Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
As long as she gives me a heads up I ain’t trippin. But I pull up and she text some ole bs I’ll just go back home or eat by myself and be done with it
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Amo Husserl
Superstar
One time offense for a serious question?This fool @Amo Husserl should be banned from the thread.
This dumbass tagging the women in here (which is egregious by itself) then asking them about somebody touching his butt hole ().
It's either him or me, brehs. I refuse to post along such cancer.
You trying to make it look like I been an OD pervert on this site.
That ain't me and you know it.
How 'bout mods permaban whoever got the most posts in JBO?
I got my answer and moved on.
Why you bringing up old shyt?
Ten minutes late isnt a big deal
Back then id wait 30 mins if a heads up given.
Now i won’t wait more than 15 even if there’s a heads up given and I’ll let them think I’m waiting while i am already on my way home. If they’re going to waste my time I’ll waste theirs.
I really hate tardiness when it comes to first dates.
Yea i agreeMe personally I wouldn’t jump of the window on a woman being ten minutes late in leaving since it reads like to you weren’t somewhere else.
Others will disagree but if y’all have been getting along well so far. Let it play out until there is another incident
Some level of grace is okay but if it is habitual that’s when i have an issue.
Once its cool
Second time in a row I’ll say something
Third time in a row she’s benched
You bring up a good point in saying something. A lot of narratives exist where women are also late getting ready while the guy sits on the couch waiting. She may not think it’s a big deal. Waiting at a meeting place is a different issue of course.
Thinking back my fiancé cancelled/rescheduled out first meet up. No issues since and she hates lateness.
This is very succinctly put, because without telling a bunch of mind numbingly granular stories, this is for sure a factor, and a major way people communicate when it comes to dating/sex/relationships. Someone told me once they were glad I didn't have SM, because they would have had to read my every move, liking pics, following, watching videos, and I was just like wow, they were used to that. Text is bad enough.
Directly kinda related, someone sent me a "Hey, I'm working that night!", which is transparently likely less than true to some degree, don't want to press any more, but I wanted to say something short, sincere and leave things open, without sounding paranoid, insulting, or anxious, and I just came up with nothing at all. There's obviously not much in that text to respond to, if you see it clearly, but in person, both of us were very open, authentic, especially her moreso, and interested. And that exchange is just not those things. it's whiplash sometimes.
the idea that we all communicate through pics and likes, emojis and response times is pretty wild sometimes. Overly literary, but reducing people, with all their attraction, all their lust and flesh, into pixels and animation is a little rough.
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Yup & I’ll let them watch / lurk. Then hit me up.
How did it even come up with her?
Quick funny but revealing convo with one of my boys, we talk about shoes and clothes often
I say this is what you need to get on, and show him an expensive Italian, near nameless/brand less, but very very popular now in some circles
and he says I don't know these brands you show me, and if I don't know the girls don't know
he was laughing when he said it, both of us, but he's at least mostly serious
I say this is what you need to get on, and show him an expensive Italian, near nameless/brand less, but very very popular now in some circles
and he says I don't know these brands you show me, and if I don't know the girls don't know
he was laughing when he said it, both of us, but he's at least mostly serious
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I saw on her social media. “Why can’t a black woman speak her mind and get criticized for it?”
VertigoKnight
Veteran
I'll allow it if the chick has pre warned me. But no warning? That's a red mark for me.
I don't waste people's time it's one of the simplest things to not do if you give a damn and tells you a lot about someone who is always late.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
I asked the chick I'm seeing about Jada, she said she's insincere and toxic.
