Its hard out for a simp
Its good to see that you're honest with yourself, identifying the problem is the first step, but no one on here (me included), is gonna change who you are. We can only give you advice on how to adapt. I don't want see/hear men losing, but statistically they have to exist. Now you can make a very active decision to work through it with the advice given or struggle and bemoan the current climate of women and men. More importantly, I always tell men to focus on themselves, stop mystifying women, they aren't chess, they're checkers. Think about it this way, you're losing a game to a creature who uses emotion and sex against you....that should already tell you that we're better. We acquire knowledge and skill, they chase for validation. I've never met a bird that's stronger than me, in any category. Its not even about knowing your worth, its about knowing how worthless they set themselves to be.
A peasant could never tell me how to keep money, but we can have a conversation on attaining it. Women chase the concept, men accomplish their dreams, or at least should aim around the target. Essentially, all they have is their sexual value, you as a man, have everything else. I'm not saying turn into a pimp tomorrow, but know that your value is ten times that of any woman you'll come across.