Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Simping never wins.

I simp'd, I simp'd because I thought it was "the right thing to do" not even on some true simpathic ish.


But I've come to realize it is never, ever the right thing to do. Ever, point blank period.


No matter how you feel in your mind fellas, what your personality or heart wants to tell you. Its just NOT the right move.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Espically ones who look like this

Is in school, doesn't do the club thing, and can take care of herself

The complete opposite from my ex

Go for it,you live once

 

[Rayzah]

I don't know what it is though with people feeling the need to broadcast shyt. You got alot of these chicks taking IG and FB pictures every other minute going to Bike Week or any other lavish vacation. Thats exactly why if nikkas going with the purpose of pulling bytches that its worthless because its gonna be no different from when you're going to a night spot. Females are glued in with their phones, Too busy texting, too busy staying with their own female click to want to interact with anybody out there.

Females go out to these lavish spots, beaches, turning up at the club to seek gratification and attention, Males go to find a bytch to fukk and usually 90% of the time unless he do some serious tricking. Their intended mission will usually fail.

Thats why when I use to go out with me team, We go to have a GOOD TIME. Forget hunting for a bytch. You subconsciously ruin what should be a eventful time when you put pulling a chick as your main ulterior motive. We turn it up to where females eventual want to come AROUND US and thats where we get full cooperation. If we pull, We pull, If we don't so be it. We do it up anyways.

As of late I been doing more shyt solo. It gets frustrating getting a team of people on the right page and It's been more enjoyful!

I wish I would have had this mentality a long time ago, I used to get tired of everybody equating MY enjoyment to how many bytches a fukked, not pulled, but smashed... I used always think, why am I the only one that truly doesn't give a fukk if I pull bytches, I just want to have fun.. I guess its just like the people who cant have fun without alcohol, I don't get it.. but yes, the FEW times we were just chilling and enjoying ourself the women came to us..

But at the same time, I have noticed along time ago that these chicks just out to look good on IG and not actually meet someone, but I would let the homies drag me back into this chase

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

Damn bruh...you might have to simp / think outside the box :mpls: twitter is your only way to see her?

Yea I kno where she works, I been by her house, Her momma took a liking to me , I use to sell her momma weed and, I use to roll her momma blunts too.


But yea she's immature idc tho cuz I get a real "at home" feeling with her. Like we just naturally click there's no forcing anything. I just need to pick the right time to get at her. If I can just get her to look past that petty shyt it could be something.

 

[TRUEST]

Yea I kno where she works, I been by her house, Her momma took a liking to me , I use to sell her momma weed and, I use to roll her momma blunts too.


But yea she's immature idc tho cuz I get a real "at home" feeling with her. Like we just naturally click there's no forcing anything. I just need to pick the right time to get at her. If I can just get her to look past that petty shyt it could be something.

listen man, sometimes with women, u goto be forceful and extremely direct with them.

see, whether u choose to believe it or not, it's in a woman's nature to be submissive to a man. some try to hide it by being overly b1tchy. but when u get a woman on the phone, or in person, and u look her dead in the eyes, and be like "listen, i wanna see u. ima be at xyz tomorrow at 6pm. or tonight at 6pm. be there!"

and she'll be on some:

her: buttttt i got something planned.
me: nah hun, listen, u goto meet me. i got sh1t i wanna say to you. this is very important
her: oook (in her head, she's thinking damn this n1gga is demanding...but again, thats masculine energy and they love that - dont over do it though)
me: (when the day and time arrives, its a wrap).

u goto stop all this weak sh1t.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Truth. Funny thing is that's the way my mentality was as a young monster lol. I would call a shorty up, make a little small talk then tell them I'm coming over. You get a little front like oh I'm tired, or I'm doing xyz. Shut it down like yo I'm in the car and on the way. Their response... Ok. Never failed.

It wasn't until I got older and then allowed societies' programming to infiltrate my psyche, that my problems started. Funny how that works.

 

[MikelArteta]

The sooner you realize it doesn't matter how you treat a woman or what you do for her is when you'll be at ease.

I'm not saying treat a woman horribly or bad, what I mean you never have to do anything extra than you think you must.

