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Mirin4rmfar
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Went out on a date, passing on her cause her and I just do not vibe lol. There is no chemistry there. She is nice and all but I'm moving on.
Talking to this blasian with HUGE t*ts
exactly the type of tiddies I fantasize about lol. She seems sweet too so I will take her seriously,.
Talking to this blasian with HUGE t*ts
exactly the type of tiddies I fantasize about lol. She seems sweet too so I will take her seriously,.
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
Sometimes choosing signals don’t mean shyt.
Over the course of a month I would see this girl in the gym sporadically but when she did see me she would stare at me HEAVY. Making eye contact and everything. So I’m thinking she feeling ya boy.
So this past Wednesday I see her and approach. The vibe is good, the light is green. Get the number and set up a date right then and there for Saturday (today). We have a brief text exchange that same evening, she was responding immediately.
So far so good right. Anyway she doesn’t respond to my last message that evening. Aight cool I’m not pressed. Text her yesterday (once) at noon, no response.
These hoes silly mane. That’s happened before where a chick will be giving me hella choosing signals, I approach, get the number and crickets.
Over the course of a month I would see this girl in the gym sporadically but when she did see me she would stare at me HEAVY. Making eye contact and everything. So I’m thinking she feeling ya boy.
So this past Wednesday I see her and approach. The vibe is good, the light is green. Get the number and set up a date right then and there for Saturday (today). We have a brief text exchange that same evening, she was responding immediately.
So far so good right. Anyway she doesn’t respond to my last message that evening. Aight cool I’m not pressed. Text her yesterday (once) at noon, no response.
These hoes silly mane. That’s happened before where a chick will be giving me hella choosing signals, I approach, get the number and crickets.
Delete and move on
what happens when you see her in the gym again?Sometimes choosing signals don’t mean shyt.
Over the course of a month I would see this girl in the gym sporadically but when she did see me she would stare at me HEAVY. Making eye contact and everything. So I’m thinking she feeling ya boy.
So this past Wednesday I see her and approach. The vibe is good, the light is green. Get the number and set up a date right then and there for Saturday (today). We have a brief text exchange that same evening, she was responding immediately.
So far so good right. Anyway she doesn’t respond to my last message that evening. Aight cool I’m not pressed. Text her yesterday (once) at noon, no response.
These hoes silly mane. That’s happened before where a chick will be giving me hella choosing signals, I approach, get the number and crickets.
Where were you taking her tonight?Sometimes choosing signals don’t mean shyt.
Over the course of a month I would see this girl in the gym sporadically but when she did see me she would stare at me HEAVY. Making eye contact and everything. So I’m thinking she feeling ya boy.
So this past Wednesday I see her and approach. The vibe is good, the light is green. Get the number and set up a date right then and there for Saturday (today). We have a brief text exchange that same evening, she was responding immediately.
So far so good right. Anyway she doesn’t respond to my last message that evening. Aight cool I’m not pressed. Text her yesterday (once) at noon, no response.
These hoes silly mane. That’s happened before where a chick will be giving me hella choosing signals, I approach, get the number and crickets.
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
A brick oven pizza place/bar restaurant
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Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
You already know
what happens when you see her in the gym again?
Nothing. I’m not pressed.
Where were you taking her tonight?Sometimes choosing signals don’t mean shyt.
Over the course of a month I would see this girl in the gym sporadically but when she did see me she would stare at me HEAVY. Making eye contact and everything. So I’m thinking she feeling ya boy.
So this past Wednesday I see her and approach. The vibe is good, the light is green. Get the number and set up a date right then and there for Saturday (today). We have a brief text exchange that same evening, she was responding immediately.
So far so good right. Anyway she doesn’t respond to my last message that evening. Aight cool I’m not pressed. Text her yesterday (once) at noon, no response.
These hoes silly mane. That’s happened before where a chick will be giving me hella choosing signals, I approach, get the number and crickets.
