Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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the funny thing is, hobbies, getting my mind right, all these things I’ve been lining up for a long time, money or more specific a constant stream of high income is the one thing I’ve been aiming for so I can be as independent as I want to be. So to me it feels like the “final puzzle piece” because I have been “doing everything else.”

single women will always be there until the day you die no worries breh.
Enjoy life find a hobby or passion.

My hobbies is travel and photography. Covid nicked my travel but I've probably shot like 10 weddings past two months and I love it even just the editing afterwards.
 

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single women will always be there until the day you die no worries breh.
Enjoy life find a hobby or passion.

My hobbies is travel and photography. Covid nicked my travel but I've probably shot like 10 weddings past two months and I love it even just the editing afterwards.

I hear you trust me

I’ve been doing “hobbies” & “passions” that I enjoy. Still a nikka gotta get his nut off eventually, can’t just keep ignoring those urges with “hobbies” and “passions” after a certain point that’s like telling people “Just be confident!”

It’s the simple solution but only addresses the simple issues. Not one to jerk off too much because I notice my energy goes down and it’s low enough as is. And I’m not ready to blow the thousands I’m saving for a car and apartment on escorts just yet.

It’s a catch-22 breh where my only solution is to keep “doing my thing” until time rewards my efforts.
 

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I hear you trust me

I’ve been doing “hobbies” & “passions” that I enjoy. Still a nikka gotta get his nut off eventually, can’t just keep ignoring those urges with “hobbies” and “passions” after a certain point that’s like telling people “Just be confident!”

It’s the simple solution but only addresses the simple issues. Not one to jerk off too much because I notice my energy goes down and it’s low enough as is. And I’m not ready to blow the thousands I’m saving for a car and apartment on escorts just yet.

It’s a catch-22 breh where my only solution is to keep “doing my thing” until time rewards my efforts.

Honestly older I get I hate dating, I hate wasting unnecessary money I normally wouldn't spend. Like I was sorta dealing witht his chick last month everytime I met up with her just from gas, parking downtown, getting a bite to eat I was spending like 75 dollars :gucci:
 

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Breh this is the hardest part. Knowing that you are working towards something in a world that does not want to give you a chance because you don’t have “it” yet

:wow: At the same time I try to not focus too much on putting an “end goal” on these things, but still :blessed: I swear by next year breh I’ll finally have my own :blessed:
Long term mentality this is why they say men get better as they age. Eventually our time will come
 

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Hear me out brehs, don’t really have anywhere else to share

I am making a change in my life. For so long I believe I’ve let lust pull me to the point I suspect on an energy/vibe level women aren’t fukking with me. To solve this I am and have been getting my life together for the longest. Currently sending out resumes for a new job, making sure my health is on point, about to enter the fall with a new wardrobe. I’ve even unfollowed most of. It all the girls I knew on Instagram except the ones I’ve ever actually hung out with. Just want to know I’m on the right path because for some reason a nikka can’t get this part down right

You're on the right path, women will always be there, chase excellence, improve on all aspects, become a renaissance man of sorts. Everything else is noise.
 

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@buzzkill @Balla date went really well brehs. Went to the mall, idk if I got lucky or my glow up so well that I’m punching above my weight. Brehettes who were store workers were staring lol, my shorty cute and got a nice body. I’m not hideous now so idk shyts weird. Anyways, afterwards made out in my car in the parking lot of a theater for a good bit.
 

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I've had to do it from time to time. I just go into monk mode and get my shyt together. Last time I went into monk mode I doubled my salary... its worth it
This is what I’m about to do. I really had a revelation over the weekend. Going to take the next 2 months or so off from the dating scene and just focus on getting a new job where I can make better money than what I’m making. It’s just not fun going out and stressing over shyt like money. It’s time for a change
 

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@buzzkill @Balla date went really well brehs. Went to the mall, idk if I got lucky or my glow up so well that I’m punching above my weight. Brehettes who were store workers were staring lol, my shorty cute and got a nice body. I’m not hideous now so idk shyts weird. Anyways, afterwards made out in my car in the parking lot of a theater for a good bit.

I’m dead ass happy to hear you happy breh :obama::myman: fr
 

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This is what I’m about to do. I really had a revelation over the weekend. Going to take the next 2 months or so off from the dating scene and just focus on getting a new job where I can make better money than what I’m making. It’s just not fun going out and stressing over shyt like money. It’s time for a change

Not trying to date seriously or use social media until I get a new apartment, which will mean getting a new job.

We gon make it breh
 

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So two weeks ago my job hired this mixed broad…bytch was a open n freaky talkn…

gave me her # within 45 mins…gave me a lil hug 4 hours in…was talkn all sexual…in text this bytch is hela scary tho no pics…anyways we havnt kicked it yet at her apt


This stupid bytch got covid for the 3RD time!!!
Breh she givin numbers that fast, you really think she was worth anything besides a piece of slam ass? :usure:
 

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So two weeks ago my job hired this mixed broad…bytch was a open n freaky talkn…

gave me her # within 45 mins…gave me a lil hug 4 hours in…was talkn all sexual…in text this bytch is hela scary tho no pics…anyways we havnt kicked it yet at her apt


This stupid bytch got covid for the 3RD time!!!
Chill
 
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