Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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In my case if they not rocking with me off the rip it never goes anywhere and I never smash.

It’s a fine line between the situation just not lining up time wise to get together, and chasing. Gotta trust your gut with field experience for which category you fall in.

Some women know how to play the game just enough to make you feel like you’re getting somewhere. It’s probably why dudes have a “x amount of dates smash rule” to avoid being the sucka.
Exactly

After two (max three) dates a woman has to invite me out and pay or come to my crib

There are times I’ll still end up smashing on some right time right place shyt but the juice never worth the squeeze required
 

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Forgot from last weekend that I had a real life passport bro story,-----at a friends kids birthday saw a friend, who is like a friend once removed, close to my close friends. Dude way always a little off with women, kind of like extra aggressive, as in angry, and ranting, but never really around women. Besides like club nights, but never saw him with a date, or even flirting, and there were always women around all of us. None of which really liked him, described him bitter and angry, privately. Looked a little weird, but not like extra ugly. Always traveled a lot. Hustled weed, send out packs, kind of a mid level rich kid, that lived at home, but made his own money.

So we are catching up and he says he has a fiance, and I was like wow, congratulations, but I am kinda shocked, because, again, he just never had a girlfriend or even dated, from what I saw, and he wasn't like me, keeping everything low. Then he goes YEAH I met her in Colombia, on my travels there, and I am bringing her here, my boy is filling out some DHS form for her. He was like you CAN'T TRUST WESTERN WOMEN. That's why I was traveling to meet my wife.

I didn't react at all to any of this, and just congratulated him, and moved on, but I was thinking of passport bro the whole time.
 

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I bag a lot of women from the bar lifestyle, but brehs, I’m tired of the bar lifestyle in general. Tired of drinking.

How else do I meet women?

As you can see from previous posts online dating is a shyt whole

I got plenty of examples of that and I consider myself handsome gang and a guy doing positive things with his life


Like last summer I matched with this chick. We talked for two long ass days, then out of nowhere she deleted me.


Last month I find her in my likes on fb dating. She shared me her fb profile on some “well since we keep matching, add me and we can hang”

Ignored her ass based off how she did me bogus previously

You really don’t have a chance on there brehs.

So idk where to go
 

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I bag a lot of women from the bar lifestyle, but brehs, I’m tired of the bar lifestyle in general. Tired of drinking.

How else do I meet women?

As you can see from previous posts online dating is a shyt whole

I got plenty of examples of that and I consider myself handsome gang and a guy doing positive things with his life


Like last summer I matched with this chick. We talked for two long ass days, then out of nowhere she deleted me.


Last month I find her in my likes on fb dating. She shared me her fb profile on some “well since we keep matching, add me and we can hang”

Ignored her ass based off how she did me bogus previously

You really don’t have a chance on there brehs.

So idk where to go
you can flip it to daytime coffee and cocktail places and events

that's what I have been doing the past year. actually think women are more receptive as well.
 

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I bag a lot of women from the bar lifestyle, but brehs, I’m tired of the bar lifestyle in general. Tired of drinking.

How else do I meet women?

As you can see from previous posts online dating is a shyt whole

I got plenty of examples of that and I consider myself handsome gang and a guy doing positive things with his life


Like last summer I matched with this chick. We talked for two long ass days, then out of nowhere she deleted me.


Last month I find her in my likes on fb dating. She shared me her fb profile on some “well since we keep matching, add me and we can hang”

Ignored her ass based off how she did me bogus previously

You really don’t have a chance on there brehs.

So idk where to go
shordi told you “sigh… I GUESS I should fw him” :mjlol:

same way you bar hop should be the same way you join local volunteer groups and activities
 

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I use to refuse to do the daytime date but I've been going on them lately with I feel a lot of success.

one chick I met on Friday for smoothies and she invited me to the beach today but I had other plans but I told her we could do it this week. Other girl from Africa we got together and had some mojitos today. I think she was feeling me we will see.
 

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shordi told you “sigh… I GUESS I should fw him” :mjlol:

same way you bar hop should be the same way you join local volunteer groups and activities
yeah that's another one the chick I met up with today was big into volunteer groups and activities
 

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you can flip it to daytime coffee and cocktail places and events

that's what I have been doing the past year. actually think women are more receptive as well.
Good ideas. I’m not a coffee person but it’s a great place for introductions and whatnot.

