Mental is A1. Keeps herself in shape, submissive and everything. Went out last night for some Indian food & back to my spot.
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Mental is A1. Keeps herself in shape, submissive and everything. Went out last night for some Indian food & back to my spot.
Step Daddy loading…..Mental is A1. Keeps herself in shape, submissive and everything. Went out last night for some Indian food & back to my spot.
Lol on the bright side, the kid is 17 & she is going away to college next year
How old is the single mom?
skyrunner1
Superstar
shyt is willld..This is one of the comments:
Be safe out there brehs
Duke Wy Lin
It's been a good run. Wish y'all the best ✊🏿
shyt is willld..
Yeah, some of these women will use unsuspecting brehs to make their crazy ex jealous.
jilla82
Superstar
after about 30 you gotta assume they've been in the streets.Met this artsy earthy joint, you know the type:
Vegetarian, yoga, meditation, does flower arrangements as a side hustle, likes to read (big plus for me), poetry, magic crystals, oils, rings/bracelets/anklet, etc etc
I like that she's not covered in tattoos (3 small ones: wrist, upper back right shoulder, and left ankle)
Her IG is presentable: no ass shots (she's packing), no thirst traps
Divorced, no kids
She's running around cuz of Art Basel but invited me to her crib for a meal this Sunday
On paper and having vibed with her at a book fair reading she's dope but I'm trying to find out why she's divorced (just like there's a reason I'm divorced)
I haven't dealt with artsy fartsy chicks in years. From my younger days I remember them being flaky, "free spirits," "go with the flow" in short not relationship material.
But now I'm being invited to home cooked meals and when I text she responds immediately if not soon. That tells me at least she's interested and of course us being(I'm 45 she's 43) then I'm going to assume she's not for the streets (that's just my impression)
What's The Coli's experience with older artsy women?
the question is are they done with it?
how do yall click?
does she give off signs she's REALLY into you.
choosing a woman in your 30's and 40's is like showing up after a war.
they have battle scars.
you gotta figure out which ones you can deal with
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Digital Omen
All Star
Running the streets in your 20's vs 40's is different.
The bolded is what I'm curious about.
She was married for 15 years, her divorce was finalized about 6 months ago. Mine in 2019.
I know when I got divorced the first thing I did was jump into some new p*ssy, but I wasn't out there like when I was in my 20's.
I didn't and don't have the energy or desire to be out every night trying to get ass like back in the day.
As far her we just met so just trying to get intel from our convos and what her deal is.
I could be the rebound or the pass the time dude with her divorce being so recent. If that's the case I'll move accordingly.
jilla82
Superstar
im not saying dont pursue
but be cognizant of the warning signs.
if she was married for 15 years she hasnt experienced the dating app cycle
it starts off VERY exciting for them because of all the attention
Spades Of Aces
The Infinity Watcher
I just literally found this out….His last video on YouTube was two weeks ago I believe. This one really caught me off guard. R.I.P
Anyone here ever started dating or seeing a chick and you intentionally go out of your way not to initiate sex just to see what happens?
For me it's been something of an exercising in willlpower as well as an experiment to see what the chick will do.
Have any of you tried this and what has a female done? Does she initiate instead? If so, how did she do it?
For me it's been something of an exercising in willlpower as well as an experiment to see what the chick will do.
Have any of you tried this and what has a female done? Does she initiate instead? If so, how did she do it?
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
The shy women tend to just stay quiet & never initiate it, the more confident women have been more vocal asking like "arent you horny?", or requested a massage or asked me to take off my clothes while being in her bed
Dealing with a woman now I been talking with and put her on blast during our conversations. Called out all types of bad behaviors told her about red flags and I didn't mention that she had them but she chimed in when they were mentioned. Felt like I was on one of those manosphere shows brehs be watching, I just have life experience with shady women so I know what to pick up on. She was pissed when I told her that for most women having a bunch of male friends means a woman craves too much attention and if she can't get along with other women its because she's problematic 
Went right at me with NO IT DON'T NOT ALL WOMEN, I HAVE MALE FRIENDS
, she was heated.
I asked her calmly what would happen if you were talking to a dude and found out he had no guy friends but was kicking it with women every week on the phone with them, texting, etc. and he told you he just likes being around women more than chilling with men and wasn't gay...you'd think he was a player and wouldn't be cool with that....
Whole energy shifted then she was agreeing and saw where I was coming from. I been focused on stacking paper so long I ain't realize how many simps are out here. Brehs don't be afraid to tell these women what it is and be real because they ain't used to hearing the truth, especially if you tell them about themselves without being disrespectful, i see how Kevin Samuels built his audience now
Went right at me with NO IT DON'T NOT ALL WOMEN, I HAVE MALE FRIENDS
, she was heated.I asked her calmly what would happen if you were talking to a dude and found out he had no guy friends but was kicking it with women every week on the phone with them, texting, etc. and he told you he just likes being around women more than chilling with men and wasn't gay...you'd think he was a player and wouldn't be cool with that....
Whole energy shifted then she was agreeing and saw where I was coming from. I been focused on stacking paper so long I ain't realize how many simps are out here. Brehs don't be afraid to tell these women what it is and be real because they ain't used to hearing the truth, especially if you tell them about themselves without being disrespectful, i see how Kevin Samuels built his audience now