At least you didn’t waste time being a text buddy and got right to a meet up
VertigoKnight
Veteran
So I met up with that Korean chick this past Thursday evening. It was a fun time.
She turned up in this dress that was very appreciated, this chick is very attractive, but I like a woman to also be nice to hang with, which she was.
She really is just looking for someone who she finds attractive who can be honest but casual and consistent. She doesn't think she'll be staying in Vancouver for that much longer. All good with me.
Conversation flowed. We split the bill no problem, and I got us a cab back downtown. Made out with her before she went up to her place.
She's off to Seattle for the long weekend with her friend but we meeting up early next week to have dinner at my place.
She turned up in this dress that was very appreciated, this chick is very attractive, but I like a woman to also be nice to hang with, which she was.
She really is just looking for someone who she finds attractive who can be honest but casual and consistent. She doesn't think she'll be staying in Vancouver for that much longer. All good with me.
Conversation flowed. We split the bill no problem, and I got us a cab back downtown. Made out with her before she went up to her place.
She's off to Seattle for the long weekend with her friend but we meeting up early next week to have dinner at my place.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
This is good. Never force things if the chemistry is not there. Biggest indicator of how things will go. Chemistry makes it all flow smoothly.
I used to pursue chick's even if I knew there was a serious lack of chemistry after a first date. I'd end up smashing and thinking to myself afterwards it was alright but not fantastic.
I need build up, good chat with any chick I see. Makes the sex even better.
It feels intensely personal, but you have to take it a little less personal when someone brushes you off like that. It probably wasn't all about you at all. People are so burned out and fried from options, trying to plan 50 steps in advance, trying to work out a life plan for you two, a lot of times it's just an anxiety attack slow rolling, and then they disengage. Some people are comfortable being single and maybe going on two dates in on week, with different men, and some are not. They will set up a false choice. Or pour everything into whoever they are feeling the most.
People are confident in one setting, and not in another. You meet women at a crowded hot spot on a Friday, a few drinks, they are with their friends, feeling themselves, and then the next day, they are second guessing themselves, should I meet this guy?
you'll see her at the gyrm, and just be casual about it, the minimum you can ask is "what happened? I was excited to see you" but you have to smile and laugh, and be sincere, not all awkward and demanding. She will have an explanation, but it won't be 100% accurate.
People are confident in one setting, and not in another. You meet women at a crowded hot spot on a Friday, a few drinks, they are with their friends, feeling themselves, and then the next day, they are second guessing themselves, should I meet this guy?
you'll see her at the gyrm, and just be casual about it, the minimum you can ask is "what happened? I was excited to see you" but you have to smile and laugh, and be sincere, not all awkward and demanding. She will have an explanation, but it won't be 100% accurate.
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Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
Which is the whole reason there’s no point in even engaging. Whatever reason it doesn’t matter. The silence was all the explanation I needed.
I was thinking the other night how a phone/text has become like an alternate version of someone, like an alter ego, like a representative you have to deal with to get the "real" person, all the emojis, response times, innuneddo, signaling
but like EX Machina or whatever, you start wondering, who is the "real" person? The one who ghosts me, or the one who fukks me? If they have done both. So, like in your case, if she comes up to me at the gym, looking sexy in gym clothes, like "lets meet up tonight", I'm down to roll the dice on what version I get when I text to confirm.
there's women in social circles I am in, where people around me "that girl acts like she's in love with you"the way she talks about you, the way she acts around you, and I say "yeah, well I've asked her on a date 5x and she has never ever gone out with me" as in, in person, yes, text = silence.
here's even a partial transcript per memory, in person from a week ago:
Her: we can do something.....I'm here all weekend, we can meet up, text me
Me: I fukking hate texting you, laughing
Her: (serious) I always answer you (subtext: but I never go)
Me: that's not what I mean I'd never hold that against you (subtext: you never go, but I want you anyway)
it wasn't the right context to go further, or I just didn't want to, but that's one easy example right there. She has some motive to be seductive with me, but not really.
do you think I texted her and how do you think she answered lol
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