Lol I'm good breh.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Man I want bruh to be out here winning, not sitting around waiting up on some woman who is cultivating options while he's being faithful and all that.
Life is too short to sweat some woman. We've all been through that situation he's going through and we're still here living. The key isn't what happened. The key is how you rebound from what happened and how you react to a similar situation in the future. If she can't get it right, there are so many other women out there, and there's so many other things in life to enjoy and appreciate. If she can't put joy on your mind, but is instead filling your atmosphere with worry or doubt, you really don't need that. Better you find out now than when you really get hooked.
Life is too short to sweat some woman. We've all been through that situation he's going through and we're still here living. The key isn't what happened. The key is how you rebound from what happened and how you react to a similar situation in the future. If she can't get it right, there are so many other women out there, and there's so many other things in life to enjoy and appreciate. If she can't put joy on your mind, but is instead filling your atmosphere with worry or doubt, you really don't need that. Better you find out now than when you really get hooked.
breh see right now anything she does or say your backing it up ons ome but I know her she wouldn't do that, she says that to everyone.
She hangs out wiht everyone, she's playful with everyone, you don't know her like I do.
Its ok we've all been there just like kevm3 said, its just being in a fog of emotions where you try and rationalize bad behavior
She sits on everybody lap breh she just sat on his lap while his dikk was out, honest mistake
I feel you.
and @kevm3 is right, you will be ok breh
just remember with your ex, how you felt and then how you got over it. I know how some dudes may clown because she's all the while in japan but that doesn't mean anything. When your invested your invested and it always stings when you check your stocks and its enron status.
Trust me I spent like 5 years pinning, going back and forth with an ex basically my whole middle to late twenties, time I will never get back. Time WASTED!
Never again, there are way way way to many women out there, and not even that there is so much to do in life, your passions, hobbies, travel, help others etc. to stay pinning for someone who doesnt view you the same way.
just remember with your ex, how you felt and then how you got over it. I know how some dudes may clown because she's all the while in japan but that doesn't mean anything. When your invested your invested and it always stings when you check your stocks and its enron status.
Trust me I spent like 5 years pinning, going back and forth with an ex basically my whole middle to late twenties, time I will never get back. Time WASTED!
Never again, there are way way way to many women out there, and not even that there is so much to do in life, your passions, hobbies, travel, help others etc. to stay pinning for someone who doesnt view you the same way.
ya i truly know how he feels with minor differences but with the main situation being the same.
long distance is bad enough another country is another level especially when u have to do more work in a sense cuz of time zone differences be all fukked up and shyt and the cultural differences and u feel she could be the one u meet the fam and shyt then it goes all out the wind cuz of her stupid ways selfish ways shyt hurts breh
but if u have the right mind frame u can bounce back properly and easily and live and learn from that lesson so u wont make that same mistake twice
ya i truly know how he feels with minor differences but with the main situation being the same.
long distance is bad enough another country is another level especially when u have to do more work in a sense cuz of time zone differences be all fukked up and shyt and the cultural differences and u feel she could be the one u meet the fam and shyt then it goes all out the wind cuz of her stupid ways selfish ways shyt hurts breh
but if u have the right mind frame u can bounce back properly and easily and live and learn from that lesson so u wont make that same mistake twice
the sad thing is it doesn't matter, my ex was living in my own home and still played me. YO have to enjoy your life without women, build yourself up. Realize if one goes, yeah it will sting but you'll get over it. Women come women go. Everytime a woman has departed my life, many times I thought this was it, i won't click or find someone that attractive again, then just like the nfl season it ends and it comes back.
Now I'm More interested in travelling and living life than curling up in a bed staring at my phone waiting from a text from some chick who has anoter man in a higher priority than me.
one thing i've read here a few times is dudes saying that you have to be aggressive and set up dates/meetings and shyt. which i agree with to an extent
but im naturally very aloof and coupled with my busy schedule i don't really have the time/energy to be setting shyt up with multiple women
in fact my apparent indifference works to my favor a lot of the time. i think i mentioned earlier how this girl i met wasn't really texting me at first, and i was likeand then she must've noticed i wasn't texting her too, and she started with the good morning texts and shyt and eventually bought us tix to a baseball game, and then asked me out to get mexican food a week later. and she paid both times
i guess it works on a case by case basis, certain hos will be more drawn to a guy that appears to not give a shyt while others will shut out a guy who isn't aggressively pursuing them.
quiet, introverted guys or dudes with no "game" would never get married or be in a relationship if that was the csae.
I've never chased after a girl, hunted, made the first move, im not aggressive yet I've ate quite well. Whoever you are as a person just be confident in it.
I'm quiet and I've alwas been since I was young with a speech impediment, nothing changes.
Next week friday I'm travelling 3,000 miles away back to vancouver, and also to victoria (first time) by myself. Bag already packed a small duffel bag and a small briefcase. I'm going to eat at fancy restaurants by myself, take photos, climb mountains just enjoy the scenery and God's beautiful creation.
Yeah I'm single, yeah my phone ain't buzzing any second, yeah I'm not on social media but I'm enjoying my life regardless.
You don't need anyone but yourself to enjoy life. You don't even need a whole heap of money, I guarantee there is a city you've never been thats like a 3-4 hour drive, or a 40 dollar amtrak ticket you can just hop and go for the weekend. Yeah it's nice to be in a fulfilling enriching relationship, but life can be damn good "alone".
