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A shory I've hit twice tried to get at me Friday and Saturday. Finally saw her yesterday.

Told me she went out with an older guy on Friday to arguable the top steakhouse in the city. Guy dropped 4-500 on her. While at dinner she was texting me to see her later that night. Told me she's never done shyt with the guy or even her type, but he's a decent conversation and will always hit her up to go to the finest restaurants. Asked her why she doesn't just go with her girls to which she said "I don't wanna pay that much money. He knows he's not getting anything from me. I could get money out of him if I wanted but he'll expect something in return"

Don't take these women to dinner brehs. nikkas dropping weekly paycheques on dinner for his date across the table who is texting to get her insides handled by a guy who just buys her Fiji water and Starbucks
 
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Any books written by pimps, player or wise men you recommend?

Everyone would agree, "Pimp the story of my life" by Iceberg Slim is the GOAT, and on youtube-audiobook





Whoreson - Donald Goines, strictly gorilla pimping, if thats your thing.

Everything else pimp wise, is too self serving, to the point of folklore. Slim and Goines, boil it all down to the visceral sinew of it all, the lows, the mids, and the best highs.

Besides that, I always read Sun Tzu (Art of War), Bruce Lee, Musashi (Book of Five Rings) Socrates, etc. The important part is that I subscribe to the ideology that men are better than women, not because we're stronger, but because we have to deal with a creature devoid of logic, that thrives off of emotion. The sure skill it takes to talk your way into anything, women will never know, so they'll never understand what it means to rule, win, and or struggle, truly struggle, to maintain a level of excellence and logic, that makes us winners, millionaires, and masters. Like I always say, I ain't never seen a pimp with a six pack....
 

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Nah not yet

What ya'll think? It should be the chick pushing for the relationship or it doesn't matter?


They're pushing it in their own passive aggressive way. In the end, they're emotion driven creatures, they want a title, even though its as worthless as a diamond. Just be a leader, present a standard for her to follow, and she'll fall in line. If she wants something, demand for something twice as valuable. Your time is valuable, hers is not. Unless shes running for senate or a career that will uplift her out of anything, she's got nothing to bring to the table besides sex....and lets be honest, I got websites that take care of that, p*ssy isn't a level for me, its default. If she's not giving me her time, money, gifts, driving me around, etc. Why would I give her a title? Why would I even listen to her?
 

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A shory I've hit twice tried to get at me Friday and Saturday. Finally saw her yesterday.

Told me she went out with an older guy on Friday to arguable the top steakhouse in the city. Guy dropped 4-500 on her. While at dinner she was texting me to see her later that night. Told me she's never done shyt with the guy or even her type, but he's a decent conversation and will always hit her up to go to the finest restaurants. Asked her why she doesn't just go with her girls to which she said "I don't wanna pay that much money. He knows he's not getting anything from me. I could get money out of him if I wanted but he'll expect something in return"

Don't take these women to dinner brega==ha. nikkas dropping weekly paycheques on dinner for his date across the table who is texting to get her insides handled by a guy who just buys her Fiji water and Starbucks

Sounds like you're pimping just fine, make sure she always brings you a steak of dessert. Honestly, if she's already presenting ho-ish moves, I'm down for it, even better if shes only fukking you. Win/win for me. Simps are gonna simps, squares are gonna mark up, might as well get payed for it, while laughing at them.
 

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They weren't the first to discover it, they were the first that it worked on. Before pimps were pimps and kings were kings. There was a man that said "I can make your p*ssy worth more than you could ever". They discovered simps existed and will give them money for even the slightest attention, but men developed themselves to be stoic, cold, and efficient. They knew whatever the izm was, they wanted some of that. So they cosigned with club owners, pimps, and kings to get their scratch. Men developed the system, the tactic, and the will. Women spotted red pill/alphas first, that's for sure. But they never developed or discovered the red pill first.
 

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Everyone would agree, "Pimp the story of my life" by Iceberg Slim is the GOAT, and on youtube-audiobook





Whoreson - Donald Goines, strictly gorilla pimping, if thats your thing.

Everything else pimp wise, is too self serving, to the point of folklore. Slim and Goines, boil it all down to the visceral sinew of it all, the lows, the mids, and the best highs.

Besides that, I always read Sun Tzu (Art of War), Bruce Lee, Musashi (Book of Five Rings) Socrates, etc. The important part is that I subscribe to the ideology that men are better than women, not because we're stronger, but because we have to deal with a creature devoid of logic, that thrives off of emotion. The sure skill it takes to talk your way into anything, women will never know, so they'll never understand what it means to rule, win, and or struggle, truly struggle, to maintain a level of excellence and logic, that makes us winners, millionaires, and masters. Like I always say, I ain't never seen a pimp with a six pack....


Pimp is my top 3 book of all-time.

