To be honest i sometimes grovel and all that so that a woman can think she was justified in how she’s ending tings or the bullshyt she did and not learn from her mistakes. Also so she can think she’s above me and use me as the new standard (because objectively I’ma hard act to follow). I’m firmly off the with me or against me mindset. If a girl breaks up with me, more often than not i want her to take an LNever ever give a woman closure/satisfaction when things are ending/ended and never seek it out for yourself.
That means:
- don’t ask why
- don’t get emotional or into an argument even if you feel like you need to defend yourself against some BS and/or call her out for things
- definitely do not try to resolve things.
If she ends things by texts, either ignore it, like (for iphone users i mean the reaction) the message or say ok/cool.
If she calls, let her say what she wants to say...but don’t emotionally move. Remain unphased and quiet and when you speak, simply say cool and wish her well. End the call.
On the off chance she pulls back and you pull back and ya’ll just never speak again, then cool. But if ya’ll had some history, it most likely won’t end this way.
Either way, all of this will bother them eternally.
If however, you do the opposite of any of the above mentioned then not only will she lose all attraction and respect for you, but she will realize she was correct in the decision she made and move on with her life peacefully.
it’s certain women who you’ll be in a relationship with, teaching them a lot of shyt they they can just use on the next man (how to communicate, how to be contrite, how to treat a man in general, what men don’t like as far as trust issues, baggage etc, how to plan dates, how to buy gifts) but back fukk that. I’m not sure of the Jedi mine trick works but i hope so