Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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How you feeling now that it’s done?

Angry since I wasted a year and a half of my life. I could've been much more productive instead of spending time on someone who didn't value me or love me back. When I think back, I realized she offered nothing besides her looks and sex. I dated down. I'll never date down again.
 

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To the married breh. I'd say just fall back. Let your wife see you doing some man shyt, yard work, working out, handling business etc. And don't let what she says affect your mood. If she's not in the mood say ok kiss her on the cheek then do you:yeshrug:. It's honestly all I got. But if she trips too much it's only been 8 months get out and get out fast. But don't make any hasty decisions. Like @twan83 said. She might be going through something physical, puss pH is out of wack, yeast etc. Or emotional.
 

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I’m getting more cold hearted but text game is trash, help me. I need bytches to be my only vice.
 

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Angry since I wasted a year and a half of my life. I could've been much more productive instead of spending time on someone who didn't value me or love me back. When I think back, I realized she offered nothing besides her looks and sex. I dated down. I'll never date down again.
she just text n ask if im breaking up w her :mjcry:
 

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A square? Not so much, however I’m definitely simping. Big issues looking back were not setting boundaries, or setting them, then allowing them to be breached. Thing is, I wasn’t even looking for anyone fr, she came to me and we REALLY hit it off. It’s been over 2yrs now.

thru that time, i noticed myself devolve/ weaken in a way. idk how to describe it, but it’s like there are so many things i wouldn’t put up w that i do w her. issues that should be talked about i decide against as i feel id be wasting my breath/ repeating myself. been put in a lot of uncomfortable spots due to her too, currently in one now. A lot of my frustration comes from her not listening/ doing what I say and also placing unnecessary burdens on me…it’s like my cup can never be full

as i consider and ultimately decide on breaking up w her, the biggest things on my mind are being lonely and finding someone else. I’m in scarcity right now in honestly

Its a common problem with men who compromise, you simp out of genuine feelings of passion, like/love, comfort, etc. Which again, can be a beautiful thing, there's peace in contextual compromise, but she is/was a user, and perhaps you enabled that because it was the easier thing to do, your fondness of her, made you forget that she's like the rest of them. Capricious children looking less for guidance and more for an enabler.

A square to me, is someone who's normal, they aren't rebels or assertive, they go with the flow. Of course this trickles down to work, social interactions etc. It has nothing do with being a thug or what have you. A lot of men just go with the flow, and settle for less and disrespect, these are the squares and simps of the world, the latter offering too much of themselves for no payback and the former at least having some respect for both their well being and everything else. It sounds like you were both to her, someone she could use, ignore and even put in horrible situations because you'd take it. If she's constantly breaking rules and has no respect for you as a man, and even more importantly, human being...you've stepped into worse waters than titles of simp/square, you've become nothing to her.
 

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If she has no body pics, is it safe to assume her body is trash?

:mjlol:

Definitely and easily. Don't let their false modesty fool you, even butterfaces, show off their bodies. Vanity is the sin of all women, that's all they can offer, and they know it. So if she's not showing you body pics, best move on, unless you like fatties of course, which deep down inside....you don't.
 

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Damn…. I told her she was beautiful because she is while we were laying in the bed. She started crying and she told me that I make her feel so good and loved… Is she gaming me?:jbhmm:
That was quick… So she put me on the phone with her mom to speak because she told me that her mom always tell her to say she said hi. She even asked when we were going up to Michigan so that I could meet her family etc. So she spent the night most of the week but she was acting funny. Extra clingy and wanting to cuddle but no sex, that threw me off. Said invited me to dinner last night and told me she didn’t like where things were going because we were moving fast.

Im thinking, “I got a girl ole dumb head ass hoe.” I just smiled and told her that all she had to do was be honest and tell me her ex came back. I asked for a to go box and dipped out.
 

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Now im wondering if i really need shirtless pics :why:

This battle of vanity <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
 
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