Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Watch two weeks from now, she gon hit you with the what are we. :lolbron:

:heh: i know prob
but this is what I like, no caught in the abyss. I've been on 3 dates the past two weeks, first one chick never wore makeup or even dressed up never contacted her again never heard from her again.

Second one was a cool date chick looked amazing, we had a good time even messaged for a while after that but last time I messaged to meet up again have heard nothing - 3 days ago (deleted)

but yesterday chick is what I like you talk you meet up asap if she likes you wants to meet up asap again none of that long drawn out ish. If it ends it ends and if she's interested no stupid games
 

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why are you dealing with old chicks?
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dealing with old chicks leads to nothing but confusion because their brains are having an internal war (their bio clock vs battling their 30 yrs of conditioning to be career women vs their nature wanting them to be taken care of vs the lingering stds frying their brain )


Easier to manipulate/have sex with. Old birds might be slower, but they're usually working on their bodies and are aiming to please, since they've more than likely ruined their lives in their early 20's. Don't get me wrong, even a pretty old broad, will never be as hot as an ugly 20 year old...but I rather no drama, and no waiting for mediocre p*ssy. I like a healthy mixture of both, but older birds are done playing the games.
 

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idk if you went to college, but if you didnt find your prospective wife in Undergrad you are better off holding off until 35 or so. Undergrad is the only place to find a woman your age and also keep in mind this is for dudes who want to be partners more so than traditional provider/leaders.

After Undergrad you may have 1-2 yrs of buffer room to do some social circle dating, but once you hit 24/25 just be single until you hit your career stride.
Yeah I feel the same way. The women I was dealing with in college wasn’t exactly settle down with lol.

I’m really not worried bout the shyt, but there is this low key worry that I might not find a chick I wanna be with, and I either settle for whatever or be single and hope I can find a younger chick with no kids.
 

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Yeah I feel the same way. The women I was dealing with in college wasn’t exactly settle down with lol.

I’m really not worried bout the shyt, but there is this low key worry that I might not find a chick I wanna be with, and I either settle for whatever or be single and hope I can find a younger chick with no kids.

I wouldn't worry about finding a decent bird, there's million per location, one will be there waiting. Chasing excellence, I get every type, so much so that at a young age, I realized, I can get anything I truly want, but I rather focus on myself. I'm in NYC....there's every kind of broad....but there's only one of me. Me being awesome is not on the same tier, as p*ssy. Even if you get what you want, you'll always be better than them...as you should be of course.
 

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I wouldn't worry about finding a decent bird, there's million per location, one will be there waiting. Chasing excellence, I get every type, so much so that at a young age, I realized, I can get anything I truly want, but I rather focus on myself. I'm in NYC....there's every kind of broad....but there's only one of me. Me being awesome is not on the same tier, as p*ssy. Even if you get what you want, you'll always be better than them...as you should be of course.

Yup honestly best thing you can do is work on yourself. Good career, wardrobe, stay healthy and in shape, be humble, treating people with respect, stay out of trouble, stay away from low hanging fruit, be wise and view yourself higher than any chick you win. You win because you are the best version of yourself and you did it for yourself and women want the best, and you also win because you're not afraid to walk away.

I started my new job like 4 weeks ago, once women see what I look like, that I have no kids, no ex drama and hear what I do for a living right away it's like stealing candy from a baby.

I've come along way even a few years ago I still thought I had to prove something to these chicks, or hoping they'd choose me or some lame azz ish like that :mjtf:. I've cut off numerous chicks this year already once things pop up that I don't like. - Yes I know relationships take a lot of work and some compromise but chick we ain't in one :yeshrug:.
 

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Easier to manipulate/have sex with. Old birds might be slower, but they're usually working on their bodies and are aiming to please, since they've more than likely ruined their lives in their early 20's. Don't get me wrong, even a pretty old broad, will never be as hot as an ugly 20 year old...but I rather no drama, and no waiting for mediocre p*ssy. I like a healthy mixture of both, but older birds are done playing the games.
I rather trick than waste my time with an old hag lol.
 

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Yeah I feel the same way. The women I was dealing with in college wasn’t exactly settle down with lol.

I’m really not worried bout the shyt, but there is this low key worry that I might not find a chick I wanna be with, and I either settle for whatever or be single and hope I can find a younger chick with no kids.

breh you been conditioned to view marriage like a woman lol. There is no 'one', as long as you do what you are supposed to do there is nothing to worry about.
 

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I rather trick than waste my time with an old hag lol.

Its not wasting time if you're getting gifts and money. It all depends on what you're looking for. I want to get spoiled for my time and energy. Young girls aren't gonna have a career statistically speaking. I'll fukk a dopey young broad, but the older bird gets more of my time because she's investing. Easier to please as well. I'm not spending anything on some 20 year old.
 

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Its not wasting time if you're getting gifts and money. It all depends on what you're looking for. I want to get spoiled for my time and energy. Young girls aren't gonna have a career statistically speaking. I'll fukk a dopey young broad, but the older bird gets more of my time because she's investing. Easier to please as well. I'm not spending anything on some 20 year old.

we not the same breh, lol lets just end this respectfully.
 
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