I'm all for books that deal with the psychology of one's mind and applying it with success, whether it be women or everyday life. Never heard of Mushashi though.

Anything in particular on Bruce Lee?

Sounds like you're pimping just fine, make sure she always brings you a steak of dessert. Honestly, if she's already presenting ho-ish moves, I'm down for it, even better if shes only fukking you. Win/win for me. Simps are gonna simps, squares are gonna mark up, might as well get payed for it, while laughing at them.

Nah I need more hoes lol. I should be approaching more hoes in public lol
 
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They weren't the first to discover it, they were the first that it worked on. Before pimps were pimps and kings were kings. There was a man that said "I can make your p*ssy worth more than you could ever". They discovered simps existed and will give them money for even the slightest attention, but men developed themselves to be stoic, cold, and efficient. They knew whatever the izm was, they wanted some of that. So they cosigned with club owners, pimps, and kings to get their scratch. Men developed the system, the tactic, and the will. Women spotted red pill/alphas first, that's for sure. But they never developed or discovered the red pill first.
I disagree. By the time a girl turns 4, she already know how to manipulate men. Women own the game, but we navigate it by using our traits to get as much p*ssy as we can without wasting resources. It's fine if don't believe women created the philosophy, but you at least gotta admit the mastered it.

That podcast was very interesting mane, and it confirmed some of the stuff I already knew. I highly recommend it
 

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Sounds like you're complaining about a booty call+...Either way, focus on yourself. Develop hobbies, workout, read, and self amuse. You don't have to "kick" the situation, just learn to control it more. Behavioral psychology is the only psychology I believe in, because if it works on children, it'll work on women. Punish bad behavior, reward the good. Mixed signals only work against those who allow it. You set the parameters, you create the standards, and if she refuses, remove yourself from the equation. Iceing birds is always fun, its essentially time-out for "adults". She'll learn and her bad habits will tend to come around less. Either way, you decide the level of your involvement and the entry to your happiness.


How soon do you start implementing that? Like I’ve checked bytches off a dating app within an hour and they unmatched. But I’ve obviously done it to someone after months and they listened.

So when is the right time you think where it’s good to apply those parameters?
 

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I disagree. By the time a girl turns 4, she already know how to manipulate men. Women own the game, but we navigate it by using our traits to get as much p*ssy as we can without wasting resources. It's fine if don't believe women created the philosophy, but you at least gotta admit the mastered it.

That podcast was very interesting mane, and it confirmed some of the stuff I already knew. I highly recommend it

Manipulation and game are two different things. A hoe is nothing without a pimp. This is shown in everything from sex, to rap. Can a girl make money selling her p*ssy on her own? Of course, but never at the price and clientele that a man can provide. Women made men create the game, they didn't discover it all, they were just using p*ssy on simps, and never to achieve status. And when they did (Cleopatra) it was to old men who had nothing left. Throughout history its been the same story, women meander lowering the value of their highest commodity till a man comes through and shows them the angles. There's a reason women don't play chess.
 

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Pimp is my top 3 book of all-time.

I'm all for books that deal with the psychology of one's mind and applying it with success, whether it be women or everyday life. Never heard of Mushashi though.

Anything in particular on Bruce Lee?

The book of five rings (Musashi) is more about ego death and to be truly stoic. It was basically frame building/maintaining, before it even became known. Musashi was all about the focus of oneself. The book Earth;

  1. "Do not think dishonestly."
  2. "The Way is in training."
  3. "Become acquainted with every art."
  4. "Know the Ways of all professions"
  5. "Distinguish between gain and loss in worldly matters."
  6. "Develop an intuitive judgement and understanding for everything."
  7. "Perceive those things which cannot be seen."
  8. "Pay attention even to trifles."
  9. "Do nothing which is of no use."
Obviously he was a hard dude, nobody touched the mastering of frame like he did. As for Bruce, the Tao of Jeet Kune Do pretty much boils everything down to the essentials.
 

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How soon do you start implementing that? Like I’ve checked bytches off a dating app within an hour and they unmatched. But I’ve obviously done it to someone after months and they listened.

So when is the right time you think where it’s good to apply those parameters?

As soon as the first date. Don't think like a hammer, but instead, a multi-tool. You should always have levels to everything, from her responses to her attempting to overstep. You have to be righteous and not a merry andrew, no one wants to be seduced or lead by a fool. Command reverence with all things. For example, I know I'm not a funny guy, at all, but I always say fukked up shyt, people enjoy this, they laugh, etc, but they also know it comes from a place wherein they can't possibly stop me. I do and say things without "asking permission". I don't care about hurt feelings, I penetrate the scene and the rest is up to whomever I'm talking to. This is a psychological tactic tha does two things; make people surrender to my presence (because if you're gonna stay, you have to put up with all the crazy and crass things I say), and more importantly, attaches them to me for both blame and someone to follow i.e. "I didn't say it, he did". Its a feedback loop.

