Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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5 months in. Happy with this chick. My birthday was Sunday and she bought me tickets for the Bengals season closer in Cleveland. Visitor side, like row 5 at like the 40 yard line. Goddamn. And an Airbnb for that weekend.

So I was overwhelmed by the gift. I honestly love this girl and feel closer to her than I have any woman I’ve dated previously, even and especially the ones I’ve dated much longer than this. But she spent like 800 on me for my birthday gift. She’s a pharmacist and makes a lot more than I do as an apprentice electrician. Like 2.5x as much. She just graduated this spring and it’s her first real job. She’s not dumb with her money, I feel. I just feel kinda inadequate tbh. Her birthday is late this month and I can’t afford anything close to that. Maybe 400 combined gifts and dinner. Then Christmas around the corner.

I dunno what I’m even asking here. Do I attempt to get her to spend less on me in the future? I know what she would say. She would say that she doesn’t care about how much I spend for her and that being by her side is all she needs. Which is cute and nice but also not realistic long term. But maybe I’m looking too much into the cost of things? When I opened the gift containing the tickets she said she remembered I said I never been to Cleveland and I have never gone to an away Bengals game. Her generosity is just not something I’m used to I guess.
 

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5 months in. Happy with this chick. My birthday was Sunday and she bought me tickets for the Bengals season closer in Cleveland. Visitor side, like row 5 at like the 40 yard line. Goddamn. And an Airbnb for that weekend.

So I was overwhelmed by the gift. I honestly love this girl and feel closer to her than I have any woman I’ve dated previously, even and especially the ones I’ve dated much longer than this. But she spent like 800 on me for my birthday gift. She’s a pharmacist and makes a lot more than I do as an apprentice electrician. Like 2.5x as much. She just graduated this spring and it’s her first real job. She’s not dumb with her money, I feel. I just feel kinda inadequate tbh. Her birthday is late this month and I can’t afford anything close to that. Maybe 400 combined gifts and dinner. Then Christmas around the corner.

I dunno what I’m even asking here. Do I attempt to get her to spend less on me in the future? I know what she would say. She would say that she doesn’t care about how much I spend for her and that being by her side is all she needs. Which is cute and nice but also not realistic long term. But maybe I’m looking too much into the cost of things? When I opened the gift containing the tickets she said she remembered I said I never been to Cleveland and I have never gone to an away Bengals game. Her generosity is just not something I’m used to I guess.


Enjoy breh!

Honestly if a woman spends that much on you she must really love you. Even the gift it was something you really wanted. Think of what is something she has mentioned that she wants many times it’s not even something expensive .
 

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5 months in. Happy with this chick. My birthday was Sunday and she bought me tickets for the Bengals season closer in Cleveland. Visitor side, like row 5 at like the 40 yard line. Goddamn. And an Airbnb for that weekend.

So I was overwhelmed by the gift. I honestly love this girl and feel closer to her than I have any woman I’ve dated previously, even and especially the ones I’ve dated much longer than this. But she spent like 800 on me for my birthday gift. She’s a pharmacist and makes a lot more than I do as an apprentice electrician. Like 2.5x as much. She just graduated this spring and it’s her first real job. She’s not dumb with her money, I feel. I just feel kinda inadequate tbh. Her birthday is late this month and I can’t afford anything close to that. Maybe 400 combined gifts and dinner. Then Christmas around the corner.

I dunno what I’m even asking here. Do I attempt to get her to spend less on me in the future? I know what she would say. She would say that she doesn’t care about how much I spend for her and that being by her side is all she needs. Which is cute and nice but also not realistic long term. But maybe I’m looking too much into the cost of things? When I opened the gift containing the tickets she said she remembered I said I never been to Cleveland and I have never gone to an away Bengals game. Her generosity is just not something I’m used to I guess.
Don’t sweat it, it’s not about money. She was thoughtful try to do the same about things she mentioned in passing.
 
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Leave any woman alone that keeps posting screenshots of "thirsty" men on his socials. Like, bytch STFU. Nobody wants your lame ass. Even the nikka that's hitting that damn sure don't really want serious attachments to that anyways. :mjlol:

Look, sexual harassment is real, but posting thirsty nikkaz doesn't truly validate these hoes as much as they think it does. Just makes them look like goofy bytches with nothing better to talk about on social media.:mjgrin:
 

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5 months in. Happy with this chick. My birthday was Sunday and she bought me tickets for the Bengals season closer in Cleveland. Visitor side, like row 5 at like the 40 yard line. Goddamn. And an Airbnb for that weekend.

So I was overwhelmed by the gift. I honestly love this girl and feel closer to her than I have any woman I’ve dated previously, even and especially the ones I’ve dated much longer than this. But she spent like 800 on me for my birthday gift. She’s a pharmacist and makes a lot more than I do as an apprentice electrician. Like 2.5x as much. She just graduated this spring and it’s her first real job. She’s not dumb with her money, I feel. I just feel kinda inadequate tbh. Her birthday is late this month and I can’t afford anything close to that. Maybe 400 combined gifts and dinner. Then Christmas around the corner.