I'm not going to sit around and worry about, stress myself over, stalk on social media, think of who I can morph into to garner the attention of some woman whose not doing the same for me.
Like I said before life becomes damn easy when you focus on woman who focus on you, and when you only like woman who like you.
Yeah I'm single, yeah my phone ain't buzzing any second, yeah I'm not on social media but I'm enjoying my life regardless.
You don't need anyone but yourself to enjoy life. You don't even need a whole heap of money, I guarantee there is a city you've never been thats like a 3-4 hour drive, or a 40 dollar amtrak ticket you can just hop and go for the weekend. Yeah it's nice to be in a fulfilling enriching relationship, but life can be damn good "alone".
I'm not going to sit around and worry about, stress myself over, stalk on social media, think of who I can morph into to garner the attention of some woman whose not doing the same for me.
Like I said before life becomes damn easy when you focus on woman who focus on you, and when you only like woman who like you.
Its coo to see everyone coming in together for encouragement\
Most of us absolutely would love to have that one loyal woman for life who you can build with and never have to worry about, but realistically, if you are not prepared for a woman to walk, then you'll be in a not so pleasant situation in the future. If you find that gem, excellent, but there's no use in putting the enjoyment of your life on hold until you find that woman. There's so much other things to do than be fixated on women. Enjoy them while they are here, but if they leave, still enjoy your life. Women should be like a snack... something you'd like to have, but something you can do without if you don't have.
What you SHOULD be focused on is building up your life and putting yourself in a better position. When you handle your business, and you really start getting things together and enjoying life, you make it way easier to meet and interact with women as a side benefit. Sitting around moping and worrying about this or that woman is a loser's game. We've all been in situations where we lost women. At the time, we thought she was 'the one', that it would never be the same, etc., but once time passed, our emotions subsided and we found other women we could connect to... so bottom line is, there is no singular woman that you absolutely must have. You just have to realize that in your mind. Spending all your time being some PUA type of dude is a waste of time when that time could be spent just improving your position in life and in enjoying life. The women will come to you naturally.
One of the keys though is to be social. Get out and about and don't be pasted in the house if you don't have to. If one woman leaves, in a way, you should feel a bit of excitement because it opens up an adventure of you meeting another interesting one. If one woman couldn't appreciate what you brought to her, no need to sweat. Maybe when you're at the bookstore, at school, in the grocery store, etc., you'll meet an even more engaging one. The only woman that is indispensable is the one God puts in your life and you'll know because you won't have to worry about the nonsense about her 'making you insecure' or playing these nonsensical games.
I was watching an interview about the Cowboys landing La'el Collins, an undrafted free agent. You know the best part of him signing with the Cowboys? He WANTED to be there. That's how it should be with any woman you deal with. If she doesn't, of her own volition, WANT to be there, then let her butt go.
All of that 'I should have did this or that' stuff is nonsense. There was just a thread and in it a woman was talking about how her boyfriend treats her like trash and yet she is still around. A woman that wants to be around will stay around. There's no use in expending an iota of thought or emotion on a woman who doesn't want to be around. Save that emotion for one that does.
Most of us absolutely would love to have that one loyal woman for life who you can build with and never have to worry about, but realistically, if you are not prepared for a woman to walk, then you'll be in a not so pleasant situation in the future. If you find that gem, excellent, but there's no use in putting the enjoyment of your life on hold until you find that woman. There's so much other things to do than be fixated on women. Enjoy them while they are here, but if they leave, still enjoy your life. Women should be like a snack... something you'd like to have, but something you can do without if you don't have.
What you SHOULD be focused on is building up your life and putting yourself in a better position. When you handle your business, and you really start getting things together and enjoying life, you make it way easier to meet and interact with women as a side benefit. Sitting around moping and worrying about this or that woman is a loser's game. We've all been in situations where we lost women. At the time, we thought she was 'the one', that it would never be the same, etc., but once time passed, our emotions subsided and we found other women we could connect to... so bottom line is, there is no singular woman that you absolutely must have. You just have to realize that in your mind. Spending all your time being some PUA type of dude is a waste of time when that time could be spent just improving your position in life and in enjoying life. The women will come to you naturally.
One of the keys though is to be social. Get out and about and don't be pasted in the house if you don't have to. If one woman leaves, in a way, you should feel a bit of excitement because it opens up an adventure of you meeting another interesting one. If one woman couldn't appreciate what you brought to her, no need to sweat. Maybe when you're at the bookstore, at school, in the grocery store, etc., you'll meet an even more engaging one. The only woman that is indispensable is the one God puts in your life and you'll know because you won't have to worry about the nonsense about her 'making you insecure' or playing these nonsensical games.
I was watching an interview about the Cowboys landing La'el Collins, an undrafted free agent. You know the best part of him signing with the Cowboys? He WANTED to be there. That's how it should be with any woman you deal with. If she doesn't, of her own volition, WANT to be there, then let her butt go.
All of that 'I should have did this or that' stuff is nonsense. There was just a thread and in it a woman was talking about how her boyfriend treats her like trash and yet she is still around. A woman that wants to be around will stay around. There's no use in expending an iota of thought or emotion on a woman who doesn't want to be around. Save that emotion for one that does.
Just how you reacted when the dude revealed shorty was in Japan. I already knew... But you be reacting the same way I would and see a lot of things the same way I do. Raw...uncut... No filter