I remember my mom trying to teach my sister years ago about looking presentable for her husband and what not (working out, hair, cleanliness etc.) and she got really offended. Not saying she’s wrong for how she reacted but she was angry at the idea of having to do something for a man, that’s a bit of the same mentality I’ve noticed from girls in general nowadays (school, chics I’ve fukked, relatives, friends, homies girls etc.)
I think the idea of having to do or withhold standards for a man is what’s causing some of th issues. Men are looked at as having to prove something in this era whereas women have become the judges. shyt is like America Idol