Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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You reckon it's important to have/know your girls social media accounts?

So my girl (of 8 months) earlier on in our relationship suggested that we add each other on IG but i declined because I really don't care to follow and see the mundane posts that they be posting plus i'm not big on social media like that and mainly use my account to see informative/educational posts. I also know that women purge their IG accounts when dating someone new so anything she didn't want me to see on her IG would have already been deleted.

It got me thinking tho this past week that while i don't have my girls IG account, i can't search for her on other social media platforms like FB or Twitter.. I think she's got it on hidden or something.

You reckon this is a red flag?

Being able to view a girls past posts is an indication to how she thinks right so not being able to see the transparency is not really knowing who you're dealing with.

Am i overthinking this


I've dated women and not given a fukk about it, you're only gonna get yourself mad or start some drama over the thirsty dudes on her page. Its all about vanity for women. Its also the age we live in. Everyone is supposed* to have social media. The only red flag I see (beyond the general vanity and oversharing of women) is if she tries to hide you from any of them. Obviously she has something to hide, but at the same time, you knew that coming in. I say to both parties, "don't dig", as if your brain is already in that negative thought process, you're gonna find something. Just stick to FB and Texting, fukk everything else.
 

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Been in LA for a week now. I’ve never seen this many fine women in my life. Hell, even the Asian and white women look good out here. This shyt different :whoo:
Let me get these certs so I can go
 

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Is this the Hinge piece?

:mjlol:

Oh nah this is a different one lol. I forgot about the other girl. Literally hits me up at 11pm with this message. Too late I’m with somebody else & low key don’t even want it anymore.

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Moral of the story: Clean your hinge weekly.
 
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The average person checks their phone every 12 minutes...now imagine these young birds? Excluding outliers who are either drugged up or leave their phone at home....these whores are constantly online and checking their phones....fives days later is ridiculous, she had time to sleep, drink, eat, wake up in the morning to work and check her updates, but couldn't reply because of work? Its so insulting how people who do this think so little of the person they're talking to. Do the same and see how they respond. My petty is unmatched, don't want to reply for days? Same, just understand that when she does hit you up, move it to meeting up and having sex. Watch how quickly she texts back now.

I completely agree. I understand no one owes you anything, but at the same time, atleast have some common courtesy. I do the same whether it’s business or personal conversation.

Yup. Literally gona be an after hours call.
 

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I completely agree. I understand no one owes you anything, but at the same time, atleast have some common courtesy. I do the same whether it’s business or personal conversation.

Yup. Literally gona be an after hours call.

For me, that's always been the problem, if you're texting me, and a loser, you owe me plenty. Is it egotistical? Sure, at least I'm honest about it. I'm a high value man, or for debates sake, I'm far more high value than the women I deal with, no matter how gorgeous they are, my hard work is never beaten by genetics. The minute we start chatting, is the minute said bird has to bow her head. That's the general issue; a good girl knows this off rip, she'll hang on your every word, and be obedient...the problem is social media has these whores on an invisible pedestal.

Imagine, a world, shaped, and secured by men, only to have the meek and unpleasant ask you to jump through their hoops? I don't ever want to make that my reality.
 

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You reckon it's important to have/know your girls social media accounts?

So my girl (of 8 months) earlier on in our relationship suggested that we add each other on IG but i declined because I really don't care to follow and see the mundane posts that they be posting plus i'm not big on social media like that and mainly use my account to see informative/educational posts. I also know that women purge their IG accounts when dating someone new so anything she didn't want me to see on her IG would have already been deleted.

It got me thinking tho this past week that while i don't have my girls IG account, i can't search for her on other social media platforms like FB or Twitter.. I think she's got it on hidden or something.

You reckon this is a red flag?

Being able to view a girls past posts is an indication to how she thinks right so not being able to see the transparency is not really knowing who you're dealing with.

Am i overthinking this

Not a reg flag per se, but I wouldn't take the relationship to the next level without at least seeing her social media
 

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You reckon it's important to have/know your girls social media accounts?

So my girl (of 8 months) earlier on in our relationship suggested that we add each other on IG but i declined because I really don't care to follow and see the mundane posts that they be posting plus i'm not big on social media like that and mainly use my account to see informative/educational posts. I also know that women purge their IG accounts when dating someone new so anything she didn't want me to see on her IG would have already been deleted.

It got me thinking tho this past week that while i don't have my girls IG account, i can't search for her on other social media platforms like FB or Twitter.. I think she's got it on hidden or something.

You reckon this is a red flag?

Being able to view a girls past posts is an indication to how she thinks right so not being able to see the transparency is not really knowing who you're dealing with.

Am i overthinking this
Yes, don’t let your insecurities eat away at you bruh. Don’t care and even if u do u better find a way not to... or else just bush the relationship if you can’t.
 

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Been getting my sh!t together lately and I think I'm finally at the point where I can look back at the sh!t my ex put me through and laugh.

I was talking about simps last time but you know what's funny? Me and my ex were arguing on Facebook one time, some dude all jumped in and said he actually called the cops :russ:
 

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Those chicks would bore me in 5 mins, no substance, nothing of interest to say outside of digging into your industry of work so they can work out how much you earn.

Seeing those birdbrains in that video souls burn slow when they realized what utter c*nts they looked like and how they dismissed those men immediately when they turned up for that dinner. Was delightful.

Our jobs are not are entire being, they earn us money of course but if a woman is overly fixated on what you do for work especially women like this who are bringing nothing but bad attitudes and not much else, bush her ass.
 

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Those chicks would bore me in 5 mins, no substance, nothing of interest to say outside of digging into your industry of work so they can work out how much you earn.

Seeing those birdbrains in that video souls burn slow when they realized what utter c*nts they looked like and how they dismissed those men immediately when they turned up for that dinner. Was delightful.

Our jobs are not are entire being, they earn us money of course but if a woman is overly fixated on what you do for work especially women like this who are bringing nothing but bad attitudes and not much else, bush her ass.

Exactly. I’ve been women who like to constantly dig and dig and dig because they don’t believe a black man could have that type of position or want to position you as a safety net guy.
 
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