Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Brandsdale

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Some chicks are downright ruthless.

Chick at work on my team. Had a BF since she started working with me back in Feb. They were living together.

Recently I noticed her and a senior programmer here were leaving together after we would do OT. Thought nothing of it as they both live in the same area.

Find out yesterday that she gave her BF the boot two weeks ago and is secretly dating the programmer now. Told me she sat her BF down and told him it was over and he needs to move out of her place.

She said he told her he loved her but she declined to say the word back to him.

I see the play she wants to advance at work. If she fukks with the programmer guy she probably thinks she'll get the inside track on how to get fully hired and not just a contractor.

One massive issue she's not very technical. Maybe she thinks her p*ssy makes up for that.

:mjlol:
Depending on your workplace and how they hire, she might get what she wants :manny:
 

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Depending on your workplace and how they hire, she might get what she wants :manny:

It's a very very big company. And any decision would be far from his hands.

We'll see though I hope if things go sideways she's adult enough to keep it professional with him. His an important part of the team so if push came to shove someone would be getting quietly moved to another team and it wouldn't be him.

Probably wise she keeps this secret till it becomes more.
 

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What's he venting to her?
Is he your friend or her friend?

Dude got his heart broken, went to LA to see some joint and the joint was stringing him along the whole time, slept in the same bed, no sex.

:mjlol:

Now he’s venting to her about being stressed work & women problems and she’s mad because I told him to get a therapist, she likes when ppl share their problems.

We all kind of met at the same time. We’re all friends, but if she’s in a relationship with me. she needs to create some boundaries and not let others expound their depressing energy on to you.

This is her first relationship btw. So I can sort of understand her inexperience and lack of awareness to SOME degree.
 

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It's a very very big company. And any decision would be far from his hands.

We'll see though I hope if things go sideways she's adult enough to keep it professional with him. His an important part of the team so if push came to shove someone would be getting quietly moved to another team and it wouldn't be him.

Probably wise she keeps this secret till it becomes more.
Big companies also get a lot of nepotism so I can still see her finessing this so she gets a permanent job. Dude probably fixing her resume and looking for a new job as we speak :mjlol:
 

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Dude got his heart broken, went to LA to see some joint and the joint was stringing him along the whole time, slept in the same bed, no sex.

:mjlol:

Now he’s venting to her about being stressed work & women problems and she’s mad because I told him to get a therapist, she likes when ppl share their problems.

We all kind of met at the same time. We’re all friends, but if she’s in a relationship with me. she needs to create some boundaries and not let others expound their depressing energy on to you.

This is her first relationship btw. So I can sort of understand her inexperience and lack of awareness to SOME degree.
:lolbron:
 

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lol yeah if a chick aint Clingy and you entered a relationship
:lolbron:

you the nikka fronting the financial and or emotional bill


If a female really likes you, she won't let you breathe for a motherfukking moment early in the situation.
Some chicks are downright ruthless.

Chick at work on my team. Had a BF since she started working with me back in Feb. They were living together.

Recently I noticed her and a senior programmer here were leaving together after we would do OT. Thought nothing of it as they both live in the same area.

Find out yesterday that she gave her BF the boot two weeks ago and is secretly dating the programmer now. Told me she sat her BF down and told him it was over and he needs to move out of her place.

She said he told her he loved her but she declined to say the word back to him.

I see the play she wants to advance at work. If she fukks with the programmer guy she probably thinks she'll get the inside track on how to get fully hired and not just a contractor.

One massive issue she's not very technical. Maybe she thinks her p*ssy makes up for that.

:mjlol:

That man will learn a painful lesson for shytting where he eats.
 

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lol yeah if a chick aint Clingy and you entered a relationship
:lolbron:

you the nikka fronting the financial and or emotional bill

The only thing I’ve been supplying is dikk, I paid for ubereats once, and she’s ordered me food twice lol
 
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