I remember when I learned my lesson from an ex, treated her great, was faithful, family loved her.

Her ex treated her bad, cheated on her, never brought her to meet the FAM etc.

Yet who got loyalty and respect and unconditional love it wasn't me.

A woman will either have emotions for you or not. All that money you spend, simping , status you have , how great you treat her means nothing at the end of the day. Men with status get played, men with insane amounts of money get played. Good faithful honest men get played.


If someone wants to be with you they will, distance, money, status, means nothing.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

the ex ex the one that changed your life breh?

tom leykis has always said that "women are dream killers" an dto accomplish your eams before you get serious with a woman because they won't sacrifice for you rarely.

and ive been there I would have been so much further in life if it wasn't for my two main exes

one thing ive learned to realize in life is that there will always be women but there wont always be time and situation in your life where you can bette yourself and take risks.

nah, my latest one. The one I'm in a grad program with. The only reason we still talk is because I see her multiple times a week and can't avoid her. That leads to a whole lot of "Well maybe this could workout.." moments which lead to long drawn out arguments about nothing.

Like most men, I hate getting into that death spiral of serious conversation -> argument -> emotions that women always drag us into.

The older I get the more I realize shyt aint that complicated. If you gotta spend all your time explaining yourself or disagreeing with a person then it's best to just cut things off. Ain't nobody got time for all that. It's pointless in the long run.

 

[MikelArteta]

It's a waste of time for real. Women want a dude to give them problems. They'll tell you they want some nice, sweet faithful guy when their last 4 or 5 boyfriends were the SAME drama types. She always posts on facebook she wants a man of God, but everytime you see her kicking it, it's with the block bully.

I'll tell you a secret. You'll get more loyalty when your girl is arguing and fighting with you on occasion than you will if everything is smooth and there are no problems. Women like to be emotionally wrapped up in some form of drama. Peace and perfection are way too boring for them. LOOK WHAT HAPPENED IN THE GARDEN OF EDEN. We had peace and perfection there, but she got bored and had to go off listening to that snake.. You feel me mane? That's why it's better to be a woman's problem than her problem solver. It's also why you don't worry about what a woman thinks, because you try to give into her supposed 'wants' and you'll be even more confused than her. You end up satisfying all of her needs and doing whatever it takes to put a smile on her face everyday and she'll leave you for being too boring and too appeasing. You spend a lot of time with her and you are 'too clingy and need to give her space.' You don't spend a whole lot of time with her and you are too distant and aren't showing her enough affection. In other words, no matter what you do, she was a way to find you in the wrong to justify her complaining or her talking to some other guy, etc. This is why you never focus on pleasing a woman, but instead operate on principle whether she likes it or not.

One art a woman has perfected is the art of victimhood. Once you figure this out, you will have a way deeper understanding of female psychology. Women have been taught at an early age to manipulate men by manipulating her dad through crying and looking sad. She won't try that with momma, because momma knows what's up and will tell her to dry those tears up and get out of there. Daddy, on the other hand, will say hey princess, what's wrong? How can I make those tears go away? She learns at an early age that by playing the victim to a man she can get her way.

Think of a situation in which a woman with a man decides to cheat. To the other man, her boyfriend is the dirtiest scumbag ever, but somehow she never got around to leaving. One day you end up meeting the fella, and you might say man this dude ain't nothing like what she described... He looks like one of those nice guys that is just heads over heels in love with his woman. If she gets caught cheating with you, all of a sudden you were the slick seducer that made her do it against her will. We can go on and on with countless more examples. If you want a recent example, just look at the whole SOHH fiasco. It wasn't SOHH and felicia's fault for ignoring the requests of users. It was Buzznet's who she decided to make a deal with. It wasn't her problem to fix, but it was the users that needed to email buzznet.

You will save yourself a LOT of time and effort if you understand the victim mentality of a female and learn to cut it short. Just tell them to stop feeling sorry for themselves and to handle that... Otherwise YOU'LL be the one feeling down when she wraps you in a blanket of negativity as she offloads constant complaints in your ear in the form of non-stop vent sessions. You will save yourself undue manipulation.

bump this kevm gem for the newbs

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Just started taking Japanese lessons today. Preparing for a trip I have coming up in October. I have to tell you fellas it's a great feeling just knowing that you're taking steps to become an improved version of yourself. After I'm done with Japanese I want to tackle Spanish. Have some pretty major moves on the horizon. Just found out I'm going to spend the entirety of 2016 in Korea. I'm really looking forward to that. Life is great right now.

how u gone make money down there?

