Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RaspberryFitted]

It helps to train urself ahead of time. Every woman u see, Ask urself what it is about her u find attractive. Imagine complimenting her on it. Based on the social norms of ur area and ur personal ability to flirtatiously convey levity, u can decide what is likely to elicit a positive response from her. For instance at a supermarket, u can’t just go up to a woman and tell her she’s beautiful. Don’t ever do this. It puts her on the spot and can make them nervous. Look in her basket or cart. Joke and say “what are we having tonight”. If she’s interested she’ll give a lengthy response. If she’s not she’ll giggle, give a short response and continue walking. Remember to be calm and smile.

The supermarket example you used was spot on. Most conversations at the supermarket are either about the line being long, what sub I’m ordering, or my cart. I bought a bulk of broccoli once and this lady began asking me what other vegetables I use to cook, and I engaged back. I never looked at it as an opportunity to get a # or spit game, just a simple conversation.

that needs to change for me. I have an on & off switch for casually talking and tryna to spit game, when they should really be intergreted and used when appropriate.

Remember to be calm and smile.

It’s simple things like this that I forget sometimes. I need to be cognizant of my appearance. Smiling, having one earbud in and the other dangling, and just looking like someone you can approach or don’t mind being approached by.

The majority of people ironically, are intrinsically lonely, so they jump into "elevator conversation" anytime they get..this time, you were literally in the elevator...from there on in, anything you mention is a conversation piece; From how long she's been there to, never seeing her around, to mentioning how its your first time seeing her. If she's commenting first, she's exhibiting sub behavior, she wants you take control, trust me, she'll follow any of your leads. Don't be afraid, anxious or nervous, to bring up anything, just keep the mouth piece moving and lead.

Coming up with on the fly things to say is definitely a skillset I need to harness. Like you said about most people being lonely, it might a possibility she would want someone to compliment her bag, or her shoes, or ask her about the project she’s holding. I’ll just start letting shyt fly.

preciate y’all for the game.

 

[Killigraphy]

Coming up with on the fly things to say is definitely a skillset I need to harness. Like you said about most people being lonely, it might a possibility she would want someone to compliment her bag, or her shoes, or ask her about the project she’s holding. I’ll just start letting shyt fly.

preciate y’all for the game.

The three most common topics you can talk about endlessly; movies, pop culture and sex. Obviously keep sex last, let them generate the creepy comments, then swoop on in from there.

 

[Ahadi]

preciate that brodie. I used to be put off by those quick time events because I’d automatically think there’s no enough time, but that’s literally all I encounter while being on campus. Can’t shy away from it

you already know breh

 

[Rozay Oro]

Ayo I need game

Was in the elevator heading back to my room after class. Once it reached my floor, Shordi aimlessly bumps into me as I’m walking out and as she’s walking in. She said I like your shoes, I said I like her hoodie. Conversation over.

How do y’all deal with those quick encounters with women, or do y’all just let it blow past by?

Didn’t I get chastised by you some time ago for your game to be that weak? 5th member of Jodeci, was you their favorite busboy?

Be more sexually aggressive, nikka wanna wear a hoodie instead..

 

[Hagendas]

Back on tinder after some time away boy how did it get this bad. The entitlement, the lack of convo skills, the long replies wow back to going to bars

 

[Rich Spirit]

Y’all believe in soul mates?

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Chick with a piercing told me she a massage therapist and would I be ok with that if we got into a serious relationship. She goes to other dudes homes. Im like

 

[DJSmooth]

Y’all believe in soul mates?

No it's 3+ Billion women on the planet.

 

[The ADD]

Y’all believe in soul mates?

Naw, marriage seems like way to much work for that. Sure you might have someone that fits extremely well for you but it still be a lot of work

 

[Ahadi]

Chick with a piercing told me she a massage therapist and would I be ok with that if we got into a serious relationship. She goes to other dudes homes. Im like

 

[Guizmo]

My ex just sent me a profil of my Tinder with "hope you actually find someone who deserve u". Didn't respond yet.

 

[DapMeUp!]

My ex just sent me a profil of my Tinder with "hope you actually find someone who deserve u". Didn't respond yet.

Who broke up with who? Either way don't respond.

 

[Hagendas]

My ex just sent me a profil of my Tinder with "hope you actually find someone who deserve u". Didn't respond yet.

Yeah don’t ever respond

 

[twan83]

Y’all believe in soul mates?

nope but I believe in fukking the soul out of women especially those who talk shyt and can’t back it up

 

[Guizmo]

Who broke up with who? Either way don't respond.

She broke up with me. Then when I blocked her and moved on, she sent me mails and whatsapp messages talking about wanting to get back, she made a mistake she wants to build etc (all this in a span of one month). We talked I basically told her it was over.

Fast forward today, she sent me this.