Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

sigh

 

[The ADD]

it was but its like theres this mental roadblock and i cant get her to stop being temperamental or bicker over pointless stupid shyt
and sometimes i engage in the stupid bickering as a result too
i hear from a lot of brehs that this shyt is normal but to be honest i dont know if i can be with a girl who brings this side outta me

our circumstances are very unique with her moving to Toronto from another country, having to learn english better and moving straight in with me
that makes things that much harder...but i honestly feel at times like im dealing with a child lol

and its like at what point do i chalk it up to the circumstances vs. us maybe just not being good for one another

this latest argument resulted in her storming off, me trying to catch up and grabbing her by the sleeve of her jacket....her saying i hurt her and grabbed her arm ( i guess accidentally) and her slapping me as a reflex.

i have never been slapped in my life
I have never even had to grab a chicks arm i dont think...its crossing over into toxic territory

i think its the point of no return

 

[VertigoKnight]

question fam

Do you think my grabbing of her arm is violent?

Google says it can be seen as abusive whch was news to me - as its the first time ive ever done it lol

I ask for the sake of being objective snd not tryna blame her solely

And ill def peep that link even if i break up with her
Always looking to learn

I wouldn't say it was. You went to stop her. And you didn't put your hands on her in any other way.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

 

[Canon]

everything going well and then just got hit with the your being to cool and nonchalant. your not being vulnerable enough with me. I don't know how you feel about me nonsense.

whatever right back on the horse

 

[MikelArteta]

it was but its like theres this mental roadblock and i cant get her to stop being temperamental or bicker over pointless stupid shyt
and sometimes i engage in the stupid bickering as a result too
i hear from a lot of brehs that this shyt is normal but to be honest i dont know if i can be with a girl who brings this side outta me

our circumstances are very unique with her moving to Toronto from another country, having to learn english better and moving straight in with me
that makes things that much harder...but i honestly feel at times like im dealing with a child lol

and its like at what point do i chalk it up to the circumstances vs. us maybe just not being good for one another

this latest argument resulted in her storming off, me trying to catch up and grabbing her by the sleeve of her jacket....her saying i hurt her and grabbed her arm ( i guess accidentally) and her slapping me as a reflex.

i have never been slapped in my life
I have never even had to grab a chicks arm i dont think...its crossing over into toxic territory

i think its the point of no return

RUN breh



I remember when a girl i was dating slapped me, whats worse I was driving and almost got in a accident she slapped me and then started hitting me. She apologized after but I never looked at her the same again.

 

[The ADD]

everything going well and then just got hit with the your being to cool and nonchalant. your not being vulnerable enough with me. I don't know how you feel about me nonsense.

whatever right back on the horse

Bushed her?

 

[Ohene]

RUN breh



I remember when a girl i was dating slapped me, whats worse I was driving and almost got in a accident she slapped me and then started hitting me. She apologized after but I never looked at her the same again.

check ur inbox

 

[Canon]

Bushed her?

we bushed at the moment

I also understand a little drama has to be interjected eventually tho

 

[MikelArteta]

theres been a lot of progress but...i feel like

- shes extroverted (claims shes introverted) but I am introverted
- she seems unappreciative. i can do everything right and she will be over the moon, but one thing goes wrong and shes liable to get bent or complain. in her mind it doesnt take away from the appreciation she showed before but in my mind it does. nikkas need to be given grace for indiscretions and mistakes. were all human...nobody is perfect.
- bickering over stupid shyt. we argue like 2ce a month over dumb shyt. The resolutions have gotten better and quicker, she has learned to reframe and be contrite etc...but its like damn...why we still arguing over this dumb shyt lol
- she needs constant reassurance of the relationship.

for me it just feels like shes combative and doesnt understand how this relationship shyt works. i alluded it to it before...shes learned, shes progressed...but it be feeling like a hamster wheel at times

it wont be an easy decision to make, but it might be time to tell her to just find her own place. lot of thinking to do

Aggressive women are horrible and I'm at a point in my life if a woman is giving me added stress adios.

A lot of chicks are unappreciative they never give thanks for the abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxy that you do all they focus is on the Z that you don't.

 

[Ohene]

Aggressive women are horrible and I'm at a point in my life if a woman is giving me added stress adios.

A lot of chicks are unappreciative they never give thanks for the abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxy that you do all they focus is on the Z that you don't.

Yea. Some people are just naturally anxious and predisposed to negativity.

My brother once said two years ago, "you could be doing everything for a girl, the second youre not doing something, its like youre not doing anything"

Its stuck with me ever since. Instead of being happy about all the stuff you do, something goes wrong and they can only focus on what you havent done or what you did wrong

 

[MikelArteta]

Yea. Some people are just naturally anxious and predisposed to negativity.

My brother once said two years ago, "you could be doing everything for a girl, the second youre not doing something, its like youre not doing anything"

Its stuck with me ever since. Instead of being happy about all the shyt they do, something goes wrong and they can only focus on what you havent done or what you did wrong

i'ma write this down its true.

 

[Canon]

A lot of chicks are unappreciative they never give thanks for the abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxy that you do all they focus is on the Z that you don't.

Facts

 

[RealAssanova]

everything going well and then just got hit with the your being to cool and nonchalant. your not being vulnerable enough with me. I don't know how you feel about me nonsense.

whatever right back on the horse

She testing you because she used to suckers and simps…

Tell shorty…it is what it is. I move at my own pace. U ain’t wit it, u kno where the door is.

 

[Canon]

She testing you because she used to suckers and simps…

Tell shorty…it is what it is. I move at my own pace. U ain’t wit it, u kno where the door is.

That’s essentially what I said with a little cupcaking and nice words.

I’ll let her reach out if she changes her mind until then moving on.