Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Gotta stay busy and give women space. Went out with this sexy ass girl on Wednesday. We hit it off and kissed after date. She is going out of town to see family this weekend. Just texted her once the next night after date. Not gonna hit her up again till Sunday night to plan for Tuesday night.


you gotta text a little but if you acting like a pen pal you gonna either text your way out of some p*ssy or text your way out of some p*ssy. Just keep it light and short and save it for the date.

Plus bytches text about useless dumb shyt anyway. Nothing of value will come from a lot of texting.
 

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Life is good brehs :blessed:

she asked me yesterday to come over and spend the night so I was like sure

Came over to my fav pizza, my fav snack, and binged top boy with me even though it’s not her type of show.

woke up to my fav breakfast

I’m looking for TradePascalSiakam’s Prayer :blessed::banderas:

but that’s wassup man. Glad things are looking smooth so far.
 

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Modern dating is so draining. I joined a dating app last Sunday and im finna delete tomorrow.

Women will waste your time, ghost you out the blue, be flaky, etc. This shyt is really just a numbers game. You can talk to 100 hundred women and you'll be lucky if 20 of them wind up being worth your time. I don't have the time or the desire to keep doing this in the hopes that I can find one decent shorty. It sucks and shyt like this is why I'm over the dating game completely :unimpressed:
 
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Modern dating is so draining. I joined a dating app last Sunday and im finna delete tomorrow.

Women will waste your time, ghost you out the blue, be flaky, etc. This shyt is really just a numbers game. You can talk to 100 hundred women and you'll be lucky if 20 of them wind up being worth your time. It sucks and shyt like this is why I'm over the dating game completely :unimpressed:
that’s all it is, and if you don’t feel bother to play the game at the moment.. by all means dip brother :salute:I rather you spark IRL relations than be in here complaining and draining your energy because of a few swipes.
 

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Is it me? Or does black women disrespecting you hit harder than any other group of women? Like I can easily brush off any other group, but with BW it stings a bit more, if that makes any sense.
 

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Is it me? Or does black women disrespecting you hit harder than any other group of women? Like I can easily brush off any other group, but with BW it stings a bit more, if that makes any sense.
It does. Ideally, we’re SUPPOSE to understand each other’s traumas, problems, insecurities, and hurdles. Other races don’t grasp what we go through, but for our counterparts to know and STILL disrespect us
 

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Modern dating is so draining. I joined a dating app last Sunday and im finna delete tomorrow.

Women will waste your time, ghost you out the blue, be flaky, etc. This shyt is really just a numbers game. You can talk to 100 hundred women and you'll be lucky if 20 of them wind up being worth your time. It sucks and shyt like this is why I'm over the dating game completely :unimpressed:


Yeah it does suck
 

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Modern dating is so draining. I joined a dating app last Sunday and im finna delete tomorrow.

Women will waste your time, ghost you out the blue, be flaky, etc. This shyt is really just a numbers game. You can talk to 100 hundred women and you'll be lucky if 20 of them wind up being worth your time. I don't have the time or the desire to keep doing this in the hopes that I can find one decent shorty. It sucks and shyt like this is why I'm over the dating game completely :unimpressed:
This is why I just approach in person.

my success rate in person way better than online. But you gotta give chicks the benefit of the doubt… we take this shyt personal but there are 10000 dudes in her inbox and she doesn’t know you at all. Of course she might stop responding to you


You would do the same if guys had the same amount of options


I know for most Coli dudes tho since y’all old you guys don’t like outside and interaction so idk what to tell you fellas
 

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This is why I just approach in person.

my success rate in person way better than online. But you gotta give chicks the benefit of the doubt… we take this shyt personal but there are 10000 dudes in her inbox and she doesn’t know you at all. Of course she might stop responding to you


You would do the same if guys had the same amount of options


I know for most Coli dudes tho since y’all old you guys don’t like outside and interaction so idk what to tell you fellas

I'm not old breh I'm 27 :whoa:

What I'm complaining about is the stuff that happens once you've gotten the number. I know chicks inboxes be flooded
 

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I'm not old breh I'm 27 :whoa:

What I'm complaining about is the stuff that happens once you've gotten the number. I know chicks inboxes be flooded
My fault lol.


Like I said physical presence is important.

put the effort in and be a upstanding dude.

the L is highly possible but if you’re all that girls only playing themselves


What we gotta work on is ego and our emotion because this shyt be draining :mjcry:



I’ve been talking to a chick for months and if she goes cold on me that shyt will hurt not gonna lie

can’t say I’m not doing my best tho :yeshrug:
 

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When your girl still treats you like gold emotionally but the freakiness, long blowjobs etc. are starting to wane :rudy:

communicate with her see why it’s stopped breh
I always communicate cuz if that shyt stops first thing I’m thinking she belongs to the streets gotta know why it’s stopped
I mean if it slows down that’s normal cuz it can pick back up also the flows of a relationship
Luckily I don’t have that issue with mines she way too freaky and horny
 

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So last Sunday I had brunch with one of the ladies I’m talking to and she pays for the brunch and she surprises me with a transformer (yea I’m a huge transformers fan, collect the toys and all that. I don’t hide my hobby) cuz she knew I was having a tough week. I was shocked. I like this one.

:wow::mjcry: I’m jelly, don’t fukk it up
 

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Life is good brehs :blessed:

she asked me yesterday to come over and spend the night so I was like sure

Came over to my fav pizza, my fav snack, and binged top boy with me even though it’s not her type of show.

woke up to my fav breakfast
She’s moving like somebody who is trying to get married

Will you be ready for that?
 
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