Tell him to get a job before he worries about a woman.
Nikka can't even feed himself and he's looking for women
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Tell him to get a job before he worries about a woman.
Nikka can't even feed himself and he's looking for women
Yup.
Brehs don’t understand that broke energy can rub off on you. Gotta surround yourself with guys who are doing cool shyt, making things happen and challenge you.
Brandsdale
Big Yella
tbh its kinda personal but what i can say is a lot of healing needs to be done
Brandsdale
Big Yella
yeah man i try to give as much space i can for dude to vent. Dude used to watch fresh n fit and I had to come for him once for continuing to watch that shyt
and nah to clarify, he aint alking to any bytches nor is it a priority lol that I can at least vouch
but i hear you, not much i can do but figured id give an extra push
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
Great point.
Would like to add, surround yourself with variety. You shouldn’t be the worst or best in your group for EVERYTHING. We should all strive for a like-minded circle that shares their weaknesses and strengths collectively.
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
If he’s been through sexual trauma or childhood abuse, that needs to be a priority. We like to analyze and observe women who are damaged, yet ignore the men who are in the same boat. Them being hypersexual is seen as a positive (player, womanizer, gets all the hoes) when it’s really a man who’s never had autonomy of his sexual desires and exercises them recklessly.. which leads to the passing of STDs, unwanted pregnancies, and overall for the man’s sake.. depression. IF this is him, he shouldn’t pursue women atm.tbh its kinda personal but what i can say is a lot of healing needs to be done
If he’s been ether’d by a woman, tell em we all go through it. Most likely, everyone in this thread has had a nuke dropped on their heart. That should not deter him from women.
If it’s petty shyt like he’s been curved multiple times or not getting looks, he needs to know it’s a numbers game out here.. and the numbers increase every second.
he has a whole cousin he can debate and kick it with yet wants to get advice from strangers who may or may not be living they life they talk about.yeah man i try to give as much space i can for dude to vent. Dude used to watch fresh n fit and I had to come for him once for continuing to watch that shyt
and nah to clarify, he aint alking to any bytches nor is it a priority lol that I can at least vouch
but i hear you, not much i can do but figured id give an extra push
Unless his behavior leads to women being harmed or very uncomfortable, let him rock if he won’t listen.
some of us are hunters, others are berry pickers, and most watch both eat their meals.
Brandsdale
Big Yella
Yeah man numbers is a huge point cause I had to drill my mind the same thing, it’s the same reason why I continuously delete dating apps and trying to be off them period
thanks for the insight cause I always feel like family you gotta push harder but in this case i unfortunately gotta deal him the same way I deal with nikkas.
I alone gotta tell myself sometimes to be more open and talk to more shorties and not be as much scared so to carry someone else’s weight is not something I’m tryna do
Brandsdale
Big Yella
Yeah man. When I was broke as hell I didn’t wanna be around my friends with jobs and girlfriends. I’ve been working salary since 2019 and now I DONT wanna be around broke nikkas at all
Killigraphy
Banned
Let me break it down for you the only way it truly works.
Get a job at a local lounge and or bar, as a doorman, bouncer, bartender and or DJ, if you want easy ass. Birds will act like well cultured, well mannered ho's just to get something. I've gotten offered blowjobs, flash their t*ts, etc, just to get a free drink, a choice song and or allowed into the club. If you aren't as lucky or skilled...your best bet is to befriend the bartenders and or club owner. They usually pull some of the local birds and invite them to spots after. Which means easy lays for you. If you still can't pull that off, certain cold approach works, just don't use the usual "can I buy you a drink" tactic, it almost never works, and they'll walk away after they grab a free drink, I've seen it way too many times, and plenty of simps are left holding their dikks in shame.
What always worked for me, is using their vanity against them. Pretend to be a photog, can't tell you how these birds light up the minute you mention photography. I talked about it before on here as well, set up a fake social, say you're just starting, scouting new talent, and boom. You'll at least get further than a dude trying to dance or buy his way into her group with drinks.
Killigraphy
Banned
He first needs to address all the major issues. The first step is always the hardest, due to ego/denial. Once he's established that these are very real problems holding him back in any particular field, he has to work on eradicating them slowly but surely. Its not an overnight procedure, but he in turn creates the goals, discipline and activities required to get out of the slump. If he doesn't work out, go to the gym/walk, if he has bad social skills, turn that walk into going to public places and talking to people of all sorts. From your local store cashier, to the fukking mailman, communication and conversation at any time and of all sorts, is valuable to growth. And if he's not assertive enough, its best he hangs out around men who are natural leaders, whom can boost his moral and give him some examples of assertive behavior that is rewarding.
Him being a "nice" guy can be an aspect that's holding him back. Or could just be lack of backbone to begin with. He needs to create a mantra, something along the lines of say and do what you want, no one is watching and nobody cares. You can get away with a lot if you're charming and somewhat clever. With women, depending on his interactions, he has to be aloof and ultimately treat them like children. Stop pedestalizing them, and you'll see how easy it is to break their frame and have them jumping for your hoops. But first, structure, and growth, from within.
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Brandsdale
Big Yella
They work.
Im on top of a boat in Greece.
Women will complain “blah blah don’t do that! Instant swipe left” but then do the opposite
I think you gott lucky cause you on a boat
but regardless, used in a smart way, them shirtless pics work cause dudes I know do that shyt (one of my other richer cousins does) and they EAT lol
women be complaining but end up fukkin the dude they complaining about
nikka really told him to get a job in these places
Man just wants some easy drunk p*ssy and you telling him to become a bouncer or DJ
As long as OP is relatively attractive it should be like shooting fish in a barrel. Guards are down when people are drunk and they're more relaxed and laid back. It's much easier to cold approach a chick in these places than somewhere like the gym or in the street. Number 1 rule as always is just don't be ugly and you will do well
Just don’t be ugly….nikka really told him to get a job in these places
Man just wants some easy drunk p*ssy and you telling him to become a bouncer or DJ
As long as OP is relatively attractive it should be like shooting fish in a barrel. Guards are down when people are drunk and they're more relaxed and laid back. It's much easier to cold approach a chick in these places than somewhere like the gym or in the street. Number 1 rule as always is just don't be ugly and you will do well
street/gym way easier than clubsnikka really told him to get a job in these places
Man just wants some easy drunk p*ssy and you telling him to become a bouncer or DJ
As long as OP is relatively attractive it should be like shooting fish in a barrel. Guards are down when people are drunk and they're more relaxed and laid back. It's much easier to cold approach a chick in these places than somewhere like the gym or in the street. Number 1 rule as always is just don't be ugly and you will do well