Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[sixsixtwo]

'Divorce from hell' began with $5,400 monthly alimony offer, ended with $1,500 installments - ABA Journal

 

[International Playa]

[Ep. 1] How Men Become DOGS | "A Dog Is Born" - YouTube!

 

[Medio]

Fellas what you think about dating outside of your race?

I've done it, nothing wrong with it

religion is more a factor though long term IMO
i've had 2 experiences with muslim girls, one arab and one persian
the persian one was from afghanistan and the thing is i were to end up marrying her i would have to convert to islam, i'm not about that life, i know marriage is a far for me but you have to have that in the back of your mind.
the other one is americanized, born here, and she even stated she doesn't want to marry an arab guy so that wouldn't be bad.

 

[T-K-G]

Fellas what you think about dating outside of your race?

literally not a big deal at all

 

[CrossBones]

You're divorced? What happened? If you don't mind me asking.


Yeah I've noticed, I think because by that time they've realized that they have less chances of making good conversation with someone now that they're not at school or whatever so when they meet someone who can hold a good one with them they try to keep them around and catch feelings.

basically it was me choosing beauty over brains. she was very unstable after some time and I realized I couldnt trust her no more. she managed to fail at everything and it was because she never really wanted to do anything. not even be a good housewife. she was once a model and I could see had real entitlement issues. she never got her own life in order and failed at her goals because of her being lazy. I fell for the okie doke because she was great at first, and was wanting to propose to me. I stopped her just short of proposing, but because of that I really thought she might be serious. so maybe you think everythings good, and you take em for their word, but in the end it all works out horribly. it happens, bruh. she ended up not being right for me. theres a little bit more, but I dont want to put it all out there right now.


as for messing with older women, I always put a halt on that if they have kids in the picture. those baby daddys dont have to do much to put themselves back in the picture. you have to keep that in mind.

a sensible woman without kids should be good enough for any man, regardless of her age. younger is preferred, however

 

[CrossBones]

Real talk, I'm putting these women on the backburner. I'm much more focused on applying my mental efforts and time into other pursuits. Today's woman simply has such a low return on investment. The effort you have to expend is simply not worth the return you will get unless you luck upon one of those women who are a precious jewel... and these aren't the type of women that you typically pursue and win by 'spitting game', but are more along the lines of that woman that comes along while you are handling your business and you two meet at the 'right time.' This is the kind of woman that you have to be ready for when she comes as opposed to that one you actively make the effort to go out and catch. Why is this? Because when she likes you, it will be when you are being natural and aren't trying to run any little routines to catch women. When a woman likes you for yourself in your natural state, all you have to do is keep her is be yourself. Establish yourself as a man first and foremost, and then the women will come.

its messed up when a lot of men have to put on a charade in order to "stand out," or get the attention of a female today. instead of just being a stand up guy, many men are relying on being a trick, or a man of means to attract women. in turn women get approached by so many lames, that their opinion of men and what they can get from them have changed. women have so many low value guys ready to simp or to kick their little routines of thirst on them, that they know they dont need to be loyal to a man to get what they want. with the cape armies around them, many feel like they can away without having class or consideration.


instead of women appreciating a good man for what he is, theyre learning that they can use that against him while going around and "having fun." the simp army says its okay too, theyll still be there for her. there are no instant repercussions for being this way either if you were to look at it. they want to play their messy games with men when theyre younger, but then wonder why no one wants them when theyve become older, bitter, and with a lot of baggage. a lot of young women are so gassed up, that theyre only playing cock carousel or "friendzoning" dudes with the quickness to get favors - and who could ever take those kinds of women seriously

 

[CASHAPP]

its messed up when a lot of men have to put on a charade in order to "stand out," or get the attention of a female today. instead of just being a stand up guy, many men are relying on being a trick, or a man of means to attract women. in turn women get approached by so many lames, that their opinion of men and what they can get from them have changed. women have so many low value guys ready to simp or to kick their little routines of thirst on them, that they know they dont need to be loyal to a man to get what they want. with the cape armies around them, many feel like they can away without having class or consideration.


instead of women appreciating a good man for what he is, theyre learning that they can use that against him while going around and "having fun." the simp army says its okay too, theyll still be there for her. there are no instant repercussions for being this way either if you were to look at it. they want to play their messy games with men when theyre younger, but then wonder why no one wants them when theyve become older, bitter, and with a lot of baggage. a lot of young women are so gassed up, that theyre only playing cock carousel or "friendzoning" dudes with the quickness to get favors - and who could ever take those kinds of women seriously

i learned alot from that recently....

havent had the chance with a new girl since being taken advantage of with the last one....

and then they have the nerve to look you dead in the eye and say "wats up" like nothing happened....

the experience in the past pretty much taught me to have a "no texting" policy with these new broads i come across

it gives themselves way too much power...

women out here having like 30 males in their friend zone and 3 girlfriends

something's wrong...

