Ima check the one you mentioned outJapanese really do got some philosophical gems. I read a book about one of their life philosophies shyt changed my life lowkey. Western society really if you follow how they have us living will make you unhappy and dead early.
Bout to order this one
This is me too breh....He's a dog, and I'm a dog too because the apple doesn't fall far from the tree lol. Things have been different since I met my amazing long time GF, who's family loves me and my family and friends love her.
Every now and then I get these moments where i feel like a shark who smells blood in blood, especially when I'm around my type of women.
It's easy to control myself and not do her wrong but it's likebecause deep down I know I'm my dad's son; when I'm trying not to be.
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This is facts but we also need to have a discussion about the women who seem to expect men to chase them. If I have to go out of my way to initiate conversation with her and then she tells me she's upset because we don't talk enough and she needs more communication what does that say about her? I've had to tell women it's a two way street. If I texted you last the day before and you want more communication between us I better see a "good morning" or "how's your day going?" text from you. Otherwise I'm not putting in the work and they be wanting this shyt before you even meet
that's what my family been telling my brother and it finally sunk in. my brother's bipolar so that's fukked his situation up even worse but hes finally resetting.
Im of the belief humans are more geared towards serial monogamy. Most of the stuff that kept people in marriage til end was more of social contract, maybe limited options, people getting washed earlier in life and hormones and stuff changing to relax nerves. And STILL we know about the stories of the milk man, families on other side of town and such. ALOT of that stuff have been stripped away and have been normalized.
heart breaking. goes back to what I said when talking about A Different WorldIm of the belief humans are more geared towards serial monogamy. Most of the stuff that kept people in marriage til end was more of social contract, maybe limited options, people getting washed earlier in life and hormones and stuff changing to relax nerves. And STILL we know about the stories of the milk man, families on other side of town and such. ALOT of that stuff have been stripped away and have been normalized.
I remember ending of last year I was making rounds and had soo many eye opening convos it was crazy. Was invited to quick weekend getaway, and it was mostly women, had a women who is married and thought was in great relationship, breh good dude, is paid, yada yada. Alcohol flowing and his women was just matter of fact like yea when my son get older Ima divorce him, he is a good father figure right now in house but after that Ima bounce. Im sitting there like she already got a end date on they relationship, this is crazy.
Be safe out here brehs, cover you 6 at all times.
Ironically, upon reading about the show and peoples' opinions on it I saw that both Jasmine Guy and Kadeem Hardison actually were both married (to other ppl) at some point in their lives, both have a child and yet both are divorcees. The TV versions of them together = "couple goals", but in real life neither of them could hack it with their respective spouses. Maybe I am bullshytting, but to me that says a lot lol. It is even more important to circle when you consider just how much people nowadays look to the media for ideas on how relationships are supposed to be/work.
The thing is I don't think a lot of them care at that point. Her goal will be achieved and they will just thot bop. Like we will be in mid late 40s, at that point, I just hope breh protect his assets. This really a cold game, no matter how you play it.
