Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Women over 35 are delusional especially these church going ones im sorry. Case in point. I met a young woman this Past Thursday.She was fine,perfect natural type I give her that. We chopped it up vibe was great. We talking Black History Sunday night after Super Bowl. I start mentioning Benjamin Banneker,Sojourner Truth,Angela Davis etc ,I told her how I studied Malcolm as a kid. She accuses me of being woke and how she doesnt know certain black facts and figures. Im like ok whatever fast forward to today, Im playing around asking her who is her Valentine. She replies Jesus. Im like yes he loves us all lol.I ask her again "Human wise who is your Valentines" she replies her homegirl is her Galentine im like :comeon: she use the term my Jesus in our conversations. Something seemed off with her. .She then starts mentioning how she didnt like our black history convo and how her Pastor says if someone is pulling you from their destiny,its not yall season or something like that. IShe feels the conversation should have been more Bible based. :mindblown: I dont have problem with Christianity this is not the post or thread but her conversation just felt off. Funny thing is she told me she a born again virgin and how she use to be in the world going to strip clubs with her homegirls,having sex with men 10+ years etc. I instantly bushed :camby:and stopped replying :whew:
 

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Women over 35 are delusional especially these church going ones im sorry. Case in point. I met a young woman this Past Thursday.She was fine,perfect natural type I give her that. We chopped it up vibe was great. We talking Black History Sunday night after Super Bowl. I start mentioning Benjamin Banneker,Sojourner Truth,Angela Davis etc ,I told her how I studied Malcolm as a kid. She accuses me of being woke and how she doesnt know certain black facts and figures. Im like ok whatever fast forward to today, Im playing around asking her who is her Valentine. She replies Jesus. Im like yes he loves us all lol.I ask her again "Human wise who is your Valentines" she replies her homegirl is her Galentine im like :comeon: she use the term my Jesus in our conversations. Something seemed off with her. .She then starts mentioning how she didnt like our black history convo and how her Pastor says if someone is pulling you from their destiny,its not yall season or something like that. Im like :comeon:. She feels the conversation should have been more Bible based. :mindblown: I dont have problem with Christianity this is not the post or thread :comeon: but her conversation just felt off. Funny thing is she told me she a born again virgin and how she use to be in the world going to strip clubs with her homegirls,having sex 10+ years etc. I instantly bushed :camby: .
Nothing wrong with Christ being the center of a relationship, but her stating the comment about her pastor is telling.

Sounds like a legalist who worships her pastor. May the Lord open her eyes.
 

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Nothing wrong with Christ being the center of a relationship, but her stating the comment about her pastor is telling.

Sounds like a legalist who worships her pastor. May the Lord open her eyes.
I dont have a problem with Christ at center of relationship. It was little things. For example we talked about Nutty Professor she was like "That movie is too vulgar". Things like that.Im a firm believer in God dont get me wrong but I have feeling she would have really brought her pastor up alot in relationship. I mention to her how churches have deviated from Old Testament teachings and how its always about propserity and how churches are. Hopefully she changes one day ah well not my issue :pachaha:
 

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I dont have a problem with Christ at center of relationship. It was little things. For example we talked about Nutty Professor she was like "That movie is too vulgar". Things like that.Im a firm believer in God dont get me wrong but I have feeling she would have really brought her pastor up alot in relationship. I mention to her how churches have deviated from Old Testament teachings and how its always about propserity and how churches are. Hopefully she changes one day ah well not my issue :pachaha:
ahh.. she’s one of those
 

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Go to do what I gotta do and she's giving me all kinds of choosing cues and I bounce not knowing it's Valentine's Day.