 

[TRUEST]

i learned alot from that recently....

havent had the chance with a new girl since being taken advantage of with the last one....

and then they have the nerve to look you dead in the eye and say "wats up" like nothing happened....

the experience in the past pretty much taught me to have a "no texting" policy with these new broads i come across

it gives themselves way too much power...

women out here having like 30 males in their friend zone and 3 girlfriends

something's wrong...

nothing wrong with text as long as u are straight to the point. lets meet up. if she gives a dumbass answer, dont respond.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

my cousin was dating some nygga that she used to complain about all the time.. vut she wouldnt break up with him because he always threatened that he'd kill himself if she ever did. i was like hes just sayin that to scare you into staying, just drop em. so she did, and he shot himself right then and there over the phone

:future::future::future::future:

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

basically it was me choosing beauty over brains. she was very unstable after some time and I realized I couldnt trust her no more. she managed to fail at everything and it was because she never really wanted to do anything. not even be a good housewife. she was once a model and I could see had real entitlement issues. she never got her own life in order and failed at her goals because of her being lazy. I fell for the okie doke because she was great at first, and was wanting to propose to me. I stopped her just short of proposing, but because of that I really thought she might be serious. so maybe you think everythings good, and you take em for their word, but in the end it all works out horribly. it happens, bruh. she ended up not being right for me. theres a little bit more, but I dont want to put it all out there right now.


as for messing with older women, I always put a halt on that if they have kids in the picture. those baby daddys dont have to do much to put themselves back in the picture. you have to keep that in mind.

a sensible woman without kids should be good enough for any man, regardless of her age. younger is preferred, however

Damn. That sounds pretty bad, you invested and continued to invest until you came to the realization that she has to change, and not because of you but because of herself. Good thing you realized that though, bad thing is that you married her. I think as males, one thing we need to do is to stop beating ourselves up over failed relationships that we highly invested in, because we can't control them and if we're doing our best, she either has to do her best or do nothing with another guy.

Yeah I hear that, truth be told I'm glad to have these options. I really respected that post about guys becoming girls best friends and putting on some fake act. I think most guys who try to be what these girls want them to be in most cases are not stand up guys.

 

[MikelArteta]

Fellas what you think about dating outside of your race?

nothing wrong with that

now marrying

 

[Atlrocafella]

Fellas what you think about dating outside of your race?

I'm seriously thinking it could happen to me if things don't work out with my situation..This white girl is giving me good vibes.

 

[DaRealness]

A week ago, I signed up to start martial arts lessons. I haven't been this week as I've been sick all week with an unpleasant cold bug.

I'd recommend it. Apart from the obvious beneficial physical aspects like self defense and fitness, it helps you with mental, emotional and even spiritual clarity. I've spoke to some people at the class last week who have been doing it for a while and they've said it's helped them in many ways in their lives and they just feel more confident and focused generally.

Even if you just want to embark on another activity for the sake of having something else to do in the week to occupy yourself, it's worth giving it a go. I signed up to attend for 10am this morning (it's now 3:52am) I'd be amazed if I can wake up in 4 hours time to attend (this insomnia's a bytch) but I'll try.

Just a thought.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

A week ago, I signed up to start martial arts lessons. I haven't been this week as I've been sick all week with an unpleasant cold bug.

I'd recommend it. Apart from the obvious beneficial physical aspects like self defense and fitness, it helps you with mental, emotional and even spiritual clarity. I've spoke to some people at the class last week who have been doing it for a while and they've said it's helped them in many ways in their lives and they just feel more confident and focused generally.

Even if you just want to embark on another activity for the sake of having something else to do in the week to occupy yourself, it's worth giving it a go. I signed up to attend for 10am this morning (it's now 3:52am) I'd be amazed if I can wake up in 4 hours time to attend (this insomnia's a bytch) but I'll try.

Just a thought.

I've always wanted to, let me know how it goes.

 

[Two Stacks]

cool vibes with this white chick. just chilling....this shyt is funny to me almost she has the black features. and seems to be just...."not on bullshyt". she doesnt go out and shyt like that again...black mom white dad....

proving so far to be a good multiple date candidate...