Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

lmao I feel you.

its fukked up breh

my african and carribean OGs really went to work having multiple families, gallivanting, cheating on their wives and shyt
left a bunch of damaged daughters for us to deal with. ive given the benefit of the doubt enough to know - never again

women whose parents arent together dont understand the partnership that a relationship is meant to be, nor do they understand how to resolve conflict. they think these relationships are fairy tales

 

[Silkk]

These bytches retarded af man



How your sister been missing for a week but you on IG posting ass pics

 

[rabbid]

I feel you. The only problem is I legit have no social media outside of a facebook I use for work

you dont need social media breh.. but to add onto what someone else said, you gotta be shooting pretty much everytime you see an attractive woman. you have to cover for your lack of secondary options.

most girls will get your number and cross reference everything you said with your socials. if you don't have one then you shooting from half court. so the more you shoot from that distance with no socials the more likely you'll build the skills to pull from personality alone. don't do something that feels unnatural to you just to get chicks breh. just keep building up what you naturally have. imo. you'll get girls tailored for you and not just flavor of the weeks chicks. after awhile that shyt gonna get old.


i got a homeboy that has no game at all but has a decent social media page. the chicks see his page and followers but can immediately tell he's cap. he need to delete that shyt and stop using it as a crutch tbh. but it is what it is.

 

[The ADD]

I will try to smash but thats it

never getting serious with another woman who dont come from a two parent household

I thought that wasn’t an option or goal with women of the current generation

 

[Brandsdale]

you dont need social media breh.. but to add onto what someone else said, you gotta be shooting pretty much everytime you see an attractive woman. you have to cover for your lack of secondary options.

most girls will get your number and cross reference everything you said with your socials. if you don't have one then you shooting from half court. so the more you shoot from that distance with no socials the more likely you'll build the skills to pull from personality alone. don't do something that feels unnatural to you just to get chicks breh. just keep building up what you naturally have. imo. you'll get girls tailored for you and not just flavor of the weeks chicks. after awhile that shyt gonna get old.


i got a homeboy that has no game at all but has a decent social media page. the chicks see his page and followers but can immediately tell he's cap. he need to delete that shyt and stop using it as a crutch tbh. but it is what it is.

this is personally why i dont want to go back. Im kinda like your homeboy and trying to get out of digital dependency. I don't mind using a dating profile here and there and shooting a couple of better pics but I personally don't feel comfortable being on social media. A dating app is my limit now. My mind isn't made of steel like others and that shyt causes a bit of mental issues over time. I like my freedom, I like not comparing and personally, Instagram and some of these other shyts tend to do that.

 

[MikelArteta]

this is personally why i dont want to go back. Im kinda like your homeboy and trying to get out of digital dependency. I don't mind using a dating profile here and there and shooting a couple of better pics but I personally don't feel comfortable being on social media. A dating app is my limit now. My mind isn't made of steel like others and that shyt causes a bit of mental issues over time. I like my freedom, I like not comparing and personally, Instagram and some of these other shyts tend to do that.

yeah
you buy a 2018 honda civic and you're happy go on instagram and your friend is posting a 2023 g wagon suddenly

You post a photo and you like it, you post it and get like 3 likes from bots suddenly you delete it

 

[MikelArteta]

thick, nerdy nigerian chick is jocking me but i simply cant ignore the fact her parents are not together
i am done overlooking that shyt

Run

 

[Brandsdale]

I thought that wasn’t an option or goal with women of the current generation

most black women come from em from my experience

 

[The ADD]

you dont need social media breh.. but to add onto what someone else said, you gotta be shooting pretty much everytime you see an attractive woman. you have to cover for your lack of secondary options.

most girls will get your number and cross reference everything you said with your socials. if you don't have one then you shooting from half court. so the more you shoot from that distance with no socials the more likely you'll build the skills to pull from personality alone. don't do something that feels unnatural to you just to get chicks breh. just keep building up what you naturally have. imo. you'll get girls tailored for you and not just flavor of the weeks chicks. after awhile that shyt gonna get old.


i got a homeboy that has no game at all but has a decent social media page. the chicks see his page and followers but can immediately tell he's cap. he need to delete that shyt and stop using it as a crutch tbh. but it is what it is.

 

[Brandsdale]

Also, I don't know if y'all know this... I thought about putting it in a Relationships 101 thread but these fools don't deserve my wisdom.

If you're trying to meet women online, get off them dating apps and get on facebook.

Spoiler

The secret is to join groups. I got probably 5 or 6 women in my inbox right now just cause we interacted in a group and had some conversation and either they invited me to message them or I just did it on my own. Two of the women are legit 10s.

Find a group that you're interested in and just get active in it. One chic just sent me some p*ssy and titty pics. They look aight.

I got another secret about this, but I think Imma keep this one to myself, don't wanna give y'all all the keys to the kingdom.

a coworker keeps tellin me to join cause she does it for volleyball

Spoiler

the baddies be in groups like that tho?

 

[Brandsdale]

random but, this women shyt def reliant on your emotions. I be getting miserable lately and it gets in the way of meeting shorties

just gotta distract yourself I guess

 

[Apollo Creed]

thick, nerdy nigerian chick is jocking me but i simply cant ignore the fact her parents are not together
i am done overlooking that shyt

Nigerian with divorced parents is a red flag on top of the red flag of being nigerian


Imo any Nigerian woman not married to a Nigerian man post 28 a red flag lol

 

[MikelArteta]

most black women come from em from my experience

pawg

 

[Brandsdale]

pawg

dont tell me shes the shorty that panned out?



what happened to the Ghanian?

 

[MikelArteta]

dont tell me shes the shorty that panned out?



what happened to the Ghanian?

lol nah but honestly I've always got on better with white women than black. They just get me even when I date black women they tell me ah you seemed like you only like white women



ghananian went cold went from talking all the time, multiple dates etc. to just being colder than a winnipeg winter