BornStar
Marathon Continues
I needed this.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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I needed this.I had her while she was young and sprung.. she would literally do anything for me.
She is pretty bad but low self esteem. I know I could go back anytime but the problem was she was young (minded) she was 21 years old.
That comes with the territory...
She still finding herself...
The ups and downs def gonna come when she that age...
You gotta be the steady calm when it gets like that...
U should keep the number Cruz she prolly will circle around...
BornStar
Marathon Continues
Not gonna lie..getting back to the basics of approaching on a daily basis is a challenge...
But I'm seeing what's not working anymore and building off what does...
To all the brehs out there who feel tenative...
Take baby steps daily...
It takes "energy" snapping out your comfort zone, so even if you start with one or two compliments, you have something to build off of..
You gonna get ignored...sometimes it's your fault Cuz the bytch didn't hear you or she simply ignored you...
Always evaluate and experiment
Once you feel that feeling of rejection more than once, it "stings" less and less...
Break down the barriers
But I'm seeing what's not working anymore and building off what does...
To all the brehs out there who feel tenative...
Take baby steps daily...
It takes "energy" snapping out your comfort zone, so even if you start with one or two compliments, you have something to build off of..
You gonna get ignored...sometimes it's your fault Cuz the bytch didn't hear you or she simply ignored you...
Always evaluate and experiment
Once you feel that feeling of rejection more than once, it "stings" less and less...
Break down the barriers
SummerKnight
Rookie
Get into your Godliness and realize you are worthy of admiration and respect. You attract what you are. I am a Goddess and I attract Kings. They see it too when they look me in the eyes. Carry yourself as a King.
Dreamzeedream
Banned
mortuus est
Veteran
Weren't you the one saying you had 7 on the roster and 4 of them you were going in raw
yeah breh but ive never had anything wrong with my bazooka , im kinda shook to get tested cause i know i aint been living right
the downside to the demonic life brehs, learn from my mistake
mortuus est
Veteran
Not gonna lie..getting back to the basics of approaching on a daily basis is a challenge...
do you approach when walking somewhere? i see alot of fine chicks when im on foot going to places even without headphones
How do you holla at women daily? You just see a lot of attractive women passing by and compliment some? Do you just talk to them ?
What's your daily life like ?
In trying to become more of a talker now, so I gotta get used to it.
Thing with me is I hate feeding a bytches ego, I hate giving compliments to them and they get big headed. I realize that I have to tho to make some moves.
I just don't want to look stupid out chea.
I gotta keep getting out of my comfort zone for real.
What's your daily life like ?
In trying to become more of a talker now, so I gotta get used to it.
Thing with me is I hate feeding a bytches ego, I hate giving compliments to them and they get big headed. I realize that I have to tho to make some moves.
I just don't want to look stupid out chea.
I gotta keep getting out of my comfort zone for real.
Not gonna lie..getting back to the basics of approaching on a daily basis is a challenge...
But I'm seeing what's not working anymore and building off what does...
To all the brehs out there who feel tenative...
Take baby steps daily...
It takes "energy" snapping out your comfort zone, so even if you start with one or two compliments, you have something to build off of..
You gonna get ignored...sometimes it's your fault Cuz the bytch didn't hear you or she simply ignored you...
Always evaluate and experiment
Once you feel that feeling of rejection more than once, it "stings" less and less...
Break down the barriers
ZoeGod
I’m from Brooklyn a place where stars are born.
So on campus we have a gym everybody uses and the last couple of weeks there is this bad redbone looking shorty with curly hair that has been working out there. I want to know how do y’all approach women in the gym cuz I never done that before. I don’t want to bother her while working out and shyt plus I sweat like a Florida pimp in a routine traffic stop. And I ain’t the most in shape nikka in the world and she is in shape.
And secondly I’m mad rusty since I haven’t approached in a while. How do y’all get your mindset back in the game especially after a long time out of it?
And secondly I’m mad rusty since I haven’t approached in a while. How do y’all get your mindset back in the game especially after a long time out of it?