:snoop:
 

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Women over 35 are delusional especially these church going ones im sorry. Case in point. I met a young woman this Past Thursday.She was fine,perfect natural type I give her that. We chopped it up vibe was great. We talking Black History Sunday night after Super Bowl. I start mentioning Benjamin Banneker,Sojourner Truth,Angela Davis etc ,I told her how I studied Malcolm as a kid. She accuses me of being woke and how she doesnt know certain black facts and figures. Im like ok whatever fast forward to today, Im playing around asking her who is her Valentine. She replies Jesus. Im like yes he loves us all lol.I ask her again "Human wise who is your Valentines" she replies her homegirl is her Galentine im like :comeon: she use the term my Jesus in our conversations. Something seemed off with her. .She then starts mentioning how she didnt like our black history convo and how her Pastor says if someone is pulling you from their destiny,its not yall season or something like that. IShe feels the conversation should have been more Bible based. :mindblown: I dont have problem with Christianity this is not the post or thread but her conversation just felt off. Funny thing is she told me she a born again virgin and how she use to be in the world going to strip clubs with her homegirls,having sex with men 10+ years etc. I instantly bushed :camby:and stopped replying :whew:

Just like @Balla told me.

Stop spitting that black shyt. That gets their boxes dry for some reason.

:yeshrug:

Every time I went down that route, they were almost always turned off.
 
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I was watching Knocked Up again and realized that was my situation too. I was Seth Rogan to the tee. Ex was Katherine Heigl as well minus the nice PAWG looks

shyt had me teary eyed a bit how I smashed a chick out my league and had a baby

MV5BMTU3OTgyNjk5OF5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTYwODk2ODc2._V1_.jpg

:wow: shyts wild
 

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I was watching Knocked Up again and realized that was my situation too. I was Seth Rogan to the tee. Ex was Katherine Heigl as well minus the nice PAWG looks

shyt had me teary eyed a bit how I smashed a chick out my league and had a baby

MV5BMTU3OTgyNjk5OF5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTYwODk2ODc2._V1_.jpg

:wow: shyts wild
How things going with y’all
 

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Chick from Atlanta has 3 dudes she met on hinge willing to fly out. One of them says his "love language" is giving gifts :snoop:

Starts at the 4:30 minute mark

 

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Chick from Atlanta has 3 dudes she met on hinge willing to fly out. One of them says his "love language" is giving gifts :snoop:

Starts at the 4:30 minute mark



The “gifts” love language is tricky.

A lot of women will say it’s not about material and what it cost.
 

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Yeah the nice guy part is exhibit A for why you should not take women's dating advice seriously for the most part :francis:

Any dude falling for that "nice guy" spiel only has himself to blame at this point. There's nowhere in this current reality that indicates this is something that works for men at all.
 

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Women over 35 are delusional especially these church going ones im sorry. Case in point. I met a young woman this Past Thursday.She was fine,perfect natural type I give her that. We chopped it up vibe was great. We talking Black History Sunday night after Super Bowl. I start mentioning Benjamin Banneker,Sojourner Truth,Angela Davis etc ,I told her how I studied Malcolm as a kid. She accuses me of being woke and how she doesnt know certain black facts and figures. Im like ok whatever fast forward to today, Im playing around asking her who is her Valentine. She replies Jesus. Im like yes he loves us all lol.I ask her again "Human wise who is your Valentines" she replies her homegirl is her Galentine im like :comeon: she use the term my Jesus in our conversations. Something seemed off with her. .She then starts mentioning how she didnt like our black history convo and how her Pastor says if someone is pulling you from their destiny,its not yall season or something like that. IShe feels the conversation should have been more Bible based. :mindblown: I dont have problem with Christianity this is not the post or thread but her conversation just felt off. Funny thing is she told me she a born again virgin and how she use to be in the world going to strip clubs with her homegirls,having sex with men 10+ years etc. I instantly bushed :camby:and stopped replying :whew:


Sounds like a feminist. That's the problem with most of these women. They really haven't been raised to be wives. You can see that by their past lifestyle. Until they accept the fact they were indoctrinated and sold on pagan/goddess worshipping/feminist ideas, they can't really change their way, even if they start going to church. They still are blind to their indoctrination and will cause problems for themselves until they recognize it and willingly start to change that mindset.
 
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