Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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There aren’t any in your social circle?
nah im in orlando which is a transient city... majority are theme park workers with little ambition and the ones who do have it don't stay long. only women i met with money are tourists...
 

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nah im in orlando which is a transient city... majority are theme park workers with little ambition and the ones who do have it don't stay long. only women i met with money are tourists...

The paying for dates thing is going to come down to personal/cultural value systems and ethos, once you have cleared the demo that really can't afford to pay for their meal, there plenty of women who make a few 100k a year, and more and would not be happy paying for a date. It's a system. And there's also many women who make the same as you, who are happy to pay or split. I met someone this year who I asked out, and she was RETIRED at like 40 years old. Probably at least 5m.

You can't control your class/wealth/where you were born, Here's what you can control, where you spend time, and how you carry yourself. Get comfortable in those kinds of places, upscale spots, until you really are comfortable. Roll solo or with a like minded friend. Actually enjoy being there, so it feels natural. Skip the club and go to the bar at the 4 Seasons. Or the St Regis. Skip the local bar, and go to the latest hot restaraunt. Get out of your comfort zone and keep pushing it. Take a sincere interest in people.

don't know Orlando at all, start hanging in those places, and it will open up a lot for you, but it has to be authentic. And if you can, hang in Lauderdale, or Miami. Social circles and opportunity will start to rise. This is like the hard way, but the way where you actually grow as a person. The easy way is ID a few spots where rich women hang out, and just roll in weekly, it will happen sooner or later.
 

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Damn it’s rough out here set up 3 dates this weekend 1 rescheduled the other 2 radio silence

Oh well back on the grind again
 

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Yesterday this woman randomly hit me up on match.com She says "hey im in your town for work event" etc what is there to do here?. Cant front shes 41 no kids but she fine. I literally thought she could have been catfish for a second until I saw photo with her and her mother. Anyways I replied back not much is poppin in this town.She replies gotcha.I also manage to put my # in the message she never got back on. She is from Houston and im in the Carolinas .Strange signal.
 

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Yesterday this woman randomly hit me up on match.com She says "hey im in your town for work event" etc what is there to do here?. Cant front shes 41 no kids but she fine. I literally thought she could have been catfish for a second until I saw photo with her and her mother. Anyways I replied back not much is poppin in this town.She replies gotcha.I also manage to put my # in the message she never got back on. She is from Houston and im in the Carolinas .Strange signal.
So you just said there is nothing to do and left it at that?
 

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So you just said there is nothing to do and left it at that?
Re read my paragraph. I replied not much to do she says gotcha and I dropped my #. At bottom of message it said delivered not read. She hasnt came back on. She seeked me out I dropped my # I wasnt going back and forth :manny:
 

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Re read my paragraph. I replied not much to do she says gotcha and I dropped my #. At bottom of message it said delivered not read. She hasnt came back on. She seeked me out I dropped my # I wasnt going back and forth :manny:
Seems like a misstep but 🤷🏾‍♂️
 
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