ZoeGod
I’m from Brooklyn a place where stars are born.
I agree with you bro but the down side is broads got mad options. I tried this several times with different women and it fell through. I get their number and set up a date for the weekend. Then when I text her the day of the date they never respond back. What it is these women have mad nighas texting them and have plenty of options. They do robably though that since I haven’t texted them for days that I ghost them or some shyt. We gotta measure how much interest a woman has. If her interest is moderate than we gotta work hard for it. If her interest is high then we can text them only to set dates and that it. Because at the end of the day she has high interest and can’t wait to see us. But a women with low or moderate interest isn’t going to reply back if you text her only for dates once a week. Nah she got plenty of options to choose from.I' m starting to believe you should only use a mobile device to hit up the squad's group chat ,or to talk to your girlfriend.
I'm in college. Tinder and texting women don't seem to work well.
I be feeling like, "damn maybe I am ugly," but then I can go out and pull a chick.
Someone posted about lingering around. I feel like texting/snapping/FB messagining/etc. all in that same boat.
But this could be a non-woman thing too.. Always posting on social media/texting is wack. Remember them days when you haven't seen/talked to someone in months and you wonder what in the world happen to them? Or how bout to show up to a little function with a crew you haven't seen in forever and its a big deal?
With women we need to make our presence a little bit more special. Just be straight up and be like lets hang out at a bar or some shyt.
Bros be texting themselves out of the p*ssy every day trying to keep a virtual conversation going.
When all your boys getting skins and play while you the only one that isnt is the most horrible feeling in the world. You self esteem falls rock bottom.Do you brehs believe some dudes just have bad luck in the game?
I'm starting to believe I'm one of those guys
You start saying My roommate gets mad play as well as his homies. nikka just DM bytches and get in their skins days latter. My ass does that shyt and get left on seen. When his crew goes to the club they pull bytches and get numbers and I do too. But a lot of the bytches does respond back to those texts. shyt is aggravating but it’s all in the game. Gotta keep it moving.
Well I'm relearning....
Nightclub game is easier for me because the adrenaline pushes you...
Daytime is difficult for me because I have to get a rhythm going...
I feel the same way you do...I hate giving compliments and validation, but you gotta throw something out there...
So far I have gotten mostly ignored and 1 smile..
But I see where I went wrong...
It has to feel natural as soon as you speak...
Your gonna feel "stupid"
Your gonna feel "wack"
That's a part of the process...
It will be a process that can get overwhelming...when it does, take a lil time off and recharge...
But as you keep at it, you will begin to figure things out and the walls will begin to crack...
You gonna find what style works for you...
I agree with you bro but the down side is broads got mad options. I tried this several times with different women and it fell through. I get their number and set up a date for the weekend. Then when I text her the day of the date they never respond back. What it is these women have mad nighas texting them and have plenty of options. They do robably though that since I haven’t texted them for days that I ghost them or some shyt. We gotta measure how much interest a woman has. If her interest is moderate than we gotta work hard for it. If her interest is high then we can text them only to set dates and that it. Because at the end of the day she has high interest and can’t wait to see us. But a women with low or moderate interest isn’t going to reply back if you text her only for dates once a week. Nah she got plenty of options to choose from.
When all your boys getting skins and play while you the only one that isnt is the most horrible feeling in the world. You self esteem falls rock bottom.
My roommate gets mad play as well as his homies. nikka just DM bytches and get in their skins days latter. My ass does that shyt and get left on seen. When his crew goes to the club they pull bytches and get numbers and I do too. But a lot of the bytches does respond back to those texts. shyt is aggravating but it’s all in the game. Gotta keep it moving.
You gotta call to separate yourself...
You might be playing it too safe....
The ones who get left are the ones who stay in the huddle too much...
The 2 minute offense calling plays on the fly and winging it...that's what you gotta be on
Some nikkas get the number and go straight to facetimingYou gotta call to separate yourself...
You might be playing it too safe....
The ones who get left are the ones who stay in the huddle too much...
The 2 minute offense calling plays on the fly and winging it...that's what you gotta be on
