Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Do yall play women's games and rules?
Example: constantly pursuing and you gotta initiate all the convos/messages, Can't respond too soon
she got rules about when she's gonna buss it open (based on what her friends told her and other BS)
I was thinking about this a week ago. I was dealing with a chick and I found myself always initiating the conversation. Last time i talked to her was last Friday. I pulled back over the weekend till now and since then I’ve never heard a peep from her. No “hi”, “how’s your day going”, nothing. I deleted the number this morning
 

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Do yall play women's games and rules?
Example: constantly pursuing and you gotta initiate all the convos/messages, Can't respond too soon
she got rules about when she's gonna buss it open (based on what her friends told her and other BS)
it depends. if i enjoy their company then i have no problem kicking it with them, playing it cool etc until I see an opportunity to strike and smash. But I wont be spending much if any money. I might take the girl out twice max and after that she gotta come to the crib.

I usually try to find an insecurity of theirs and use it against them. if i cant find it then i'll call them out on the bullshyt. if they react negatively i keep it moving

for instance the last girl i fukked once mentioned something about guys using her for her body
so I'd never touch her inappropriately, or compliment her body. I'd compliment everything else about her (which was all BS) and was able to break those walls down relatively soon after

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That initiating the convo always shyt is the worst. What I can say is never EVER wife a girl like that. I did it once and it remained an issue as the relationship went on. I told a story about her when discussing my ex who got in an accident pges back. Those kinds of women are egotistical attention whores. Theyre afraid of rejection and will put the onus on you to do evrything
 

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Do yall play women's games and rules?
Example: constantly pursuing and you gotta initiate all the convos/messages, Can't respond too soon
she got rules about when she's gonna buss it open (based on what her friends told her and other BS)

It's always a game. That's why a dude that knows what to say in every situation, "He got game" or a dude that always has multiple women "A playa/player"
 

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it depends. if i enjoy their company then i have no problem kicking it with them, playing it cool etc until I see an opportunity to strike and smash. But I wont be spending much if any money. I might take the girl out twice max and after that she gotta come to the crib.

I usually try to find an insecurity of theirs and use it against them. if i cant find it then i'll call them out on the bullshyt. if they react negatively i keep it moving

for instance the last girl i fukked once mentioned something about guys using her for her body
so I'd never touch her inappropriately, or compliment her body. I'd compliment everything else about her (which was all BS) and was able to break those walls down relatively soon after

-

That initiating the convo always shyt is the worst. What I can say is never EVER wife a girl like that. I did it once and it remained an issue as the relationship went on. I told a story about her when discussing my ex who got in an accident pges back. Those kinds of women are egotistical attention whores. Theyre afraid of rejection and will put the onus on you to do evrything
I was thinking about this a week ago. I was dealing with a chick and I found myself always initiating the conversation. Last time i talked to her was last Friday. I pulled back over the weekend till now and since then I’ve never heard a peep from her. No “hi”, “how’s your day going”, nothing. I deleted the number this morning
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look @ Laura_charles' messages
this made me think they playin games...they try their best to seem uninterested even if they are...so I'm like damn...do most fellas just keep trying
 

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look @ Laura_charles' messages
this made me think they playin games...they try their best to seem uninterested even if they are...so I'm like damn...do most fellas just keep trying
Women are idiots when it comes to dating

they don’t realize a nikka isn’t dumb and knows what they’re doing

Play all the games you want. All you’re doing is causing the man to build resentment and bring the demon/menace out after fckn

and while I’m waiting/playing your games…ill probably be fckn another girl anyways so i ain’t really losing anything.

women incentivize men to treat dating as a number Game then act surprised when men move on or cheat
 
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Women are idiots when it comes to dating

they don’t realize a nikka isn’t dumb and knows what they’re doing

Play all the games you want. All you’re doing is causing the man to build resentment and bring the demon/nenace out after fckn

and while I’m waiting/playing your games…ill probably be fckn another girl anyways so i ain’t really losing anything.

women incentivize men to treat dating as a number Game then act surprised when men move on or cheat
You spoke nothing but facts!
 

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look @ Laura_charles' messages
this made me think they playin games...they try their best to seem uninterested even if they are...so I'm like damn...do most fellas just keep trying
I’m open to any counter to this next statement:

“the chase” is a little boy’s game. It’s one thing to see if your tongue is still sharp or if you still got it.. but to actively go after women despite seeing nothing but roadblocks is asinine. Men who have shyt to do and a purpose are NOT going to decipher codes or determine anything that isn’t verbally or explicitly non-verbally communicated
Women are idiots when it comes to dating

they don’t realize a nikka isn’t dumb and knows what they’re doing


Play all the games you want. All you’re doing is causing the man to build resentment and bring the demon/nenace out after fckn
spot on BUT the bolded. Women do what they do because of majority of men ALLOW them to do it. If a woman is constantly engaging with men who tolerate or ENCOURAGE outlandish and silly behavior, why would she change? When she does find a stand-up cat who isn’t with the games, she either is intimidated due to her insecurities (finds a minuscule flaw in dude, thus allowing her to dip without guilt) or falls in line.

Centuries of running shyt and dudes truly believe in a few years all of that is diminished :mjlol:
women incentivize men to treat dating as a number Game then act surprised when men move on or cheat
The West Elm Caleb is a perfect example.
 

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Women are idiots when it comes to dating

they don’t realize a nikka isn’t dumb and knows what they’re doing

Play all the games you want. All you’re doing is causing the man to build resentment and bring the demon/nenace out after fckn

and while I’m waiting/playing your games…ill probably be fckn another girl anyways so i ain’t really losing anything.

women incentivize men to treat dating as a number Game then act surprised when men move on or cheat


You're wrong, most men don't know anything

Most men only have a handful of female partners their WHOLE LIVES
 

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You're wrong, most men don't know anything

Most men only have a handful of female partners their WHOLE LIVES
youre wrong

men know when women are playing games. They just lack to experience and confidence to do anything with that knowledge…

the type of men that women really desire? A different story
 
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