Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Never ever give a woman closure/satisfaction when things are ending/ended and never seek it out for yourself.

That means:
- don’t ask why
- don’t get emotional or into an argument even if you feel like you need to defend yourself against some BS and/or call her out for things
- definitely do not try to resolve things.

If she ends things by texts, either ignore it, like (for iphone users i mean the reaction) the message or say ok/cool.

If she calls, let her say what she wants to say...but don’t emotionally move. Remain unphased and quiet and when you speak, simply say cool and wish her well. End the call.

On the off chance she pulls back and you pull back and ya’ll just never speak again, then cool. But if ya’ll had some history, it most likely won’t end this way.

Either way, all of this will bother them eternally.

If however, you do the opposite of any of the above mentioned then not only will she lose all attraction and respect for you, but she will realize she was correct in the decision she made and move on with her life peacefully.
To be honest i sometimes grovel and all that so that a woman can think she was justified in how she’s ending tings or the bullshyt she did and not learn from her mistakes. Also so she can think she’s above me and use me as the new standard (because objectively I’ma hard act to follow). I’m firmly off the with me or against me mindset. If a girl breaks up with me, more often than not i want her to take an L

it’s certain women who you’ll be in a relationship with, teaching them a lot of shyt they they can just use on the next man (how to communicate, how to be contrite, how to treat a man in general, what men don’t like as far as trust issues, baggage etc, how to plan dates, how to buy gifts) but back fukk that. I’m not sure of the Jedi mine trick works but i hope so
 

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To be honest i sometimes grovel and all that so that a woman can think she was justified in how she’s ending tings or the bullshyt she did and not learn from her mistakes. Also so she can think she’s above me and use me as the new standard (because objectively I’ma hard act to follow). I’m firmly off the with me or against me mindset. If a girl breaks up with me, more often than not i want her to take an L

it’s certain women who you’ll be in a relationship with, teaching them a lot of shyt they they can just use on the next man (how to communicate, how to be contrite, how to treat a man in general, what men don’t like as far as trust issues, baggage etc, how to plan dates, how to buy gifts) but back fukk that. I’m not sure of the Jedi mine trick works but i hope so
People have free will and they want what they want.

It’s no different than a married cat who has the perfect wife at home but they still cheat on her just because….

People can be scumbags.

I don’t hope they take an L, I just hope they learn and raise their standards.

Like if you go from me to bum, you clearly ain’t doing it right. If you go from me to a baller then I’m like :hubie:.
 

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People have free will and they want what they want.

It’s no different than a married cat who has the perfect wife at home but they still cheat on her just because….

People can be scumbags.

I don’t hope they take an L, I just hope they learn and raise their standards.

Like if you go from me to bum, you clearly ain’t doing it right. If you go from me to a baller then I’m like :hubie:.

I honestly couldn't care less what a woman does after me.
I hope I never hear from them again I'm just trying to keep it pushing ASAP.

If I'm being honest I actually wish them the best just not in my eyesight :yeshrug:
 

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To be honest i sometimes grovel and all that so that a woman can think she was justified in how she’s ending tings or the bullshyt she did and not learn from her mistakes. Also so she can think she’s above me and use me as the new standard (because objectively I’ma hard act to follow). I’m firmly off the with me or against me mindset. If a girl breaks up with me, more often than not i want her to take an L

it’s certain women who you’ll be in a relationship with, teaching them a lot of shyt they they can just use on the next man (how to communicate, how to be contrite, how to treat a man in general, what men don’t like as far as trust issues, baggage etc, how to plan dates, how to buy gifts) but back fukk that. I’m not sure of the Jedi mine trick works but i hope so

Its pretty simple with me, you're either on my time, or you're a loser, so I hope she gets nothing but L's, she's a woman, she needs to grovel to you...especially if you put her on game. Essentially, Patrice said the same thing. Women are losers by design, the blueprint to how they live and do anything, is best defined as lame. They aren't funny, can't flirt, bad with money, poor judges of character, and devalue and misuse an asset that has; won wars, made men give up millions, etc. Even worse if she's pretty....if you fumble the bag with a vagina and good looks, may you never feel the sweet taste of success in your life.
 

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If you are American or English you can definitely eat over here italy it will give you cool points. I had my first proper night out here yesterday with some locals and the chicks were nice only problem is that they were a bit too young for me gift and curse of being late 20s :francis:
 

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If you are American or English you can definitely eat over here italy it will give you cool points. I had my first proper night out here yesterday with some locals and the chicks were nice only problem is that they were a bit too young for me gift and curse of being late 20s :francis:
How young :merchant:
 

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you're a kid still if you even think kicking it with legal aged women is an issue lol
:mjlol:
Before hashtag me too yes ever since hell no that’s how you end up catching a case or getting cancelled. Hashtag me too has completa changed the game
 

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@Pyrexcup how old are you bruh? If you in your early 20s I sorta know what you mean.

I remember when I was in HS, I’d see some of my classmates on Tinder and I was :sitdown::merchant: To whoever matched with them. As an adult, I just know what cues to look for and to drop anybody who gives me an off vibe.
 

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@Pyrexcup how old are you bruh? If you in your early 20s I sorta know what you mean.

I remember when I was in HS, I’d see some of my classmates on Tinder and I was :sitdown::merchant: To whoever matched with them. As an adult, I just know what cues to look for and to drop anybody who gives me an off vibe.

how hard is it to ask to see id if you shook
 
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