OmegaK2099
Gettin' It In
It's true tho, men don't got that problem
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Oh okay and what’s the consensus? I’ll knock a shawty down up until bout 35-40ish
OmegaK2099
Gettin' It In
Everyone knows this, women have 10-15 years tops of being hot and then its all downhill from there while men have 40 or so years of being attractive to women. All women go through it. By then men generally want younger womenOh okay and what’s the consensus? I’ll knock a shawty down up until bout 35-40ish
more fun and less damaged
Oh okay and what’s the consensus? I’ll knock a shawty down up until bout 35-40ish
No. So you should be going younger because after 26/27 they start getting thirsty for a baby & somehow the condom slips off or an accident happens.
The wall exist, but it’s not what brehs hope will happen. Technically they’ll feel more pressured to get with a guy. (She’s basically 50% off) The guy she picks in this life stage “30-40” doesn’t make her tingle or feel the same way as the guys she met in her 20s.
I feel it
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
cappin like fukk. Go to your local Wal-Mart and see what the average man actually looks like. If you’re on your game, the options you have at women in that age is plentiful.. keyword IF. Brehs think they gonna be Idris Elba or DiCaprio the second they turn 30
the main reason there’s controversy about that Russell Wilson clip (even though they have absolutely no idea how Ciara feels; they simply base it off perception).
I understand the sentiment, but most dudes truly don’t work on themselves currently but they have the nerve to talk about “knocking young hoes down” when they’re 30-40. We feel bad for the cleanup man but we rarely analyze WHY he’s the cleanup man.
OmegaK2099
Gettin' It In
Well yeah im assuming men actually keep putting work into themselves and don't go the other route and decide too turn into what current day Brendan Fraser has become (since you mentioned celebrities)
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
that’s the thing: you assuming. Even KS exposed this when he speaks to primarily men. Dudes who bark all that HVM jargon do not put in effort to be that and rather attack women. Like I said earlier, go out in public and just take a look at the men you pass by. See exactly what “average” means.Well yeah im assuming men actually keep putting work into themselves and don't go the other route and decide too turn into what current day Brendan Fraser has become (since you mentioned celebrities)
we say it’s fukked up that a woman does not get turned on by the dude she marries at 30-40, but when the dude is obese, has a receding hairline, lacks grooming, and the only thing he brings is finances…. can you blame her?
Yes I blame her, if she wasn’t a golddigging c*nt she would have saw the type of person he was beyond the green bucks and realized the type of person he would turn into
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
You call it goldigging, others call it survival. It’s grimey but
OmegaK2099
Gettin' It In
I guess to get my point across as to what I was saying before about cutting a woman off when she wants space. Is that you can compare your relationship to reheating fries, it's never going to be the same and things will never go back to how they once were. By that point She sees you differently and her attraction isn't there anymore.
Shyts going to lead to blatant disrespect and alot of headaches and it's not worth it.
Shyts going to lead to blatant disrespect and alot of headaches and it's not worth it.
Killigraphy
Banned
Girlfriend and I had our first real argument over the weekend
Like I mentioned before, my gf has a big friend circle that means a lot to her, which I'm absolutely cool with. About forty percent of these friends are women, the rest are guys. Of her friend group, there are two guys that she's been trying to get me to be closer with. Both guys and she considers them her best friends. Let's call them Friend A and Friend B. I'm cordial with them but I don't really click with them like I do some of her other friends.
I've managed to get along with all her friends, but I'm closest with Friend C(girl), and Friend D(guy)
So, on Saturday night I'm at the bar with a couple friends watching March Madness. Her friend is throwing a get together, and I tell her that I'll be over after HT, and I'll watch the rest of the game on my phone.
To make a long story short, at the party her and her friends were playing some games. I participated, but I was mostly focused on the game(Duke/NC). After the game, I drive her back to my place, and go to bed.
Tell me why she starts bytching/crying at me because she feels like I didn't engage more with Friend A/B, she feels like I dislike her friends, and that she feels like I'm forcing her to choose between her friends and me.
This really isn't the first time she's bytched at me for this. I try, but I'll never really click with her friends like she wants me to
Am I wrong for thinking that I should end this?
I'm cool with answering any questions y'all might have, just in case you think there might be a gap in my story. I typed this pretty quickly
You have to hurt her feelings with truth; Tell her that you don't owe her shyt beyond being her bf/man and that's all. You can like who you like and say what you want. You're in a relationship with her, not her friends. I get it all the time with every bird I'm with. "Oh you don't like my friends right?" - "bytch I don't like anybody but my momma, and that bytch is getting on my nerves lately". The probably is her need to want to control and or OCD her way into happiness. I love when they get pissy and cry crocodile tears of meaninglessness. Present your point, laugh it off, and move on. You ultimately have to punish her, every time she brings it up. Either icing her or simply take yourself out the situation/room for a bit. She has to know, that if she fukks up, she loses something she likes.
Or move on, but do understand that its a very common thing in LTR.