Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

Hoe aint even say bought “us “ a house

She said bought ME a house. Man. Id drop that chick so fast

 

[Brandsdale]

Lol notice how shorty said it wasnt a “love connection” , whatever the hell that means

In real life is generally better for men who dont have a souped up instagram. That being said, whether its online or in real life, young women are still going to be dumb and picky when it comes to dating. They expect everything to happen instantly, not realizing that it takes time to build comfortability, a connection and actually get to know somebody.

You not gonna catch a real vibe, sitting across a stranger having a coffee or eating dinner. Low key its usually not until yall kick it at each others places that that happens. Or at the very least while going for a walk, grabbing a beer…doing something very casual

i usually think about it the same way a job interview process goes

you have 3-4 rounds of getting to know your potential employer but the first round is usually a quick phone call. The second is zoom or Teams meeting etc.

Theres no way you can know the: work culture, expectations, day to day tasks, processes etc. by meeting #1. Same way I dont reeeeeally expect shorty to be feeling me entirely or expect sex at the end of the date #1. It takes time to know these things and you wont know unless you keep yourself open to the entire interview (dating) process.

Imagine jumping ship from an interview process after meeting #1, only to find out the employer was gonna give you a months worth of vacation, way better benefits, better pay etc.

 

[Brandsdale]

Dating is hilarious.

Girl One: Met her out. We clicked. Hung out with her the next day (music festival). Took her to a NICE restaurant next week. Made out. Not ready for a relationship. Got cold and looking at my IG stories.

Girl Two: Met on Bumble. Met two days later and hiked. Light kiss after. Second date was at my place five days later. I cooked for her. Played Scrabble. Talked. Had sex three times. I also felt this woman was objectively more attractive than the first one and higher chemistry/compatibility.

Just lol how random this shyt is.

she made out with you then ghosted? i swear these girls are weird man

 

[Ohene]

i usually think about it the same way a job interview process goes

you have 3-4 rounds of getting to know your potential employer but the first round is usually a quick phone call. The second is zoom or Teams meeting etc.

Theres no way you can know the: work culture, expectations, day to day tasks, processes etc. by meeting #1. Same way I dont reeeeeally expect shorty to be feeling me entirely or expect sex at the end of the date #1. It takes time to know these things and you wont know unless you keep yourself open to the entire interview (dating) process.

Imagine jumping ship from an interview process after meeting #1, only to find out the employer was gonna give you a months worth of vacation, way better benefits, better pay etc.

Good analogy

 

[ViShawn]

she made out with you then ghosted? i swear these girls are weird man

If I text her she will match my texting but take long to reply, but she got distant on me. No idea! Also this "girl" is in her mid 30s too. To think women in their 30s are more mature than in their 20s is a lie.

 

[Ohene]

she made out with you then ghosted? i swear these girls are weird man

They are fukked bro

 

[Brandsdale]

If I text her she will match my texting but take long to reply, but she got distant on me. No idea! Also this "girl" is in her mid 30s too. To think women in their 30s are more mature than in their 20s is a lie.

Jesus

 

[MikelArteta]

Had a tremendous date yesterday with this Ghanaian chick

 

[Brandsdale]

Had a tremendous date yesterday with this Ghanaian chick

lucky

 

[DJSmooth]

Hoe aint even say bought “us “ a house

She said bought ME a house. Man. Id drop that chick so fast

A lot of women talk like this if you listen.

Even when they have kids with a man. It's MY children not our children.

 

[Ohene]

A lot of women talk like this if you listen.

Even when they have kids with a man. It's MY children not our children.

Yup

 

[MikelArteta]

lucky

Blessed. And she went all out mini black dress makeup hair done. Luckily I dressed up as well

She even took a Uber from north York all the way downtown.

I already asked for a second date and got it .

 

[The ADD]

If I text her she will match my texting but take long to reply, but she got distant on me. No idea! Also this "girl" is in her mid 30s too. To think women in their 30s are more mature than in their 20s is a lie.

Me thinks she trying to say she ain’t that interested but you are eligible for a call up to the league later.

 

[Ahadi]

Dating is hilarious.

Girl One: Met her out. We clicked. Hung out with her the next day (music festival). Took her to a NICE restaurant next week. Made out. Not ready for a relationship. Got cold and looking at my IG stories.

Girl Two: Met on Bumble. Met two days later and hiked. Light kiss after. Second date was at my place five days later. I cooked for her. Played Scrabble. Talked. Had sex three times. I also felt this woman was objectively more attractive than the first one and higher chemistry/compatibility.

Just lol how random this shyt is.

I’ve had this happen to me a few times.

Seems like you might of been the “foreplay” and gettin her warmed up for someone else.

I’ve had sex with joints and they ghosted lol

 

[Ahadi]

Me thinks she trying to say she ain’t that interested but you are eligible for a call up to the league later.

The emergency break glass guy.

Makes sense.

They leave you confused, some dudes end up “chasing”, some are indifferent. But it leaves a door open to come back (if you let it)