Yeah man. There was a thread made the other day about, "what's one thing you wish you would have kept from your teens"?
I wasn't serious, but my answer was "my ignorance of woman's true behavior".
I will never love a chic the way I loved when I was a teen and didn't know any better. I will never trust a chic as much as I did in my teens.
I know too much now. But yeah, you def have to keep that "male edge" even when you're married. I've seen so many men lose that, and get domesticated.
That’s the thing....a man can get married but it has to be under the right conditions:
- she is fully submitted to you
- her hypergamous nature is heavily subdued (this i believe is possible if you’re always on your game striving to be your best self everyday)
- she respects you
- you’re really attracted to her and she maintains or atleast tries to maintain her level of attractiveness
- she is feminine and has nurturing qualities that you believe will make her a good mother to your kids
These are the only conditions that will make a marriage successful imo.
Alotta dudes want that but don’t get it because they end up being married to a woman who viewed him as plan b/c/d, they overlook/ignore red flags because she is really attractive, they have a low self-esteem or they’re just pa simp/emasculated/weak dude.
Men should never be domesticated. Its not in our nature...just like monogamy isn’t in our nature.
Imagine lettin a weaker species soften and domesticate you and you allowing it because its what’s normal and acceptable. Or because that’s what society, the movies, your friends and women tell/show you.
