ExactlyIn my case if they not rocking with me off the rip it never goes anywhere and I never smash.
It’s a fine line between the situation just not lining up time wise to get together, and chasing. Gotta trust your gut with field experience for which category you fall in.
Some women know how to play the game just enough to make you feel like you’re getting somewhere. It’s probably why dudes have a “x amount of dates smash rule” to avoid being the sucka.
After two (max three) dates a woman has to invite me out and pay or come to my crib
There are times I’ll still end up smashing on some right time right place shyt but the juice never worth the squeeze required