Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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True I just wanted to know what was the reason behind. I mean I’m not like missing her but I just wanted to hear from her reason but i deleted her off my snap since she soft blocked me off Twitter but it is what it is I guess so I will never find out.

my other exes I had before at least talked with me this this one Just suddenly dump me. What’s killing is me why not her dumping me smh

Focus on the what not the why

You were dumped. Why doesn't matter
 

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You know why she dumped you. You ain't want to get married or engaged so she determined it was a wrap. You probably could've kept her but you left her on read.
Lol true but my pride got in the way of me replying cause I was so angry :francis:
 

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Yeah it’s a result of online dating and people having options at their fingertips. Not much people can do to stop it except decide to only date one at a time. Which puts you at a disadvantage because the women you are dating won’t do the same for you.


Egggggsssactly.
 

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If a woman isn't dropping her hoes for you that you actually want to date then tf are you doing? That's not even worth your time and you should only be messing w/ her when you get the time or when you're bored.
 

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Damn everyone don’t live the life I live

cant talk to anyone because they don’t get the women
 

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True I just wanted to know what was the reason behind. I mean I’m not like missing her but I just wanted to hear from her reason but i deleted her off my snap since she soft blocked me off Twitter but it is what it is I guess so I will never find out.

my other exes I had before at least talked with me this this one Just suddenly dump me. What’s killing is me why not her dumping me smh


You have to find your own closure. I've gone through this multiple times this year. Best thing you can do is learn to make yourself happy and don't dwell on why someone doesn't want to be apart of your life anymore.
 

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I'd suggest to the younger dudes out here that it's actually better to wife your highschool sweetheart than to play the game.
Disagree.

Ya’ll gotta get the partying outta your systems. The house parties, clubbing, and bars every weekend phase. The one night stands. The guys’/girls’ trips. Seen these high school sweetheart relationships fall apart in their 20’s because they got cuffed too young and wanna see what else is out there.
 

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Disagree.

Ya’ll gotta get the partying outta your systems. The house parties, clubbing, and bars every weekend phase. The one night stands. The guys’/girls’ trips. Seen these high school sweetheart relationships fall apart in their 20’s because they got cuffed too young and wanna see what else is out there.

Absolutely valid. I say wife up your high school sweetheart because I've gone through the experience and learned it's not worth it. But it's not fair for me to say that to someone who hasn't experienced all of the above before.

I will say though if you're someone who is easily bothered by this "roster" stuff you see getting posted then it's probably best to settle down young. If you don't care then go crazy.
 

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Got another one last night.

If y’all need some advice please let me know. I’m here to help.
 

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Disagree.

Ya’ll gotta get the partying outta your systems. The house parties, clubbing, and bars every weekend phase. The one night stands. The guys’/girls’ trips. Seen these high school sweetheart relationships fall apart in their 20’s because they got cuffed too young and wanna see what else is out there.

These older generations get too much credit...

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I wish he didnt trust me so much

They were in all kinds of fukkery, but they went about it differently..

Settling down too young is a no go
 

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Disagree.

Ya’ll gotta get the partying outta your systems. The house parties, clubbing, and bars every weekend phase. The one night stands. The guys’/girls’ trips. Seen these high school sweetheart relationships fall apart in their 20’s because they got cuffed too young and wanna see what else is out there.
and a lot of these chics need to go through their hoe phase as do we. I'm dealing with a 26 year old who is likely just came out of hers within the last year and I got a 22 year old who I've smashed every single time we've linked up. Women are not going to have that energy forever so these young dudes need to be on it now. I'm not even there yet but I know trying to be a hoe in your 30s is going to be expensive and a lot of dudes entering the game late are going to be pissed off spending money on date after date. The older these women get the more they want you to show them something before you get the goods more often than not. All my quick kills have been early 20s. Later than that they want to know where shyt is going and make sure I wasn't going to smash and dash. They call it dating with "a purpose/intention" (Big exception to this rule is women on vacation, particularly girls trips at any age. They are down for whatever knowing damn well if you hit them up in their home town they'd have you jumping through hoops to smash)

if I setlled down young and came back to the game at my current age id be easily taken advantage of and going broke trying to date these broads :mjlol:
 

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These older generations get too much credit...

Secret lovers
Creep
I wish he didnt trust me so much

They were in all kinds of fukkery, but they went about it differently..

Settling down too young is a no go

difference was when the smoke settled they were still raise to assume their positions in judeochristian marriage. The issue is now folks arent groomed + the false sense of options
 
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