Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Focus on your growth & stop stressing over these females. You can’t control that hoe. The stories I’ve been told by female associates were straight wild. A lot of you nikkas really be doing the most on some corny shyt. Most importantly stop telling these women everything regarding your life. I know way too much about most of these nikkas in my city & I don’t even know or fukk with em. We just fukk the same hoes haha
 

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My nikkaS! Just went on a date with this adorable 21 year old brehette! We saw Respect, late night last slot showing. Got some grub and made out like high schoolers at my place. Her folks think she was rollin solo dolo and her dad annoying with the texts.

So I had send her back home. Shorty got a body too! I’d make her queen but she major in news shyt. She wants to be an anchor. I hope she just becomes video editor so she doesn’t relocate and leave my goofy ass.
Slow down brotha u might end up like my boy in that silence after the 2nd date thread. :mjlol:

Keep that abundance mentality and go find another:jawalrus:
 

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Can you ever smash too many hoes that it affects your sexual life with regular chicks?

In the past 2 years I've been smashing nothing but hoes and have become use to the whole dynamic around it... fun, exciting, no commitment, on to the next one.

Now that im in a committed relationship which a cool chick i find it hard to enjoy the sex.

It's not bad and she legit one of the prettiest girls i've been with (face and body) but Lord it's a struggle sometimes to get turned on with her and i don't know why
 

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Can you ever smash too many hoes that it affects your sexual life with regular chicks?

In the past 2 years I've been smashing nothing but hoes and have become use to the whole dynamic around it... fun, exciting, no commitment, on to the next one.

Now that im in a committed relationship which a cool chick i find it hard to enjoy the sex.

It's not bad and she legit one of the prettiest girls i've been with (face and body) but Lord it's a struggle sometimes to get turned on with her and i don't know why
Oy
 

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too much overthinking in this thread. some of you brehs are being too hard on yourselves. relax.

smashed last night so I’m super high AF right now! here’s a couple bullet points…

#1 - Sex appeal. Maximize your looks and take good care of yourself. Hot girls hook up with hot guys. It's been this way since the beginning of time and it's called survival of the fittest.

#2 - Game. It’s just conversation. At the very least, 60% girl and 40% you. Learn how to listen. Girls will not sleep with you if they are emotionally uncomfortable. Be empathetic.

#3 - Humility. The more you fail, the better you will get. This is how confidence is built. Recognize your mistakes and make adjustments to correct them. If not, you’re back to square 1.
 

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Can you ever smash too many hoes that it affects your sexual life with regular chicks?

In the past 2 years I've been smashing nothing but hoes and have become use to the whole dynamic around it... fun, exciting, no commitment, on to the next one.

Now that im in a committed relationship which a cool chick i find it hard to enjoy the sex.

It's not bad and she legit one of the prettiest girls i've been with (face and body) but Lord it's a struggle sometimes to get turned on with her and i don't know why

thats the thing with sex, the more over exposed to something you are, you then move on to your next fix which is needed to get you off. This can lead you yo dark places. Sex was never meant to be a fun recreational game. :hubie: You gotta take what comes with your choices.
 

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Slow down brotha u might end up like my boy in that silence after the 2nd date thread. :mjlol:

Keep that abundance mentality and go find another:jawalrus:
The night before we FaceTime from like 11:30ish pm to 5:00ish am. Had shorty laughin and shyt. I’m not about to ask where we go from here and shyt :mjlol:.
 

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The night before we FaceTime from like 11:30ish pm to 5:00ish am. Had shorty laughin and shyt. I’m not about to ask where we go from here and shyt :mjlol:.
Damn that's a long ass time to be facetiming . i usually keep my phone and facetime convos to less than a hr especially if we havent met up or got physical yet. Just be careful about giving her too much free attention. Its a valuable resource. Make her work for it
 

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Damn that's a long ass time to be facetiming . i usually keep my phone and facetime convos to less than a hr especially if we havent met up or got physical yet. Just be careful about giving her too much free attention. Its a valuable resource. Make her work for it
You right but she been highly choosin on me. We have really good chemistry. She not a bird tho, I have dealt with many dumb hoes. Disappointments. This a girl I can actually have a future with and show to mama.
 

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too much overthinking in this thread. some of you brehs are being too hard on yourselves. relax.

smashed last night so I’m super high AF right now! here’s a couple bullet points…

#1 - Sex appeal. Maximize your looks and take good care of yourself. Hot girls hook up with hot guys. It's been this way since the beginning of time and it's called survival of the fittest.

#2 - Game. It’s just conversation. At the very least, 60% girl and 40% you. Learn how to listen. Girls will not sleep with you if they are emotionally uncomfortable. Be empathetic.

#3 - Humility. The more you fail, the better you will get. This is how confidence is built. Recognize your mistakes and make adjustments to correct them. If not, you’re back to square 1.
Good points. Number 1 is important. Not just for looks either. Try to maximize everything. Your looks, income, intelligence…invest in yourself heavy.
 
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