With women its the same, the minute she's with you,she knows what comes and whats going to be said. You have to be steadfast, and not just think, but believe in everything you say. When your presence is gone, she'll feel it, and when you punish bad behavior, she'll correct herself. People love structure and willpower, since many lack both, so when they see it, they get envious(to which they'll never admit), that envy creates a bond, like a drill sergeant to his troops, sure he can be a yelling son of a bytch, but he knows the way, and sees it in all things, his commands are my success.
 

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As soon as the first date. Don't think like a hammer, but instead, a multi-tool. You should always have levels to everything, from her responses to her attempting to overstep. You have to be righteous and not a merry andrew, no one wants to be seduced or lead by a fool. Command reverence with all things. For example, I know I'm not a funny guy, at all, but I always say fukked up shyt, people enjoy this, they laugh, etc, but they also know it comes from a place wherein they can't possibly stop me. I do and say things without "asking permission". I don't care about hurt feelings, I penetrate the scene and the rest is up to whomever I'm talking to. This is a psychological tactic tha does two things; make people surrender to my presence (because if you're gonna stay, you have to put up with all the crazy and crass things I say), and more importantly, attaches them to me for both blame and someone to follow i.e. "I didn't say it, he did". Its a feedback loop.

With women its the same, the minute she's with you,she knows what comes and whats going to be said. You have to be steadfast, and not just think, but believe in everything you say. When your presence is gone, she'll feel it, and when you punish bad behavior, she'll correct herself. People love structure and willpower, since many lack both, so when they see it, they get envious(to which they'll never admit), that envy creates a bond, like a drill sergeant to his troops, sure he can be a yelling son of a bytch, but he knows the way, and sees it in all things, his commands are my success.

you say you’ll say outlandish things and they’ll gravitate towards you. How and why do you think they view as funny and not as a clown? I used to joke around a lot til I read and realized there’s a thin line between being funny and a clown. So I’ve put it down a bit. Keep it more serious and throw in humour at the right times

you say if you punish bad behaviour she’ll correct herself. I’ve attempted that a few times and it didn’t go the right way. I believe I did later on after a few acts of bad behaviour so I probably wasn’t taken seriously to which they lashed out


Can't get good at striking if you haven't practice a punch a thousand times. The same applies for game, it also helps you deal with her trying to break your frame or looking for holes in your ideology. Unfortunately for all the ho's out there, I play chess, so I'm always levels ahead of any bird. Though I do love how defeated they look when I tell them "Name three Chess pieces". So yes, a developed game plan is better than winging it, that doesn't mean you should ever delete the "no plan" game plan, for every scenario there should be a plan A,B, and C...and then there's the no fukks given portion in between all of those.

what are the game plans you have when approaching these how’s?

keep up the game g
 

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you say you’ll say outlandish things and they’ll gravitate towards you. How and why do you think they view as funny and not as a clown? I used to joke around a lot til I read and realized there’s a thin line between being funny and a clown. So I’ve put it down a bit. Keep it more serious and throw in humour at the right times

I border between dark humor and roasting people, so its less wacky and zany and more throwing out a few jabs, or more often than not, my sarcasm is seen as "funny" aka let me laugh more so than agree or else I'll look bad. I'm not Tom Green or a member of jackass, I'm not there to be a stunt dummy or a comedian, make em laugh with you, never at you.

you say if you punish bad behaviour she’ll correct herself. I’ve attempted that a few times and it didn’t go the right way. I believe I did later on after a few acts of bad behaviour so I probably wasn’t taken seriously to which they lashed out


what are the game plans you have when approaching these how’s?

keep up the game g

Ultimately it has to begin the minute you meet up. She has to understand that you're the authority, not the magic 8 ball, in other words, you're not "suggesting" but instead commanding/presenting. Start small, usually the "hand of god" move always works, grab her hand randomly, and lead her to a familiar spot you know of, for me its Central Park, I'm familiar with the area, so I can lead her to a nice secluded spot with a lovely view. Moves like this don't give her choice to say no, its also an unfamiliar area for her so she'll have zero option to protest.

Everything you do, should let her know, both physically and psychologically, that shes under your dominance, and so, from the small, comes the big, whenever you don't like something she does, say; she mentions an ex? Tell flatly, that you don't want to hear her talking about anyone but you or her silly friends. If she keeps doing it, you remove a common touch or simply ignore her, she'll pout, or even get mad, it doesn't matter. If shes with you, she has to follow protocol or she loses out on fun.
 
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Crazy how flaky some of these women can be especially on dating apps. You can be having a cool convo with them and it's going well and they're clearly interested in you then an hour later they have deleted the app or unmatched. Bumble shows you when they deleted their account and then you be seeing them on there again a few days later :russ:
 
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