I dunno what I’m even asking here. Do I attempt to get her to spend less on me in the future? I know what she would say. She would say that she doesn’t care about how much I spend for her and that being by her side is all she needs. Which is cute and nice but also not realistic long term. But maybe I’m looking too much into the cost of things? When I opened the gift containing the tickets she said she remembered I said I never been to Cleveland and I have never gone to an away Bengals game. Her generosity is just not something I’m used to I guess.

What @Soundbwoy and @TradePascalSiakam said is legit. I'd also add, at this point in your life (from your post you sound like you're between 21-25 y/o) you should not be apologizing for your grind which will later influence your come up. An apprentice is a person in a trade who learns from am expert. Continue to learn and you will have your own biz one day. That will bring you the bread you want.

Also, on another note, sounds like you both like each other enough to explore building a relationship. If that is true, your current assets shouldn't matter because she is building too. Yall could have something great if you give each other the space, encouragement, love, and time to develop into your future selves. Voltron couldn't form alone. Power up and be great.
 

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5 months in. Happy with this chick. My birthday was Sunday and she bought me tickets for the Bengals season closer in Cleveland. Visitor side, like row 5 at like the 40 yard line. Goddamn. And an Airbnb for that weekend.

So I was overwhelmed by the gift. I honestly love this girl and feel closer to her than I have any woman I’ve dated previously, even and especially the ones I’ve dated much longer than this. But she spent like 800 on me for my birthday gift. She’s a pharmacist and makes a lot more than I do as an apprentice electrician. Like 2.5x as much. She just graduated this spring and it’s her first real job. She’s not dumb with her money, I feel. I just feel kinda inadequate tbh. Her birthday is late this month and I can’t afford anything close to that. Maybe 400 combined gifts and dinner. Then Christmas around the corner.

I dunno what I’m even asking here. Do I attempt to get her to spend less on me in the future? I know what she would say. She would say that she doesn’t care about how much I spend for her and that being by her side is all she needs. Which is cute and nice but also not realistic long term. But maybe I’m looking too much into the cost of things? When I opened the gift containing the tickets she said she remembered I said I never been to Cleveland and I have never gone to an away Bengals game. Her generosity is just not something I’m used to I guess.

Ride the wave:wow:
 

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You have to go into interactions with women with the understanding that they will take from you. Women are naturally negative. Men are naturally positive. Negative takes away from positive. Just like how heat goes from hot to cold and pressure goes from high to low, spiritual energy goes from masculine to feminine or from man to woman. During copulation the man gives the seed and the woman takes the seed. Even the smallest of interactions with the opposite sex involve energy transfer from masculine to feminine. This is why discipline is necessary and why you shouldn't thirst on social media because you are unknowingly initiating energy transfer.
 

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5 months in. Happy with this chick. My birthday was Sunday and she bought me tickets for the Bengals season closer in Cleveland. Visitor side, like row 5 at like the 40 yard line. Goddamn. And an Airbnb for that weekend.

So I was overwhelmed by the gift. I honestly love this girl and feel closer to her than I have any woman I’ve dated previously, even and especially the ones I’ve dated much longer than this. But she spent like 800 on me for my birthday gift. She’s a pharmacist and makes a lot more than I do as an apprentice electrician. Like 2.5x as much. She just graduated this spring and it’s her first real job. She’s not dumb with her money, I feel. I just feel kinda inadequate tbh. Her birthday is late this month and I can’t afford anything close to that. Maybe 400 combined gifts and dinner. Then Christmas around the corner.

I dunno what I’m even asking here. Do I attempt to get her to spend less on me in the future? I know what she would say. She would say that she doesn’t care about how much I spend for her and that being by her side is all she needs. Which is cute and nice but also not realistic long term. But maybe I’m looking too much into the cost of things? When I opened the gift containing the tickets she said she remembered I said I never been to Cleveland and I have never gone to an away Bengals game. Her generosity is just not something I’m used to I guess.

enjoy the moment and just be a man breh. Over thinking leads to self sabotaging.
 

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Tips on how to avoid a false rape/sexual assault accusation?

That’s one of my bigger fears when it comes to getting back into the dating and cold approach game

Few years ago…i went to kick it with some super liberal bisexual college broad….at her place…we started making out….N it got to the point where its time to head to the bedroom…and this broad goes

“i guess this is the part where u want me to take my clothes off and have sex with u”

i looked at this bytch like :gucci:….killed my boner and i said naw i dont want u to do anything…later find out the bytch was kinda off mentally…
 

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Leave any woman alone that keeps posting screenshots of "thirsty" men on his socials. Like, bytch STFU. Nobody wants your lame ass. Even the nikka that's hitting that damn sure don't really want serious attachments to that anyways. :mjlol:

Look, sexual harassment is real, but posting thirsty nikkaz doesn't truly validate these hoes as much as they think it does. Just makes them look like goofy bytches with nothing better to talk about on social media.:mjgrin:
I hate that too, as long as it’s a dude she’ll like it’s cool then
 
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