Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Take a break. You need to recharge, refuel with Rom Wills and Dr. BoA YouTube videos breh
I don't know anything about those people but I will check them I guess. I'm not actually simping anyone right now, it just feels like monogamous relationships are dead but at the same time I'm not into hook up culture either so I'm just drifting. Probably just focus on other shyt for the time being
 

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I don't know anything about those people but I will check them I guess. I'm not actually simping anyone right now, it just feels like monogamous relationships are dead but at the same time I'm not into hook up culture either so I'm just drifting. Probably just focus on other shyt for the time being
That’s pretty much me I just hop on tinder for some weeks, delete it and stay away for months. Yeah everybody fukking and cheating even if they dating. When I worked retail I had young hoes with boyfriends trying to fukk. shyt is lame.
 

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Its hard out for a simp:francis:


Its good to see that you're honest with yourself, identifying the problem is the first step, but no one on here (me included), is gonna change who you are. We can only give you advice on how to adapt. I don't want see/hear men losing, but statistically they have to exist. Now you can make a very active decision to work through it with the advice given or struggle and bemoan the current climate of women and men. More importantly, I always tell men to focus on themselves, stop mystifying women, they aren't chess, they're checkers. Think about it this way, you're losing a game to a creature who uses emotion and sex against you....that should already tell you that we're better. We acquire knowledge and skill, they chase for validation. I've never met a bird that's stronger than me, in any category. Its not even about knowing your worth, its about knowing how worthless they set themselves to be.

A peasant could never tell me how to keep money, but we can have a conversation on attaining it. Women chase the concept, men accomplish their dreams, or at least should aim around the target. Essentially, all they have is their sexual value, you as a man, have everything else. I'm not saying turn into a pimp tomorrow, but know that your value is ten times that of any woman you'll come across.
 

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I jumped back into the app game and honestly, it's a lot of juggling. I find this shyt really tiresome and would much rather bag something at the club, but we're on lockdown. I can't be texting these chicks back and forth and weeding out the flakes. shyt's too much and I can't bring myself to do it for these chicks I haven't seen in person like that.

What's yalls system to minimize the back and forth while setting up the meet? I'm gonna try warming up convos on Tuesdays and asking for the meet that weekend.

Once I match, within 4-5 messages I'm going for the number. I usually tell em I'm not as active on the app so it's better to chat offline. Once I get the number I'll usually set up a 15-20 mins call/FT. Pop in the headphones, let em talk while I do chores, make dinner etc. Just throw in a few questions and comments to seem like I'm paying attention.

After that, I set up a date. My last couple scenarios have been something like this: Match on a Monday, Talk on a Tuesday, set up a date on Wednesday for the weekend, meet up on the weekend...No Craig David lol.

I had one chick who said she'd rather communicate/talk more on the app to get to know me more before giving out her number. I was like no m'am.
 
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Once I match, within 4-5 messages I'm going for the number. I usually tell em I'm not as active on the app so it's better to chat offline. Once I get the number I'll usually set up a 15-20 mins call/FT. Pop in the headphones, let em talk while I do chores, make dinner etc. Just throw in a few questions and comments to seem like I'm paying attention.

After that, I set up a date. My last couple scenarios have been something like this: Match on a Monday, Talk on a Tuesday, set up a date on Wednesday for the weekend, meet up on the weekend...No Craig David lol.

I had one chick who said she'd rather communicate talk more on the app to get to know me more before giving out her number. I was like no m'am.



"We we're making love by Wednesday"~~~

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Once I match, within 4-5 messages I'm going for the number. I usually tell em I'm not as active on the app so it's better to chat offline. Once I get the number I'll usually set up a 15-20 mins call/FT. Pop in the headphones, let em talk while I do chores, make dinner etc. Just throw in a few questions and comments to seem like I'm paying attention.

After that, I set up a date. My last couple scenarios have been something like this: Match on a Monday, Talk on a Tuesday, set up a date on Wednesday for the weekend, meet up on the weekend...No Craig David lol.

I had one chick who said she'd rather communicate talk more on the app to get to know me more before giving out her number. I was like no m'am.

I might be even worse than you, lol. Any chick that needs more time or, "would rather talk on the app first" is an automatic unmatch for me.
 

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What are u talkin about breh…. idgaf about the whales you’ve been with

he is saying women are women. If you deal with so many women then the baddie/hot bytch will blend in with the above average/average chick and you will see that they all act the same. What you will be looking for a woman that will cooperate with you and make it easy for you to deal with her. That is the point.
 
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