Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Brandsdale

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Brehs, I'm ugly gang so I'm not pulling much anyway but this Redpill shyt has me too aware of women's nature

I'll talk to a few chicks and be instantly turned off because I can see right through them.

Think of it how some dudes test smaller cacs because they sized them up and think they can whoop them but lil cac comes out with Judo throws and MMA strikes because he was trained.

That's me in a nutshell. I'm small in this dating world but took time to study woman's nature so I'm mentally prepared, etc

How I work around this?

if the bolded is how you view yourself, then them redpill nikkas arent gonna help you

staying in a silo of your own thoughts with little experience talking to women and relying on outside sources of experience or verification fukks up your perception of dating. Dudes be out here bagging and smashing, and A LOT of them are as ugly as my foot, but are confident enough to keep consistently trying and I personally think its that tenacity part that keeps them successful :manny:
 

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real shyt, are black folks the only race that pull these weird semantics when it comes to casual sex?

I’ve come across chicks of other ethnicities who pull shyt like this.

But they’re smart enough to not blast it across social media.

That’s the one thing a lot of black and white women need to learn sometimes saying nothing is for the best. Broadcasting your slutiness for all and sundry is not sexy or attractive just leads to men treating you accordingly.

East Asian, South Asian etc you’ll never really see them broadcasting this stuff even though many are on the same wave.
 

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Correct. If you can put it down and mentally stimulate her, you pretty much win.

Yep. The white girl I’ve started seeing wanted to see me yesterday. She wanted “round 2” I’ve really been enjoying hanging and chatting with her. So its not just bedroom stuff.

The sex yesterday was fire. Had her tapping out afterwards. She stayed over and this morning was telling me she was still thinking about what I did to her the previous night and we had round 3. Feel I’ve got that perfect balance with her sexually and mentally.
 

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One question to the fellas do you guys like lifting these chicks up off the bed. Holding them up in the air and fukking them? Add on walking round the room with them before throwing them back on the bed

:shaq:

That move makes these chicks go wild, they tell me no other guy has done that with them.

I’m like really?

They’d be like most adventurous some of the guys they used to see would do is doggy.
 

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Brehs, I'm ugly gang so I'm not pulling much anyway but this Redpill shyt has me too aware of women's nature

I'll talk to a few chicks and be instantly turned off because I can see right through them.

Think of it how some dudes test smaller cacs because they sized them up and think they can whoop them but lil cac comes out with Judo throws and MMA strikes because he was trained.

That's me in a nutshell. I'm small in this dating world but took time to study woman's nature so I'm mentally prepared, etc

How I work around this?
Acceptance and move on with what you want. To use your "redpill" analogy you essentially become the "merovingian" of your own world, you know what it is, you can essentially "see the code" in dating dynamics and you use that to your advantage to get what you want out of it all.. What do you actually want, knowing what you know, how do you create a "path to win"?
 

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One question to the fellas do you guys like lifting these chicks up off the bed. Holding them up in the air and fukking them? Add on walking round the room with them before throwing them back on the bed

:shaq:

That move makes these chicks go wild, they tell me no other guy has done that with them.

I’m like really?

They’d be like most adventurous some of the guys they used to see would do is doggy.

You’d be surprised, once you get them really open. Figure out their inner freak, their fantasies, the bond becomes stronger.

Picking them up, simultaneously massaging the clit, mixing up your strokes, etc.
 

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One question to the fellas do you guys like lifting these chicks up off the bed. Holding them up in the air and fukking them? Add on walking round the room with them before throwing them back on the bed

:shaq:

That move makes these chicks go wild, they tell me no other guy has done that with them.

I’m like really?

They’d be like most adventurous some of the guys they used to see would do is doggy.
One of the benefits of staying in the gym

When you can o/b/s/d 2/3/4/5, superman-fukking some 125 girl ain't no trouble. :mjlit:

About to take advantage of this bulk this winter for more gains. Come summer time, it's gonna be open season.
 

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I’ve come across chicks of other ethnicities who pull shyt like this.

But they’re smart enough to not blast it across social media.

That’s the one thing a lot of black and white women need to learn sometimes saying nothing is for the best. Broadcasting your slutiness for all and sundry is not sexy or attractive just leads to men treating you accordingly.

East Asian, South Asian etc you’ll never really see them broadcasting this stuff even though many are on the same wave.
Im sure shorties of all races do weird shyt like but how many of them are influencedd by black culture to some degree?
why is it that its harder for me to see AND hear a black women raise these topics, but white hoes just say all this shyt in silence?

even after high school, i onlly really saw black women broadcast their issues with casual sex and going to such lengths of shaming a man for weak sex acumen or for having a smaller dikk size. Im sure hoes of all races have some kinda beef that they voice about men, but they WAY they go about it is much more transparent than the other
 

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So me & this shorty been messing around since May. Working on her masters, works full time, volunteers in the public schools, amazing in bed.

Funny girl too, which is unique cuz most girls ain’t funny to me (nor are other men :dame:)

Only thing is, we live an hour away and she just moved back in with her parents to save bread:francis: Which I ain’t mad at, but when I’m down in Chi we can’t really chill.

I could see myself with her long term, but I feel like if it was me as a man living with my folks at 25 id be looked down upon
So how you think you would be perceived on a hypothetical situation should the positive place y’all are in?

Come on guise
 

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Brehs, I'm ugly gang so I'm not pulling much anyway but this Redpill shyt has me too aware of women's nature

I'll talk to a few chicks and be instantly turned off because I can see right through them.

Think of it how some dudes test smaller cacs because they sized them up and think they can whoop them but lil cac comes out with Judo throws and MMA strikes because he was trained.

That's me in a nutshell. I'm small in this dating world but took time to study woman's nature so I'm mentally prepared, etc

How I work around this?
Most women think a lot of men are ugly or are average in looks. Average & ugly dudes are still getting women. Dress nice, get a haircut & facial hair that suits you, hit the gym. Be confident & good conversation.

Forget the redpill toxic bullshyt, get in the game & enjoying a variety of different women. So many single women out there praying to meet a dude like you.
 

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One question to the fellas do you guys like lifting these chicks up off the bed. Holding them up in the air and fukking them? Add on walking round the room with them before throwing them back on the bed

:shaq:

That move makes these chicks go wild, they tell me no other guy has done that with them.

I’m like really?

They’d be like most adventurous some of the guys they used to see would do is doggy.
My ex loved this position but that position requires a lot of strength & stamina. :flabbynsick:

That position is impossible to do with the thick or BBW chicks or you will injure your back :mjlol:
 

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You’d be surprised, once you get them really open. Figure out their inner freak, their fantasies, the bond becomes stronger.

Picking them up, simultaneously massaging the clit, mixing up your strokes, etc.

Yep I get all my longer term chicks wide open especially these PAAGs. They tell me all their freaky fantasies. That builds the trust even more.

Also once you learn you don't need to be jack hammering a woman to pleasure her its a game changer.
 

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Yep I get all my longer term chicks wide open especially these PAAGs. They tell me all their freaky fantasies. That builds the trust even more.

Also once you learn you don't need to be jack hammering a woman to pleasure her its a game changer.


Exactly & Nope, enjoying the process of sex, not the goal. You win ever time.
 
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