 

[360dagod]

Truth. Funny thing is that's the way my mentality was as a young monster lol. I would call a shorty up, make a little small talk then tell them I'm coming over. You get a little front like oh I'm tired, or I'm doing xyz. Shut it down like yo I'm in the car and on the way. Their response... Ok. Never failed.

It wasn't until I got older and then allowed societies' programming to infiltrate my psyche, that my problems started. Funny how that works.

Man i was an animal when i was younger breh...

If i could get that back for 1 day

I havent gotten that aura back since i simped in my 1st real relationship

 

[NerdNash]

Man smh I need help from my brehs....


@kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf
And all my brehs gotta help me on this one .

I fukked up bad and lost a good one. Due to my savage way of living. I gotta change my brehs. Even if it doesn't lead to getting her back I gotta change. This current version of me won't cut it. I'm a piece of shyt in a lot of ways.

She told me I won't ever change and I need to prove her and myself wrong.

I hurt her and it's hurting me even more. shyt is paralyzing my brehs. I try to stay busy but it's hard (I have hobbies like my site, podcast and etc..) but I'm at work for 8 hrs thinking about her ...

My brehs gotta help me on this one

 

[MikelArteta]

You cheated?


The only person who can change you is you. And its a gradual process doesn't just happen. I remember after certain situations in my life I became bitter, angry and those seeds sprouted took me a while to change for the best.

Actions>>>>words

Anyone can say whatever there this there that buts its your actions that define you.its never to late to change to set the motions in line to make you a better man.

One of the worst feelings is losing a good women over something you did because a. There are so few good women out there and b. Its your fault.

I'd respect a woman greatly for discarding me if I did something horrible, because it shows me she values herself and thinks logically over emotionally.

And now you go through the motions, always on your mind, looking at your phone. Knowing you shouldn't be but taking a peek at that social media account .

Its always hard at first but as time goes on the pain subsides the thoughts aren't so constant.

Always found me for traveling helped, not peeking at her social media accounts and just trying to stay busy to starve the addiction.

Man smh I need help from my brehs....


@kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf
And all my brehs gotta help me on this one .

I fukked up bad and lost a good one. Due to my savage way of living. I gotta change my brehs. Even if it doesn't lead to getting her back I gotta change. This current version of me won't cut it. I'm a piece of shyt in a lot of ways.

She told me I won't ever change and I need to prove her and myself wrong.

I hurt her and it's hurting me even more. shyt is paralyzing my brehs. I try to stay busy but it's hard (I have hobbies like my site, podcast and etc..) but I'm at work for 8 hrs thinking about her ...

My brehs gotta help me on this one

 

[NerdNash]

You cheated?


The only person who can change you is you. And its a gradual process doesn't just happen. I remember after certain situations in my life I became bitter, angry and those seeds sprouted took me a while to change for the best.

Actions>>>>words

Anyone can say whatever there this there that buts its your actions that define you.its never to late to change to set the motions in line to make you a better man.

One of the worst feelings is losing a good women over something you did because a. There are so few good women out there and b. Its your fault.

I'd respect a woman greatly for discarding me if I did something horrible, because it shows me she values herself and thinks logically over emotionally.

And now you go through the motions, always on your mind, looking at your phone. Knowing you shouldn't be but taking a peek at that social media account .

Its always hard at first but as time goes on the pain subsides the thoughts aren't so constant.

Always found me for traveling helped, not peeking at her social media accounts and just trying to stay busy to starve the addiction.

This shyt hard man


I don't know how future doing it lmaooooo real shyt tho

 

[MikelArteta]

Takes time, time is really the only way.

Just like if your coke addict for years going cold turkey weening off will have you feeling some type of way,but every day you don't take a hit you feel better and better

This shyt hard man


I don't know how future doing it lmaooooo real shyt tho