Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Smh I learned my lesson don't travel with a chick you aren't too sure about. I was so excited for the trip and where we were going but I should have known based on the overall energy of our relationship it would have been a disaster.
Lmao what’s the story

And I co-sign this….never, ever underestimate how much we put up with only for sex. When you’re in close quarters for days and MULTIPLE bouts of post nut clarity, you realize damn this mfer boring/annoying/etc

Having said all that…. I’m about to gon on a 5 day stay in the bahamas with a chick I’ve known for 3 months :lolbron: Remote resort not very walkable. I’m an idiot. The good part is I’m renting a car so if I need space I’ll get it somehow
 

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The Hapa chick saga came to its conclusion today :lolbron: So Tuesday I didn't message her at all. Early evening she pops up. Asking how my day was.

And basically said her period was ending and she couldn’t wait till she got back next week and wanted to see me ASAP before she flew out.

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So I went to her place this morning. She had a delicious breakfast waiting for me. Ate that, then let my food settle before we had sex. Chick is a talent. Everything with her was top notch.

Happy we got to do that before the end of this year.

But goes to show you when a woman wants you there are no barriers or excuses.
 
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Lmao what’s the story

And I co-sign this….never, ever underestimate how much we put up with only for sex. When you’re in close quarters for days and MULTIPLE bouts of post nut clarity, you realize damn this mfer boring/annoying/etc

Having said all that…. I’m about to gon on a 5 day stay in the bahamas with a chick I’ve known for 3 months :lolbron: Remote resort not very walkable. I’m an idiot. The good part is I’m renting a car so if I need space I’ll get it somehow
Don't want to say too much but this chick I've been dating for over a year now. I always felt like something was missing or like she wasn't the one. She has some good qualities, even got me a new iPhone but the sex part of things is not consistent due to work stress she says. With that said we argue a lot but for her birthday she wanted to take a trip out the country and invited me. I couldn't refuse cause I needed a get a way. A cycle we have is where we would disagree, argue and then she would just give me the silent treatment after.

With that said, should have known better. It was originally gonna be a couples trip but her friends couldn't make it due to an issue with spirit airlines and their pre flight paperwork not being filled out but spirit didn't inform them about it. To make matters worse there has been black outs the first two nights we've been here. All signs to me but aside from that me and her haven't been well and being on trip makes me feel stuck with her instead of a vacation.
 
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Don't want to say too much but this chick I've been dating for over a year now. I always felt like something was missing or like she wasn't the one. She has some good qualities, even got me a new iPhone but the sex part of things is not consistent due to work stress she says. With that said we argue a lot but for her birthday she wanted to take a trip out the country and invited me. I couldn't refuse cause I needed a get a way. A cycle we have is where we would disagree, argue and then she would just give me the silent treatment after.

With that said, should have known better. It was originally gonna to be a couples trip but her friends couldn't make it due to an issue with spirit airlines and their pre flight paperwork not being filled out but spirit didn't inform them about it. To make matters worse there has been black out the first two nights we've been here. All signs to me but aside from that me and her haven't been well and being on trip makes me feel stuck with her instead of a vacation.
LOL at dating a chick for a year that you argue with, don’t like her energy and don’t align with sexually……

Why y’all do this to yourself………..
 

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Lmao what’s the story

And I co-sign this….never, ever underestimate how much we put up with only for sex. When you’re in close quarters for days and MULTIPLE bouts of post nut clarity, you realize damn this mfer boring/annoying/etc

Having said all that…. I’m about to gon on a 5 day stay in the bahamas with a chick I’ve known for 3 months :lolbron: Remote resort not very walkable. I’m an idiot. The good part is I’m renting a car so if I need space I’ll get it somehow
How did you split the cost?
 

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LOL at dating a chick for a year that you argue with, don’t like her energy and don’t align with sexually……

Why y’all do this to yourself………..
She got me an iPhone and pays half for things lol. Most chicks want you to pay for everything. That's why.
 

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A boring girl number one strategy is to be so in love with you and outgoing that you never stop and think about who she is outside of the things she's doing for you. If most men did that during the talking stage they could go ahead and get their nut in and leave like the other men that wised up before. But typically around the end of year one you're gonna find out anyway so it is what it is. You could've had worse. Like some psycho chick that ruins your life and you're paying for it everyday.
 

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A boring girl number one strategy is to be so in love with you and outgoing that you never stop and think about who she is outside of the things she's doing for you. If most men did that during the talking stage they could go ahead and get their nut in and leave like the other men that wised up before. But typically around the end of year one you're gonna find out anyway so it is what it is. You could've had worse. Like some psycho chick that ruins your life and you're paying for it everyday.
Is it possible to make a chick fun or bring out that fun side?
 

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Is it possible to make a chick fun or bring out that fun side?
You can definitely bring it out of her but i feel like over time you're gonna find out who she really is. She can't fake it forever. Thats why I just ask her friends if I get to that point. But yeah inviting her out to stuff and she's seeing how outgoing you are, alot of girls are gonna try to mirror that energy in the beginning. Especially if you have a group of friends that she's trying to be a part of.
 
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