Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[#BOTHSIDES]

Yall ever dated a Type A personality woman/controlling woman?

 

[DaHNIC82]

This should be good

Just leave her and keep it moving.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

so u look up random restaurants and dm bytches?

Type in a spot you want to check out then click the places tab on IG. It’ll bring up a map and then click on the spot. Then it shows all the people who have tagged that spot on ig. Then I’ll dm them and when they ask how you found them I say I was looking at xyz’s page to see what it’s like and I found your profile because you tagged them. Got a date with my ex like 4 days later after doing that.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Yall ever dated a Type A personality woman/controlling woman?

No why would you date a controlling woman? They can be controlling at their job but in a relationship na. Women with high stressful jobs like that do usually like a man they can come home to and submit too because they gotta be on point all day.

 

[WIA20XX]

Yall ever dated a Type A personality woman/controlling woman?

In terms of Type A, If you mean the All A's, everything organized, work a detail oriented stress filled job - they break like most other chicks. They often break harder when they realize you've got things handled. She can relax and let you take the wheel.

Now you have to check them broads, so work/outside tendencies/emotions don't disturb the flow - but Lawyer in the Streets will be a faithful dog in the sheets (as opposed to a cat that always need appeasing...)

But "controlling"? That's all of them.

That's not a knock on females, just a recognition of the basic dynamics of any relationship.

• You want them to do A,B,C
• They want you to do X,Y,Z.

It's rare that you both want to do 1,2,3.

Even a chick that "submits", only "submits" under certain conditions.

The most laid back female in the world, won't know what she wants to eat for dinner, and in the same breath, shoot down everything you mention.

Sometimes being the leader in a relationship, means you gotta deal with someone that's not happy in the moment.

WIA

 

[VertigoKnight]

Your main sleeps with other dudes?

Nope. We started out exploring ENM but have changed a few things that work for us.

I told her when we got together that me seeing other people occasionally would be a thing. Which she is OK with.

Tbh it's actually lessened it. I don't feel the need to all the time.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Walked by this girl in my personnel office the other day and she starts giggling then when I already walked passed her she says "have a good day".

So I hit her up on our work instant messenger but she's super formal. Like "if you need anything work related you can hit me up"

I'm like "okay maybe she not feeling me" so I leave it alone and don't message her again.

So I go to personnel again on Friday before I leave and she doesn't say anything to me.

I come into work today and see she messaged me on Friday to have a good weekend.

I just gave her my number and didn't say anything else. If she hits me up coo, if not I ain't tripping.

So this bytch.

After I give her my number, she tells me she got a man. So I'm like "coo I ain't tripping, I'll leave her alone" I don't message her.

She hits me up again. I tell her
"You told me you got a man. I don't need anymore friends. You have a nice day"

She's like "okay fine."

Fast forward a few days I go to personnel to turn in an application to work an OT job. I physically hand her the paperwork and she was cold as fukk to me.

My friend tells me they're doing interviews for the job today. I call and they tell me they never got my paperwork.

This bytch didn't turn it in on purpose.

I'm not talking to nobody from my job anymore.

 

[J Money]

So this bytch.

After I give her my number, she tells me she got a man. So I'm like "coo I ain't tripping, I'll leave her alone" I don't message her.

She hits me up again. I tell her
"You told me you got a man. I don't need anymore friends. You have a nice day"

She's like "okay fine."

Fast forward a few days I go to personnel to turn in an application to work an OT job. I physically hand her the paperwork and she was cold as fukk to me.

My friend tells me they're doing interviews for the job today. I call and they tell me they never got my paperwork.

This bytch didn't turn it in on purpose.

I'm not talking to nobody from my job anymore.

That shyt was easy to see my man come on

 

[Byronml]

So this bytch.

After I give her my number, she tells me she got a man. So I'm like "coo I ain't tripping, I'll leave her alone" I don't message her.

She hits me up again. I tell her
"You told me you got a man. I don't need anymore friends. You have a nice day"

She's like "okay fine."

Fast forward a few days I go to personnel to turn in an application to work an OT job. I physically hand her the paperwork and she was cold as fukk to me.

My friend tells me they're doing interviews for the job today. I call and they tell me they never got my paperwork.

This bytch didn't turn it in on purpose.

I'm not talking to nobody from my job anymore.

Chase that down with HR immediately to make sure this doesn't happen again. There should be footage showing you physically handing your paperwork in, putting the pressure on her to explain what happened. No time for those kind of petty games at work.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

So this bytch.

After I give her my number, she tells me she got a man. So I'm like "coo I ain't tripping, I'll leave her alone" I don't message her.

She hits me up again. I tell her
"You told me you got a man. I don't need anymore friends. You have a nice day"

She's like "okay fine."

Fast forward a few days I go to personnel to turn in an application to work an OT job. I physically hand her the paperwork and she was cold as fukk to me.

My friend tells me they're doing interviews for the job today. I call and they tell me they never got my paperwork.

This bytch didn't turn it in on purpose.

I'm not talking to nobody from my job anymore.

this why brehs are strict when it comes to “don’t shyt where you eat”

 

[Van Cleef]

reposted a pic of me on a picnic date and now my 18 yr old is sneak dissing me on ig

always get a girl that is more into u then her

 

[OmegaK2099]

She knows Damn well what it is and expects you to act accordingly, so nut on her face and jet before she starts treating you like a bytch.

 

[franknitty711]

this why brehs are strict when it comes to “don’t shyt where you eat”

yep, its easy to say tho and although i did a decent job i slipped up a few times.

 

[re'up]

diplomacy also plays a factor. Right and wrong or whatever, doesn't matter, always leave things on good terms with people, esp. when it can affect you. Make people feel special or liked and they will always be an ally, it doesn't take much. Because so many people operate from that standpoint of giving up nothing, you do something nice, or go out of your way to make someone feel appreciated for no real reason, they will remember.

in life and business. I look at it almost like handing out bribes.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Her happiness and my mom’s approval mean the world to me.