Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The American accent is Will automatically cause them to be intrigued. You still need looks + a mouthpiece though

This guy knows. Havent even been to cape town yet but thats my next stop in december. Joburg is the party/fast life equivalent of south africa. Cape town is like Miami from what I hear

Ohh you’re gonne be there durin the summer…

Brother…:banderas:

You’re not gonna wanna leave. I promise you.
 

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1. Do they think you are a potential trick, like in southern American countries?

2. Do they mainly choose up to try and get married in the U.S.?

3. Does mouthpiece work normally there? I assume they might not understand the same slang/phrases down there.

1. Cape town is like @Astroslik said….Miami. Its a massive city filled with expats/tourists, especially during their summer. When i was there, it felt like a hookup city. But i personally didn’t get no tricking vibe.

2. Never got that vibe. Almost 100% of the women i met wanted to stay in cape town…and i don’t blame them. I wouldn’t wanna leave (especially if i was gettin paid USD)

3. Yes. I approached tons of women and was approached. They are city girls like the ones you would find in major cities in north america. Just less stuck up…especially when they hear your accent. African nikkas over there don’t approach and european cac’s stick to european cac’s. They in abundance over there…not so much so north americans…which is why we stand out more (and thus get more attention/action) :mjlit:
 
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1. Cape town is like @Astroslik said….Miami. Its a massive city filled with expats/tourists, especially during their summer. When i was there, it felt like a hookup city. But i personally didn’t get no tricking vibe.

2. Never got that vibe. Almost 100% of the women i met wanted to stay in cape town…and i don’t blame them. I wouldn’t wanna leave (especially if i was gettin paid USD)

3. Yes. I approached tonnes of women and was approached. They are city girls like the ones you would find in major cities in north america. Just less stuck up…especially when they hear your accent. African nikkas over there don’t approachand european cac’s stick to european cac’s. They in abundance over there…not so much so north americans…which is why we stand out more (and thus get more attention/action) :mjlit:
Yup I noticed this as well, african brehs dont approach and are more docile compared to american/canadian brehs. If you have no problems cold approaching you will feast
 

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1. Cape town is like @Astroslik said….Miami. Its a massive city filled with expats/tourists, especially during their summer. When i was there, it felt like a hookup city. But i personally didn’t get no tricking vibe.

2. Never got that vibe. Almost 100% of the women i met wanted to stay in cape town…and i don’t blame them. I wouldn’t wanna leave (especially if i was gettin paid USD)

3. Yes. I approached tonnes of women and was approached. They are city girls like the ones you would find in major cities in north america. Just less stuck up…especially when they hear your accent. African nikkas over there don’t approach and european cac’s stick to european cac’s. They in abundance over there…not so much so north americans…which is why we stand out more (and thus get more attention/action) :mjlit:

Yup

I used to have that misconception as well when you're fed these lies by the media. But you go to these places and folks are happy there, with what they earn they are able to have a a house or apartment, the latest phone, designer clothing.
 

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Yup I noticed this as well, african brehs dont approach and are more docile compared to american/canadian brehs. If you have no problems cold approaching you will feast

Yeah I even noticed that in uganda, kenya, rwanda. Guys don't approach they just stare and carry on. But alot of it has to do with culture as well, some tribes won't date different tribes. If a woman looks great they think they can't afford the bride price etc.

The culture is vastly different.
 

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Seems like they be thots too.
It's like they are Americanized Africans in Africa.
(Almost like an oxymoron)

The reddit page I'm following got so many south African chicks twerking, playing with theyself, drinking, smoking, etc.
:banderas:

And I ain't talking bout no damn tribal dances when I say twerking.
:sas2:
 

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0. I was with siblings/cousins and staying at my uncle’s the whole 2 weeks. :beli:

But best believe i’m goin back (minus family)…i got wayy too much unfinished business :mjlit:

Ain't that shyt expensive? (Anywhere cacs be at outside of the U.S. seems expensive) I worked with some ghanians back in 2013 that said it costs them like $2000 to go back; and that's 10 years ago!

you plan on hitting raw? :jbhmm:
 

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Yup

I used to have that misconception as well when you're fed these lies by the media. But you go to these places and folks are happy there, with what they earn they are able to have a a house or apartment, the latest phone, designer clothing.
Thats why I laugh at every post even on this site that seems to discourage brehs from traveling, its like the cognitive dissonance is insane to see. These are majority american/western brehs who are hyper sensitive/militant to racism and manipulation but they parrot the samethings in regards to atcually seeing the world or expanding their horizons. These brehs cling and perpetuate the same ideas of the plantation while being scared to board a plane, its truly insanity..

Multiple trips planned to end the year :blessed:
 

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Ain't that shyt expensive? (Anywhere cacs be at outside of the U.S. seems expensive) I worked with some ghanians back in 2013 that said it costs them like $2000 to go back; and that's 10 years ago!

you plan on hitting raw? :jbhmm:

I paid 1,400 cdn about 1000 usd to go to uganda about 3 ago. Just book your ticket in advance and not in high season. I'm probably going to kenya and uganda in 2 months (november) and its around 1,300 cdn if I book now.
 

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Thats why I laugh at every post even on this site that seems to discourage brehs from traveling, its like the cognitive dissonance is insane to see. These are majority american/western brehs who are hyper sensitive/militant to racism and manipulation but they parrot the samethings in regards to atcually seeing the world or expanding their horizons. These brehs cling and perpetuate the same ideas of the plantation while being scared to board a plane, its truly insanity..

Multiple trips planned to end the year :blessed:

Africa is the goat, its just riveting to be around mainly black people. And as well because of the currency your dollar stretches. I remember when I'd travel around europe and id exchange like 100 of my dollars for like 45 pounds or 55 euros :picard:
 

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Yeah I even noticed that in uganda, kenya, rwanda. Guys don't approach they just stare and carry on. But alot of it has to do with culture as well, some tribes won't date different tribes. If a woman looks great they think they can't afford the bride price etc.

The culture is vastly different.

The western hookup shyt isnt a thing in most of their cultures outside of the city “feminist” and most men from traditional cultures dont want the headache so western men tend to clean up with those chicks
 
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