I can’t handle the drinking lifestyle like that. I need to be rested for a long time like Kawhi Leonard.

shordi told you “sigh… I GUESS I should fw him” :mjlol:

same way you bar hop should be the same way you join local volunteer groups and activities
Lmao she really hit me with that and then got mad I didn’t respond

Ego out of control lmao

Volunteer groups huh?

and I would assume if I’m meeting girls at respectable events then she should be respectable as a human being herself


My ass was bar hopping and ending up with women who were nut cases.
 

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Forgot from last weekend that I had a real life passport bro story,-----at a friends kids birthday saw a friend, who is like a friend once removed, close to my close friends. Dude way always a little off with women, kind of like extra aggressive, as in angry, and ranting, but never really around women. Besides like club nights, but never saw him with a date, or even flirting, and there were always women around all of us. None of which really liked him, described him bitter and angry, privately. Looked a little weird, but not like extra ugly. Always traveled a lot. Hustled weed, send out packs, kind of a mid level rich kid, that lived at home, but made his own money.

So we are catching up and he says he has a fiance, and I was like wow, congratulations, but I am kinda shocked, because, again, he just never had a girlfriend or even dated, from what I saw, and he wasn't like me, keeping everything low. Then he goes YEAH I met her in Colombia, on my travels there, and I am bringing her here, my boy is filling out some DHS form for her. He was like you CAN'T TRUST WESTERN WOMEN. That's why I was traveling to meet my wife.

I didn't react at all to any of this, and just congratulated him, and moved on, but I was thinking of passport bro the whole time.

Lol he’s going to learn real soon. Women are women doesn’t matter where they got a mobile phone they know what they r doing . She gonna come to America and take half

Honestly the women awaiting me in a few days has me :noah: but I ain’t stupid or dumb.
 

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Lmao she really hit me with that and then got mad I didn’t respond

Ego out of control lmao

Volunteer groups huh?

and I would assume if I’m meeting girls at respectable events then she should be respectable as a human being herself


My ass was bar hopping and ending up with women who were nut cases.
Give it a shot! At worst, you contributed to your community and got other contacts from folks at the event.
 

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yeah that's another one the chick I met up with today was big into volunteer groups and activities
brehs who live in major cities should definitely get in touch with volunteer events and city activities.

Memorial Day Weekend is coming so every city should have at least a get together in town square.
 

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Good ideas. I’m not a coffee person but it’s a great place for introductions and whatnot.

I can’t handle the drinking lifestyle like that. I need to be rested for a long time like Kawhi Leonard.
yeah I usually get some tea or a nice daytime refreshing sort of drink
 

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Forgot from last weekend that I had a real life passport bro story,-----at a friends kids birthday saw a friend, who is like a friend once removed, close to my close friends. Dude way always a little off with women, kind of like extra aggressive, as in angry, and ranting, but never really around women. Besides like club nights, but never saw him with a date, or even flirting, and there were always women around all of us. None of which really liked him, described him bitter and angry, privately. Looked a little weird, but not like extra ugly. Always traveled a lot. Hustled weed, send out packs, kind of a mid level rich kid, that lived at home, but made his own money.

So we are catching up and he says he has a fiance, and I was like wow, congratulations, but I am kinda shocked, because, again, he just never had a girlfriend or even dated, from what I saw, and he wasn't like me, keeping everything low. Then he goes YEAH I met her in Colombia, on my travels there, and I am bringing her here, my boy is filling out some DHS form for her. He was like you CAN'T TRUST WESTERN WOMEN. That's why I was traveling to meet my wife.

I didn't react at all to any of this, and just congratulated him, and moved on, but I was thinking of passport bro the whole time.
Hopefully it works out for him
Could really go either way
Especially if she’s very attractive
 

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Thing is, dude lives in LA. Always complaining about the women up there, but I feel like it's him, because I meet even more in LA than I do here. Hostesses, people in hotels, everyone's hitting on me in LA.

Went international, but marriage? Had no idea he event wanted kids or family. She was pretty, but not like Colombian pornstar looking. I don't know. I think guys like him always end up losing, one way or the other, because there's so much insecurity at the case of that relationship, it's a bottomless well. without any intentionality behind that statement. You get to LA and it's a different game.
 
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