Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Astroslik]

Bruh

I admit i may be jumping the gun but im open to feedback.

Iron sharpens iron

 

[The ADD]

Bruh

I admit i may be jumping the gun but im open to feedback.

Iron sharpens iron

You don’t even know her. If you are putting out minimal effort then let things ride sometimes…..

 

[RaspberryFitted]

This doesn’t seems that bad to be honest. You said next month it’s not like you were a priority.

this is the truth

In my head canon, I am the greatest man alive. I deserve to be fed grapes and attention anytime I call for it. In reality, I am a regular college student living under his mama’s roof, with a car w/o a transmission, and who’s only social interaction is from visiting their local Kroger. Excluding my intangibles and my face card () what about that screams #1 priority?

and being honest with myself, I do the same. there’s a few women in my iMessages that aren’t a priority in my life. One blew up on me and told me she wasn’t some toy off the shelf I could play with when I’m bored.

Yet, when the same is done to me.. I act like my age and get into an internal crisis. As if folks don’t have friends, family, life or honestly — a better option for herself

 

[The ADD]

This doesn’t seems that bad to be honest. You said next month it’s not like you were a priority.

lol I’m visiting next month. No time table, dates, etc. She replies five days later and he’s offended

Come on guise

 

[Astroslik]

lol I’m visiting next month. No time table, dates, etc. She replies five days later and he’s offended

Come on guise

I paraphrased my response but i did mention an exact date and also a restaurant I got us a reservation for. Not like it changes anything but

 

[General Mills]

 

[The ADD]

I paraphrased my response but i did mention an exact date and also a restaurant I got us a reservation for. Not like it changes anything but

It’s a month away

Y’all had rapport

You were connected by one of her family members.

Haven’t met in person

I would let it play out assuming you have other options and aren’t pressed for her specifically which you should be

 

[Astroslik]

It’s a month away

Y’all had rapport

You were connected by one of her family members.

Haven’t met in person

I would let it play out assuming you have other options and aren’t pressed for her specifically which you should be

You right.. ima let it ride. No need to throw the baby out with the bathwater. And I think her auntie has been bragging about me to her (she works in my building) so ima just see how it shakes out. I have other women on deck in the meantime. I

 

[The ADD]

 

[Ohene]

I swear women don’t know how to handle a nice dude they are interested in, who just isn’t that interested to them. It’s almost like once they like you they automatically assume everything is perfect and things should move forward. Nah shorty maybe you have some turn offs as well and some men are just nice about letting you down easy.

Most women think that if they look good that that is enough; not understanding that on the back end women need game to seduce men into companionship

 

[rabbid]

Have any of y'all ever broke up with an ex years in the past and then she hit you up later after you have leveled up trying to see if y'all can rekindle things?

And during the separation she's kept in touch through social media and things off and on.

I feel like almost every dude has had this happen. My last girlfriend literally told me she was planning on doing it

Like really? So all those other nuts you're about to catch are just whoever? Just dumb shyt like this that turns men into savages.

 

[International Playa]

I'm 30 . Think I'm pretty decent looking .

I been on like 6 dates this year bro . I was talking / seeing this one plus 2 others at the same time till about a month ago . We click more than the others so I said lemme not just completely rule it out because she already has a child . All I can do is see how it goes from here . I'm not rushing anything .

fair enough

i guess we can sometimes be too judgmental of single mothers but i think i'd rather just be alone and womanize personally

one thing is these single mothers be a lot cooler and easier to deal with because they know they have to be given their handicap. dont be surprised if she switches up once youre hooked in

Some single mothers got serious game.

In my mid-20s I dated a single mother, she had me hooked, with mind blowing sex & she never gave me stress, made me very comfortable in her home. I was buying lil' Jimmy Christmas & bday gifts

Her end game was for me to marry her, so she can be a housewife & NOT work, while I pay for everything & pay to raise another man's seed. She put pressure on me to marry her several times till i ended the situation & moved on.

 

[Amo Husserl]

Had a casual conversation with strangers over coffee this morning.
Communication is key.
Invited to a New Years Eve party.

 

[BigBlackSea]

Had a casual conversation with strangers over coffee this morning.
Communication is key.
Invited to a New Years Eve party.

Just randomly at Starbucks or what?

I've been doing more of the coffee house visits just to be out and about while I do work. It's a good way to strike up conversation with people.

Good luck at the NYE party. Best bet to get some action is to bypass some sort of barrier of entry. Private parties are where it's at, cause you arr already vetted in some fashion.

 

[Amo Husserl]

Just randomly at Starbucks or what?

I've been doing more of the coffee house visits just to be out and about while I do work. It's a good way to strike up conversation with people.

Good luck at the NYE party. Best bet to get some action is to bypass some sort of barrier of entry. Private parties are where it's at, cause you arr already vetted in some fashion.

Random, I go to smaller joints for the coffee and atmosphere.
I usually try to get in and out but someone stopped me.
It was a group of four, seemed like a private party.
I normally do NYE alone, may go on a whim.