Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Another dangerous factor; time + proximity, sure she can google how much doctors make, but when she's constantly around you, its you who matters. Women don't know what they want (as shown by birds fumbling the bag for clout, vindication, and revenge), so money is out of the equation. However, they know what they like; and its a man who's cooler than them, who can hold a conversation, who is all about his own excellence. A title + money is just a bag, women only crave attention and a leader, they'll follow some dumpey 5'5 guy into having babies with them, simply off of proximity.

Thats a fact.
Some of these women at work got husbands and one asked me Wednesday am i a grower or show-er (nigerian), another asked if im in love with her (cuban), another be making sexual innuendos and droppin me off after work (white) etc. and they all got husbands.

When you the cool dude at work that get the female attention, shyt be different for these women since she proly see you more than they dude at home.

Don't let her dude be gettin on her nerves or not exciting her at home...she gone look forward to seeing the funny cool dude when she gets back to work.
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Friend of mines luck with women is just abysmal. Just this year his seen his ex pop back up happy and pregnant by her ex, now current boyfriend.

Chick he was into for a while who he finally approached and asked out for a date, went on one date with him, kissed him then curved him when he tried to setup another one. I didn't tell him but I saw that chick back on Tinder with a new profile.

And his current one. His FWB who his been seeing on and off for a year, told him two weeks ago that sex was off the table as she needed to "gather herself and concentrate on other things". Yesterday she pops up on IG showing off her new man. He did tell her that he wasn't looking for a relationship but he said it still kinda hurt his ego to see this.

Now his down to one chick he sees very sporadically. Like one every three months if that.

He knows what he needs to do. I cant make him approach chicks.

Lol this is "abysmal"? :skip:

I haven't had sex in 5 years :martin:















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@Killigraphy you should write a book, or monetize the gems you drop w/ social media.

I'm not saying anything new or that pimps, players, and wise men haven't already preached about....though I am thinking some kind of reference guide is needed for this and the era to come, especially in the castrated culture that we're in....I honestly can't imagine how hard men of the next gen are gonna have it.
 

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Do any of guys think it's possible to have an "ugly name"?

Ladies, what do you think of guys who have unflattering names?

I have a friend who thinks his name might be cockblocking him. Like sometimes when he tells people his name, they give him a confused look. They'll even tell him sometimes that it's a strange name. He's thinking about straight up getting name change. It's causing him slight anxiety now whenever he has to repeat it. Have any of you dealt with this before?
 

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I'm not saying anything new or that pimps, players, and wise men haven't already preached about....though I am thinking some kind of reference guide is needed for this and the era to come, especially in the castrated culture that we're in....I honestly can't imagine how hard men of the next gen are gonna have it.

next generation gone be like what this one is; pulling numbers won't exist and it'll be "whats yo' IG?" "you got a snap?"
Brehs is antisocial and only the thugs/hood brehs talking to women in the physical while everybody wanna message/facetime online.
 

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I have never wanted a girl I been dating to be my girlfriend this bad since H.S :francis:



I literally can't find any flaws, body insane, always available to see me witout bullshyt, into fitness, nuturing :damn:

There's always a flaw and or red flag....trust me, or don't, but through my many years dealing with women (even the great ones) they all have something, whether its an addiction, health, or daddy issue. Its there, you're just a bit delusional, and that's a okay...for now, but if you're gonna make serious moves with her, you need to know who she actually is. Yes I've heard it all before "She's the one", "shes different", "I love her more than the others", only to have their hearts thrown in a blender set on frappe. Don't look for flaws, thats not the trick, pay attention to what she tells you first, basically, notice the bread crumbs first.
 

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Do any of guys think it's possible to have an "ugly name"?

Ladies, what do you think of guys who have unflattering names?

I have a friend who thinks his name might be cockblocking him. Like sometimes when he tells people his name, they give him a confused look. They'll even tell him sometimes that it's a strange name. He's thinking about straight up getting name change. It's causing him slight anxiety now whenever he has to repeat it. Have any of you dealt with this before?

Women not gone be in this topic breh.
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and tell breh to tell chicks his nickname or middle name
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Its proly you tho
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Do any of guys think it's possible to have an "ugly name"?

Ladies, what do you think of guys who have unflattering names?

I have a friend who thinks his name might be cockblocking him. Like sometimes when he tells people his name, they give him a confused look. They'll even tell him sometimes that it's a strange name. He's thinking about straight up getting name change. It's causing him slight anxiety now whenever he has to repeat it. Have any of you dealt with this before?

Sure. The same works for women; Phyllis, Gertrude, anything dominican, girls with stripper names; Destiny, Krystal, Diamond, Sapphire,etc. Really just tells me their parents are hood morons....its like they want their daughters strictly working the pole.

Whats his name? I doubt its that bad, I've met a Kalrissian (parents were fans of Star Wars) and an Abu Jafar.....no I'm not joking. Honestly I would just tell him to go with a nickname, or change his name if its bothering him that much. To be fair, women will fukk anything, regardless of name.
 

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There's always a flaw and or red flag....trust me, or don't, but through my many years dealing with women (even the great ones) they all have something, whether its an addiction, health, or daddy issue. Its there, you're just a bit delusional, and that's a okay...for now, but if you're gonna make serious moves with her, you need to know who she actually is. Yes I've heard it all before "She's the one", "shes different", "I love her more than the others", only to have their hearts thrown in a blender set on frappe. Don't look for flaws, thats not the trick, pay attention to what she tells you first, basically, notice the bread crumbs first.

yep.
Everything seem good at first but you gotta let women show their true colors.
Sometimes brehs gotta sit back and think while they got free time about the actions these broads be showing them over time
 

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yep.
Everything seem good at first but you gotta let women show their true colors.
Sometimes brehs gotta sit back and think while they got free time about the actions these broads be showing them over time

I guarantee you he hasn't asked her some deep/dark questions about her character or anything she's done thats fukked. Even the most quietest birds, have something. From stripping, to fukking drug dealers, to getting beat(by said dealer) to getting jail time. Google has helped me garner plenty of info on birds, especially those who've been to jail before.
 

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Thats a fact.
Some of these women at work got husbands and one asked me Wednesday am i a grower or show-er (nigerian), another asked if im in love with her (cuban), another be making sexual innuendos and droppin me off after work (white) etc. and they all got husbands.

When you the cool dude at work that get the female attention, shyt be different for these women since she proly see you more than they dude at home.

Don't let her dude be gettin on her nerves or not exciting her at home...she gone look forward to seeing the funny cool dude when she gets back to work.
:shaq:
Lol this is fun to experience until ur girl does it to u.
 

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Sure. The same works for women; Phyllis, Gertrude, anything dominican, girls with stripper names; Destiny, Krystal, Diamond, Sapphire,etc. Really just tells me their parents are hood morons....its like they want their daughters strictly working the pole.

Whats his name? I doubt its that bad, I've met a Kalrissian (parents were fans of Star Wars) and an Abu Jafar.....no I'm not joking. Honestly I would just tell him to go with a nickname, or change his name if its bothering him that much. To be fair, women will fukk anything, regardless of name.

It's not that bad but I've seen a chick do the "ew" face when he said his name once. Dude is competent with women but we're wondering if it's possible his name could be hindering his progress.
 
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