of the blue she text me today. Asking how I'm doing and giving an excuse that she broke her foot. Which is true but has nothing to do with us not having lunch. Saw on her snap that she went out last week to eat. I text her back like 6 hours later, but I know shes not going to lunch with me. Kinda surprised she text me after all this time. But cant figure out why she did
 

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This chick spent me twice on going to lunch. So I quit texting her for a month but I stii check her snaps sometimes
Out of the blue she text me today. Asking how I'm doing and giving an excuse that she broke her foot. Which is true but has nothing to do with us not having lunch. Saw on her snap that she went out last week to eat. I text her back like 6 hours later, but I know shes not going to lunch with me. Kinda surprised she text me after all this time. But cant figure out why she did
bytches is bored b
She texted 12 dudes and you responded
If hoes wanna see you they will see you broken foot or not
 

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This chick spent me twice on going to lunch. So I quit texting her for a month but I stii check her snaps sometimes
Out of the blue she text me today. Asking how I'm doing and giving an excuse that she broke her foot. Which is true but has nothing to do with us not having lunch. Saw on her snap that she went out last week to eat. I text her back like 6 hours later, but I know shes not going to lunch with me. Kinda surprised she text me after all this time. But cant figure out why she did

Either she's bored like @Vinny Lupton said, or she's just trying to assuage her guilt. Basically telling herself that "at least [ I ] told him something, which makes me a decent person. I could've just ignored him and ghosted him, but ghosting is for immature people. And I may not be perfect, but I am not immature".

So, if you respond telling her it's all good. She can sleep easy at night knowing you're not hurt, and that you probably still like her, and that it is indeed all good.
 

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This chick spent me twice on going to lunch. So I quit texting her for a month but I stii check her snaps sometimes
Out of the blue she text me today. Asking how I'm doing and giving an excuse that she broke her foot. Which is true but has nothing to do with us not having lunch. Saw on her snap that she went out last week to eat. I text her back like 6 hours later, but I know shes not going to lunch with me. Kinda surprised she text me after all this time. But cant figure out why she did

She was probably going through her check up list.

Pay these chicks no mind when they do this. I've had chicks get back in touch after 6 months as if nothing has changed, asking how I'm doing, she was thinking of me etc. I've learnt give your energy to women who are feeling you. Bush the rest.

Also it can be hard but stop watching her snaps they feed off that shyt. She probably saw you semi regularly watching and wanted some attention.
 

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She was probably going through her check up list.

Pay these chicks no mind when they do this. I've had chicks get back in touch after 6 months as if nothing has changed, asking how I'm doing, she was thinking of me etc. I've learnt give your energy to women who are feeling you. Bush the rest.

Also it can be hard but stop watching her snaps they feed off that shyt. She probably saw you semi regularly watching and wanted some attention.

Stop wasting time watching these hoes snaps
If I wanna watch somebody singing Bad Bunny I'll go to a Bad Bunny concert. I only use that shyt for the private chats. Even if she ain't letting them nudes fly she needs to address me directly
 

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I need some advice....:jbhmm:

Has anyone else been in a loop where,

It’s like the females I actually wanna be with &/or fukk when I go out with them it doesn’t lead to anything at all ..:wow:

Then the females I’m “ehhh so-so” on like yeah I could build something with them, but they’re like the “runner up’s” to the females I’d actually wanna be with.. :mjcry:


It’s been like this for a minute now, and it’s annoying getting a female out and be just right there but it never goes right..


I’m listening to the Corey Wayne audio book but the shyt is disheartening :sadbron:
 

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Friday was annoying as hell

Shorty got off work at 11pm & switched our Saturday kick it plans to Friday night, saying she really wanted to see me... I’m thinking okay I’m a get the p*ssy

Man I go over there for with her to grab food (she bought her own & offered to by mine)

Then went back to her spot, smoked a lil bit, and threw a Netflix movie on ..


We’re kicking it on the bed I’m laid back, like a hour or so later she cuts the Netflix off saying “I gotta be up for work by 5:30am”

So I’m thinking “biiiiitch why the fukk did you invite me over”... she walks with me to my car, gives me a hug, and I told her “I’m a need that kiss goodnight” she’s like “I can give you another hug” smh lmaooo

I’m like nah I need that kiss, she said hug again..

Fast forward Saturday night I ask her “are you trying to keep this friendly or wassup” she’s gonna tell me “I take things slow, only kicked it with you twice”

I ain’t hit her up since n she ain’t hit me up



Real glad I have a main bytch I’m dealing with, but damn I really wanted to crack this bytch lol
You smoked a blunt and kicked it like homies lol. The Netflix movie should have been background noise.
 

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like homies :mjcry:


You ain’t lying tho... like some damn homies :russ:



lol it’s not even shorty specifically, that’s the most recent event though


I know what it should’ve been :patrice:


I’m doing some wrong with the hoes I’m feeling a lot,

my regular one, I have no issue get topped or cracking :jbhmm:
 

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I need some advice....:jbhmm:

Has anyone else been in a loop where,

It’s like the females I actually wanna be with &/or fukk when I go out with them it doesn’t lead to anything at all ..:wow:

Then the females I’m “ehhh so-so” on like yeah I could build something with them, but they’re like the “runner up’s” to the females I’d actually wanna be with.. :mjcry:


It’s been like this for a minute now, and it’s annoying getting a female out and be just right there but it never goes right..


I’m listening to the Corey Wayne audio book but the shyt is disheartening :sadbron:
We all been there creh
Just wait it out
Run up your dikk XP fukking who u gotta fukk buy don't wife
Work out, don't blow your money on these hoes and
Hold out for ya queen
 

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She was probably going through her check up list.

Pay these chicks no mind when they do this. I've had chicks get back in touch after 6 months as if nothing has changed, asking how I'm doing, she was thinking of me etc. I've learnt give your energy to women who are feeling you. Bush the rest.

Also it can be hard but stop watching her snaps they feed off that shyt. She probably saw you semi regularly watching and wanted some attention.
Yeah it's hard. Cant front. Used to be everyday. Now its when I see something interesting like a cast on her foot. I wish they had some sort of mute button. Sigh...
 

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I be flirting with a lot of girls because I’m single asf but when I do decide to get a girlfriend I think I know what to do to get one. I know that If a girl is single she probably got 3 or 4 nikkas texting or calling her tryna fukk…..If you want to stand out you gotta be different and actually get to know her on a intellectual level. Let her get cute and get her out the house Don't trip when she doesn't text you back immediately, especially if she got kids let her breath, and keep her smiling. Quit telling her you're a real nikka & show her & Watch how fast she cut ✂️them others nikkas off and gives you her full attention
 
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