Killigraphy
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You reckon it's important to have/know your girls social media accounts?
So my girl (of 8 months) earlier on in our relationship suggested that we add each other on IG but i declined because I really don't care to follow and see the mundane posts that they be posting plus i'm not big on social media like that and mainly use my account to see informative/educational posts. I also know that women purge their IG accounts when dating someone new so anything she didn't want me to see on her IG would have already been deleted.
It got me thinking tho this past week that while i don't have my girls IG account, i can't search for her on other social media platforms like FB or Twitter.. I think she's got it on hidden or something.
You reckon this is a red flag?
Being able to view a girls past posts is an indication to how she thinks right so not being able to see the transparency is not really knowing who you're dealing with.
Am i overthinking this
I've dated women and not given a fukk about it, you're only gonna get yourself mad or start some drama over the thirsty dudes on her page. Its all about vanity for women. Its also the age we live in. Everyone is supposed* to have social media. The only red flag I see (beyond the general vanity and oversharing of women) is if she tries to hide you from any of them. Obviously she has something to hide, but at the same time, you knew that coming in. I say to both parties, "don't dig", as if your brain is already in that negative thought process, you're gonna find something. Just stick to FB and Texting, fukk everything else.